Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[Fluffy:3]

Well, I really want to tell my crush that I like him, but I don't want our already amazing friendship to crash or be awkward. I've liked him for over three years now and we've only been good friends since the beginning of this school year. Any advice on if I should tell him or how?

[LuvFinnick123]

ahem.
i have a long rant-ish & very confused post.

so to start off, i'll introduce some people.
there is pear, my crush. i dont really know him, but he is good friends w/ my friend dav.
dav is a close friend, we go home & go to school together.
then there is papi, my close friend.

anyways, let's go through some events.
- in december he talked to me once / twice, which was very awkward & i left after a few minutes of conversation. he knows who i am. he knows i like him.
- 2 weeks ago i was out in the little court that my friends & i always hang out in. he gets out of an early-bird class in the morning, & heads off to his group of friends in the same court. i went to the girls pe locker room, & came out, his group of friends were no where to be seen. i thought nothing of it, & we talked a bit outside. i noticed them in the sort of corner, but they weren't very close.
i then go into the orchestra room at the last few minutes before the bell, right by the doorway. i hear some people talking behind me, but think nothing of it. however, when the bell rings & i turn around there he is with all of his friends grinning, & then they leave in a bit of a rush.
- on monday i was again out in the court, & i was hanging around with my friends, his group a little to the right of me. i was facing papi & she said that his friends & himself were pointing & staring at me.
- on tuesday i was in the orchestra room, & went to go hug papi. my head was turned towards the doorway, & who would have guessed...there he was with one of his friends grinning & staring at me.
- nothing really happened on wednesday besides my friends telling me there was more staring going on
- on thursday we had a benefit concert. sitting in my orchestra section i sort of had a nice view of him in the choir section |D i couldnt help but glance over every now & again, & i swear half the time i looked over we shared glances.
- nothing really happened today, except his group kept creeping closer to my group. eventually they were only a few feet behind us.
- he's approached my friends before, but never me. he said hello to my friend shannon, & hello to my other friend sam. they always hang out with me in the morning.
- everytime i see him he seems to veer in the other direction. at lunch today i was at a vending machine { there are 2 snack ones against the wall }. he first joined my line, but then went to the other one. both lines had about the same amount of people.

i know im probably making a big deal about this, but it's really been confusing me.
it wasn't just this week that he's stared or pointed, he's done it before. i just don't know what to make of it. im paranoid that this might mean that he's making fun of me because of the fact that i have a crush on him? or that it's a joke to him? or perhaps it means he likes me? i really don't know, & i'm utterly confused & lost.
i was going to ask dav if she could possibly ask him about it, but i'm not sure how i'd word it without it sounding super stalk-ish or obsessive ;n;

so yeah, any advice on what to do ? how to react to it? maybe what to ask dav to ask him about it? does anyone have anything that has happened similar?

Something like this happened to me a few weeks ago. So, N has science before me and I was waiting outside the classroom by the door to go inside. (The teachers make us wait outside until they let us in) And N comes out and he stands there for a few seconds and looks at me like I'm insane. And I was just like
"What?"
But I'm not sure if he heard me. I was kind of quiet and he was walking away.
So the next day in Math, we were waiting outside the door and he was like
"Hello, L (Just using the first letter of my username)"
and I was like
"Hi."
So then he started teasing me about something (I wasn't listening very well) and I just asked him.
"Why did you look at me like I was insane the other day when you were coming out of science?"
And he said
"Well, you were just standing there,"
And I said.
"Yeah, cause' I was waiting to get in the classroom,"
Him- "......"

So I think you should just ask him
"Hey, Why have you been staring at my group of friends?"

[vanilla kitten]

i think i like you.
i mean i kissed you. a lot.
well i mean you kissed me first but, yanno.
i did it back.
but seriously. i dont know.
why should i trust you?
everybody says youre a player. but i knew that already.
you weren't before, though.
you can change once, you can change again.
maybe.

i dont even know why i care.
you're most likely not going to be my boyfriend for much longer.
i'm just waiting for you to tell me.
its over.
were done.
im breaking up with you.

you must be desperate.
dating me.
funny joke, kid. funny.
hahahahaha.
lucky for us..

one of us knows how to not care.
but still.
maybe one of us does.

and maybe i'm wrong.
maybe you really feel this way.
i dont know how i feel yet. i cant be sure.
i mean i think.
then i think again..

whatever. there are two things i know for sure;
- i enjoyed it when we made out kissed.
- i need aspirin. ;u;

[Mako.]

Hey guys, looking for some advice!

So, I've told you about my crush already. To me, kinda like a match made in heaven. Anyways, I've liked him for a few months now, and now, I'm considering telling him I like him. I want to say it in the least awkward position, cause well, he's my best guy friend, and I don't want to ruin our friendship. I'm planning on telling him spring break, so he has a good week to think about it.

So, how should I tell him?

(I apoligize if there are any typos, I'm in my iPod with dumb autocorrect on.)

Thank you guys for the advice so far, anyone else have any more ideas? I want to have a variety to chose from so I can find the best method of telling him ^^

[FoxScarf]

So, I finally got up the nerve to tell my crush, whom I've been posting about for almost freakin' everyday, that I like him, through text. I went about it somewhat like this:

Heeeey(: So, there's something I need to tell you, so text me when you can, kay? o:

What 0:

So, R told me that you'd said you'd liked me. /).(\

I didn't tell her anything like that. >.>

That's what she said that B told her. o;

Well I don't talk to them about stuff like that anymore. >.<

Well.... truth is, I think I kinda like you... /).(\

And then, he stopped answering. I mean, c'mon dude, I get being nervous but when we're together you SERIOUSLY act like you like me; holding my hands and hugging me more than you should and laughing together about nothing. Don't act like you like me, and then run away when I bring it up. Being shy is adorable to some extent, but this freaking anticipation is killing me. You either like me or you don't, but please don't ignore me. I need to know, because I need to be able to know if I need to move on or not.

Love,
Cherry. <3

[kelly.]

So, I finally got up the nerve to tell my crush, whom I've been posting about for almost freakin' everyday, that I like him, through text. I went about it somewhat like this:

Heeeey(: So, there's something I need to tell you, so text me when you can, kay? o:

What 0:

So, R told me that you'd said you'd liked me. /).(\

I didn't tell her anything like that. >.>

That's what she said that B told her. o;

Well I don't talk to them about stuff like that anymore. >.<

Well.... truth is, I think I kinda like you... /).(\

And then, he stopped answering. I mean, c'mon dude, I get being nervous but when we're together you SERIOUSLY act like you like me; holding my hands and hugging me more than you should and laughing together about nothing. Don't act like you like me, and then run away when I bring it up. Being shy is adorable to some extent, but this freaking anticipation is killing me. You either like me or you don't, but please don't ignore me. I need to know, because I need to be able to know if I need to move on or not.

Love,
Cherry. <3

If he keeps on not answering, then you should go up to him in real life and ask if he likes you back. Since he doesn't answer over text, then maybe he will answer in real life

[Cukee]

Me and a boy in class like eachother. We flirt, smile, joke, chat, and he somehow is always close to me.
But she keeps getting in the way. Shes wayyy more popular, ane when ever I get close to telling hom how I feel, she comesin and he falls for her. She dosent even have a crush on him. She is doing it because she knows I like him.
Oh well.
But its not fun being second best.

[kelly.]

-Le story-

The only thing that I'm scared about is that what if he doesn't like me? My friend HL asked 16 if he liked me and he asked as a friend or GF, and she said GF and he said No. I think HL's going to ask him again though.

I'm not sure

Me and 16 are putting like notes into eachothers lockers and when we were texting he made the kissy face with emojis a couple times, but I don't know if he meant it.

We're actually video chatting a lot as well as texting c: We chatted for like 2 hours yesterday and 2 hours the day before that :3 Yesterday we were singing and he said he can't sing but I tried to make him hehe. And I sang too, which I usually don't do in front of people

unless hes a total flirt or an alien O_o I think he likes you it sounds like he does and if he said he didn't the first tim maybe he was just shy or didn't want to tell HL....

Well we were talking over video chat and he said he didn't have any friends or anything, but we were talking about it and he said me and my friends were like popular and stuff and when he was in elementary school he wasn't that popular. I don't think he's a flirt though XD

What do you think I should do to see if he likes me again? Should I tell him or get my friend to tell him that I like him?

Okay, so 16 asked out this girl a couple days earlier and she said yes :c But I barely see 16 and his gf talk. He posted this pic saying tonight at exactly midnight, you must text me a paragraph stating how you honestly feel about me. The rules were you have to be completely honest, you have to send it exactly at midnight or before, the text will be a secret, and a reply back is guaranteed. Oh and I think 16 and his gf broke up since she isn't in his bio anymore but he is in her bio. Anyways, should I tell him how I really feel? It'll be really awkward if he doesn't like me back though.

[~NoeyyIzzaBeast]

I would tell him. ;o

[ever after;]

[quote="DisabledDinosaur]Okay, so 16 asked out this girl a couple days earlier and she said yes :c But I barely see 16 and his gf talk. He posted this pic saying tonight at exactly midnight, you must text me a paragraph stating how you honestly feel about me. The rules were you have to be completely honest, you have to send it exactly at midnight or before, the text will be a secret, and a reply back is guaranteed. Oh and I think 16 and his gf broke up since she isn't in his bio anymore but he is in her bio. Anyways, should I tell him how I really feel? It'll be really awkward if he doesn't like me back though.[/quote]

If I were you I would tell him.(: