Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[hawkeye.]

There's something that's bothering me.

My crush and a small group of our friends like to walk down to a general store after a day playing sports. This week, he had forgotten his money. Since he was asking if anybody could lend him a dollar (we're all a very closely knit group and he's extremely trustworthy), I offered to lend him the money. He seemed grateful at first. Later, though, at the store, I was passing by when he was talking to his friend, seeing if he could borrow a dollar from him. This was before I lent him anything. Anyways, his friend said, "No, you'll have to borrow it from her." By her, I was the only possible person. I was the only one who brought extra money, and there are only two girls. Then my crush whispered a frustrated, "No!"

I didn't mean to eavesdrop or anything; I was just passing by. Do any of you think the "no" meant anything, good or bad? Or am I simply overthinking? Any guys that could help me out? Thanks.

[kay.]

How do you help a hopeless romantic? It's not me, or a friend. It's a boy in my class, let's call him H. His ginormous crush is my friend called A.

Today, H wrote on his hand, 'A----' (- For the rest of the name) with hearts around it and the 'i' in the name hearted (The dot was a mini heart). It seemed quite cute... although hopeless.

You see, H is... not exactly - attractive. Or nice to the teachers or some of the classmates. I'll check tomorrow, but I think A is in a relationship now. Not many chance of getting together. A knows H has a crush on her - he told other people about some stuff (He imagines her n... which is not a rude word but inappropriate), and they told her. But with the hand thing it was quite... (Thinks of a word to descibe it).

I'm wondering whether to help him, but how? And should I?

[sparrow]

Alright, I have a problem.
Say my crush's name is L(it's not, but whatever)
L and I used to be good friends for years. I was building up courage to tell him I like him. Then, L and I got into a huge fight. Now L is not talking to me. I've sent him emails and everything apoligising, but still no answer. What do I do?

[Lazy9248]

There's a Sadie Hawkins dance at our school next Saturday... No big deal right? But for those that don't know, Sadie Hawkins is a girls ask the guys thing... And it's the night the walking dead starts again should I ask my crush and go with him? It's Highschool so I'm pretty sure it'll be all freshies there with their friends... But who knows, it might be fun... Should I ask my crush to go with me? at the very least we could go as friends even... Idk

[StreamWolf]

Hi guys!
It's very rare that something in my social life goes my way but...
Ok, so I had this crush on D in my PE class who I caught staring at me countless times. His friends moved to a new PE class leaving him alone with me and my friends. The last 3 days we spent the whole class with him and for once I wasn't trying to think of clever things to say, they came naturally! I had him laughing nearly the whole time! Then, we had to run a little bit in order to reach our goal in track so when I started running, he would make excuses to run beside me. D's eyes were on me the whole class and he was flirting a little. He even challenged me to a race which we tyed on and we were laughing so hard at the end. So...do you guys think this means he likes me?

[hawkeye.]

I did have a really long story but my iPod decided to delete it so I'll just ask the question: what is you guys' opinion on girls asking guys out? My crush is rather shy and unlikely to ask me out anytime soon (although I do now have proof, albeit secondhand, that he likes me quite a bit-that was what the story was on) and I'm debating asking him out but I'm not sure I would have the confidence... My other problem is that he is my first crush and I've always been brought up believing that the guy should ask the girl out but I don't want to be waiting forever...

The guy ask girl thing is another stereotype. The courageous man gathers his courage to tell the shy girl of his love. This may be what many people think of, but that doesn't mean we have to abide by it. If you feel confident and think that he won't be approaching you anytime soon, go for it. I wish you all the luck.

Really need help, out of ideas
What questions can you ask in 20 questions thing? My crush keeps suggesting we play, but im running low on questions (by text)

To play 20 Q's, one person comes up with a word/ thing and the other asks questions to guess what that is. You may have a different game in mind. If not, any word is okay. The more random, the more fun.

So the guy I like is giving me the silent treatment? He replies to my parents, but ignores my texts?

He told my mom that I crack him up, but why isn't he replying to me? ;n; I don't text him everyday and bug him or anything, since this whole silent treatment started happening I just text him maybe every 3-4 days to see if he's done lol.

I asked a friend who'd been in several relationships with older guys, and she told me he's playing hard to get. My mom thinks he might as well but told me not to ignore him (which is what my friend told me to do) when he comes to visit on the 10th.

She told me if he has me walk him to his car when he leaves I should kiss him. But honestly I'm a gigantic chicken when it comes to that (I know I shouldn't be, but I am) because I'm always afraid I'll do something wrong or mess it up somehow.

Ugh, I just don't know what to do anymore. ;n;

Your mom has more experience; follow her advice. Don't be too worried or needy if he's playing it that way. If you feel uncomfortable with kissing, then settle for something more subtle. Or, you could give him a little peck on the cheek. I'm sorry that it's not great advice, but I hope it helps.

I have a question of my own:

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There's something that's bothering me.

My crush and a small group of our friends like to walk down to a general store after a day playing sports. This week, he had forgotten his money. Since he was asking if anybody could lend him a dollar (we're all a very closely knit group and he's extremely trustworthy), I offered to lend him the money. He seemed grateful at first. Later, though, at the store, I was passing by when he was talking to his friend, seeing if he could borrow a dollar from him. This was before I lent him anything. Anyways, his friend said, "No, you'll have to borrow it from her." By her, I was the only possible person. I was the only one who brought extra money, and there are only two girls. Then my crush whispered a frustrated, "No!"

I didn't mean to eavesdrop or anything; I was just passing by. What do you think the "no" meant, good or bad? Or am I simply overthinking? Any guys that could help me out? Thanks.

[StreamWolf]

To be honest, I think he's too shy to talk to you. Maybe he doesn't want to look like he's begging for money He just doesn't want you to have that kind of image for him. I think there's nothing to worry about, just be cool. If you are worried, ask one of your friends to ask him why he said that.

[•Asi•]

Really? Spongebob TAMPAX?!

Sorry Wrong forum

[FoxScarf]

Ugh, so, today in the morning; my friend who's been trying to hook up me and my crush, told me that she thinks he's going to ask me out soon. He stopped hanging around all the girls he's been friends with, and he's acting completely nervous around me. He asks about me all the time since he's had his phone taken away, but in 5th today, after the bell rang to go to lunch (he usually walks me to the staircase) he just DITCHED me. Didn't hug me, didn't say bye, didn't even look at me. I mean, I understand if he had to be soemwhere, but without saying bye? Hmph... I'm really nervous about it. I have no idea what any of this means.

[catknip]

I have a large problem and need advice.

I have a really good guy friend,I'll call him T. T has a major crush on me and everyone knows. So we have a dance on Friday and he asked me. Well kind of. He had been planning on asking me from what I've been told and he went to a very large amount of people to ask advice on how to go about asking me. People kept referring to him asking me and today he was talking to some other people and I was playing cards. My crush who was also playing cards called out "T wants to ask Z to the dance!" (Z is me) Everyone started yelling and asking things like,"Are you going to say yes?" or "Did he really ask you?" Now there are people telling me what to do. Some say I should say yes,some say I should say no,some say we should go as friends and others say I should ignore the question. I really don't know what to do. If I say yes it'll probably be really awkward and ruin our friendship,if I say no it'll crush him and I was told by someone who knows what they're talking about that he'll have a breakdown. And I don't like him that way. Ughhh,so much pressure.

Then there's this other guy,who I know likes me. I was asking for one of the rulers he had since he had 4 and I had lost mine. He kept saying no even the broken one until he heard T ask me,then he put it on my desk and walked away.
I'm so confused,plus my crush would never have the guts to ask me,even though my friends think he likes me.
I hate this. What should I do?