Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[hawkeye.]

There's something that's bothering me.

My crush and a small group of our friends like to walk down to a general store after a day playing sports. This week, he had forgotten his money. Since he was asking if anybody could lend him a dollar (we're all a very closely knit group and he's extremely trustworthy), I offered to lend him the money. He seemed grateful at first. Later, though, at the store, I was passing by when he was talking to his friend, seeing if he could borrow a dollar from him. This was before I lent him anything. Anyways, his friend said, "No, you'll have to borrow it from her." By her, I was the only possible person. I was the only one who brought extra money, and there are only two girls. Then my crush whispered a frustrated, "No!"

I didn't mean to eavesdrop or anything; I was just passing by. Do any of you think the "no" meant anything, good or bad? Or am I simply overthinking? Any guys that could help me out? Thanks.

[~NoeyyIzzaBeast]

Went to Bobby's game after school... They lost sadly. But when he saw me I think he got happier (not sure though) we still walk with each other to 5th period ^.^. Anyways back to the game. And after the game was over they had this parents night thing where the parents escort them onto the court and bla bla bla. And I think Bobby looked my way a couple times. I was trying to catch him after the game but didn't >.< but I was waiting out side and him and his mom drove by me and bobby smiled at me saying good bye. I just like him so much it annoys me. I've never had this big of a crush on someone ._. I just don't want to like him too much cause what if he doesn't >.>

[TubsDeGoat]

New Semester today. It sucks. Big time. I had three of my friends come up to me and say that they had my boyfriend in their class. I still don't have any with him. And I only see him at the end of the day, last two passing periods, which kinda sucks...


But the high point of my day: Got to hang out with him for a few minutes after lunch....he is usually almost 8 inches taller than me. I got new shoes with high heels, and I wore them, and so I wasn't super short compared to him. He couldn't get over it. Gawd he's adorable....

I had a question for anyone out there:
If you have a boyfriend and they invite you to a sports game of theirs, is it awkward to go or what is it like?

I went to EVERY one of my ex's soccer games last year, like it was kinda fun. I hate soccer though...But it was house teams over summer so I could just sit there alone and watch. Ask a friend to go!
As for my current boyfriend, when I go to watch his "Sports games" I go to like Ohio to watch him ride dirt bikes or like 45 mins away from our town but still in our state, or to skate parks or his backyard to watch him ride BMX. I get a lone with all his friends great so I always have someone to talk to. Its nice.


Either way it isn't awkward c:

[-Ash's-Outlaw-]

{ Well, I think it really depends on personal preference.
Some guys get anxious when their girlfriend/crush is there, and if they do poorly then it can be embarrassing.
I know that there are girls in my grade who've gone to the guys soccer games, but to an extent I think they're a bit stalker-ish.
If he invited you I don't see how it would be weird. Though I'd try bringing a friend or someone along, unless you adore watching sports, because it can get quite dull.

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Well, he is the one who asked in the first place. I am actually kind of excited to go, because its a school team, so I will have friends there, and he is also really good at what he does, I've seen him play once before. I have never gone by myself though, and although I get along with his family really well, I just dont know what it would be like....

I really wish he could come to one of my meets, but because I am a swimmer, I dont know if my mom would let him come...I really hope he can though, he really wants too...


Thanks for the help guys, you always take the edge off of things for me You rock

[lioness99a]

I did have a really long story but my iPod decided to delete it so I'll just ask the question: what is you guys' opinion on girls asking guys out? My crush is rather shy and unlikely to ask me out anytime soon (although I do now have proof, albeit secondhand, that he likes me quite a bit-that was what the story was on) and I'm debating asking him out but I'm not sure I would have the confidence... My other problem is that he is my first crush and I've always been brought up believing that the guy should ask the girl out but I don't want to be waiting forever...

[badghostie.]

So the guy I like is giving me the silent treatment? He replies to my parents, but ignores my texts?

He told my mom that I crack him up, but why isn't he replying to me? ;n; I don't text him everyday and bug him or anything, since this whole silent treatment started happening I just text him maybe every 3-4 days to see if he's done lol.

I asked a friend who'd been in several relationships with older guys, and she told me he's playing hard to get. My mom thinks he might as well but told me not to ignore him (which is what my friend told me to do) when he comes to visit on the 10th.

She told me if he has me walk him to his car when he leaves I should kiss him. But honestly I'm a gigantic chicken when it comes to that (I know I shouldn't be, but I am) because I'm always afraid I'll do something wrong or mess it up somehow.

Ugh, I just don't know what to do anymore. ;n;

[Lioness626]

Really need help, out of ideas
What questions can you ask in 20 questions thing? My crush keeps suggesting we play, but im running low on questions (by text)

[Call Me Hero]

Hey guys! Crimson here!
Alright so I know many of you don't know me and I haven't been here long but I could really use some help.
So Saturday I had my little brothers birthday party and I invited my boyfriend of a month but he couldn't come. Well halfway through the party an unexpected guest showed up. We shall call him D. See now D has been my hearts love for 2 years now and we used to date but that ended when I had to move. Needless to say I've been confused all weekend because he showed up and I haven't seen him in almost a year.
I can't decide if this is a test for me sent by god or if he's trying to tell me my current boyfriend isn't the one for me.... any sugestions?
O.o

Anyone have any kind of help?

[hiraethe]

Hey guys! Crimson here!
Alright so I know many of you don't know me and I haven't been here long but I could really use some help.
So Saturday I had my little brothers birthday party and I invited my boyfriend of a month but he couldn't come. Well halfway through the party an unexpected guest showed up. We shall call him D. See now D has been my hearts love for 2 years now and we used to date but that ended when I had to move. Needless to say I've been confused all weekend because he showed up and I haven't seen him in almost a year.
I can't decide if this is a test for me sent by god or if he's trying to tell me my current boyfriend isn't the one for me.... any sugestions?
O.o

Anyone have any kind of help?

Well if you're still living apart not much point thinking about anything with him right? That's why you broke up in the first place. At the moment, do you enjoy his company more than your current boyfriend's? That's what I would ask myself. Sorry I can't be more help..

[Call Me Hero]

Well if you're still living apart not much point thinking about anything with him right? That's why you broke up in the first place. At the moment, do you enjoy his company more than your current boyfriend's? That's what I would ask myself. Sorry I can't be more help..

Thanks for the help.

Currently I don't know who I enjoy being with more, I mean being with D is really easy because I've known him so long and he's one of my best friends and the complete opposite of J {my BF}.