Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[lioness99a]

I did have a really long story but my iPod decided to delete it so I'll just ask the question: what is you guys' opinion on girls asking guys out? My crush is rather shy and unlikely to ask me out anytime soon (although I do now have proof, albeit secondhand, that he likes me quite a bit-that was what the story was on) and I'm debating asking him out but I'm not sure I would have the confidence... My other problem is that he is my first crush and I've always been brought up believing that the guy should ask the girl out but I don't want to be waiting forever...

[Unashamed]

I cant understand L at all
we had dance today and we were learning waltz and quick step
and i was paired up with a guy i hate and he was paired up with a girl he hates
so in like the middle of learning the dance we pass each other,
and i ask "hey do you wanna switch"
because we obviously wanted to
he didnt mind dancing with me at all
he was actually really good and focused when we were
other girls he's always sighing and saying eww to himself, but not me which
i find suspicious and weird :/ dont you think?
then when we had to learn this weird move for the waltz, i asked if he wanted to switch again
with me and he did. now for the weird part, i dont understand this really
since we couldnt get the move right, i would let go and started laughing a little
and he would keep saying lets try it again and taking my hand with his; like what?
Im not sure he said he didnt want the teacher to get mad at us but he didnt really seem like it
with other people he would slack off and not care, but with me its different WAYY
different. Like he's so into it, he would say sarcastic things like"haha that was great"
when we did or i did something wrong XD
also like on wednesday, sometimes i would like have to pretend
to be a guy since there are not enough girls for each guy
and yet L was somehow partnered up with the girl he hates
so he says"NO you are switching now" to me because he'd rather be partnered up
with me since i was like right there
it was really funny, he is really funny, but selfish at bit...
sorry for the long post, quite happy and confused at the time and i would REALLY
like some help c:

Hey Perfy, nice to see some fellow Directioners here. Now, I'm going to give you the best advice I can, although I've never experienced this kind of thing. :)
First of all, I would say that either he likes you, or he just prefers you over any other girl. Maybe you should ask him after your dance classes why he wants to dance with you every time. I know, this is probably horrible advice, but it's truly the best I can come up with. Hope this helps you some!

Thanks, well i hope i can find a way to say that XD
at lunch me my friend and M were playing volleyball and L was there with his
friend. He spiked a volleyball right at my arm, and it really hurt and was all like"Sorry!"
And i just glared at him :P

Well, maybe you could write it in a note, then just give it to him.

[indestructible.]

So I need a bit help here. How can I make someone text me first? We usually text a lot, talk, all that. But I've waited four days (two days at a time) waiting for him to text me first. I really want to talk to him sometimes and he's never texted me first yet. But I'm always the one to text first. Helpith :S

That's the same thing with me and 16 XD Sometimes he texts me first but now a days he doesn't :c Does he text you at all when you text first? If not, you could ask "Why arn't you texting me?" Not in an angry tone, just in a friendly/humerus voice c:

He normally responds if I text him, and we have a conversation. But I try to hint at school for him to text me first such as: "Why don't you just text me it?" Or "I'll text you it, but you have to first." Or something like that xD I don't like this boy, just want him to text first.

[-Ash's-Outlaw-]

New Semester today. It sucks. Big time. I had three of my friends come up to me and say that they had my boyfriend in their class. I still don't have any with him. And I only see him at the end of the day, last two passing periods, which kinda sucks...


But the high point of my day: Got to hang out with him for a few minutes after lunch....he is usually almost 8 inches taller than me. I got new shoes with high heels, and I wore them, and so I wasn't super short compared to him. He couldn't get over it. Gawd he's adorable....

I had a question for anyone out there:
If you have a boyfriend and they invite you to a sports game of theirs, is it awkward to go or what is it like?

[kelly.]

-Le story-

The only thing that I'm scared about is that what if he doesn't like me? My friend HL asked 16 if he liked me and he asked as a friend or GF, and she said GF and he said No. I think HL's going to ask him again though.

I'm not sure

Me and 16 are putting like notes into eachothers lockers and when we were texting he made the kissy face with emojis a couple times, but I don't know if he meant it.

We're actually video chatting a lot as well as texting c: We chatted for like 2 hours yesterday and 2 hours the day before that :3 Yesterday we were singing and he said he can't sing but I tried to make him hehe. And I sang too, which I usually don't do in front of people

unless hes a total flirt or an alien O_o I think he likes you it sounds like he does and if he said he didn't the first tim maybe he was just shy or didn't want to tell HL....

Well we were talking over video chat and he said he didn't have any friends or anything, but we were talking about it and he said me and my friends were like popular and stuff and when he was in elementary school he wasn't that popular. I don't think he's a flirt though XD

What do you think I should do to see if he likes me again? Should I tell him or get my friend to tell him that I like him?

[lavender.]

New Semester today. It sucks. Big time. I had three of my friends come up to me and say that they had my boyfriend in their class. I still don't have any with him. And I only see him at the end of the day, last two passing periods, which kinda sucks...


But the high point of my day: Got to hang out with him for a few minutes after lunch....he is usually almost 8 inches taller than me. I got new shoes with high heels, and I wore them, and so I wasn't super short compared to him. He couldn't get over it. Gawd he's adorable....

I had a question for anyone out there:
If you have a boyfriend and they invite you to a sports game of theirs, is it awkward to go or what is it like?

I've been to a couple of my boyfriend's soccer games. It's fun to cheer then on and them celebrate - or console - them afterwards. You should go and support him. c:
Also, I know how you feel, I don't have any of my classes with my boyfriend, and I only see him in the hallway a couple of times a day /:

[•Asi•]

Everytime I ask a cute guy out... he's gay ;U;

[Temperance.]

New Semester today. It sucks. Big time. I had three of my friends come up to me and say that they had my boyfriend in their class. I still don't have any with him. And I only see him at the end of the day, last two passing periods, which kinda sucks...


But the high point of my day: Got to hang out with him for a few minutes after lunch....he is usually almost 8 inches taller than me. I got new shoes with high heels, and I wore them, and so I wasn't super short compared to him. He couldn't get over it. Gawd he's adorable....

I had a question for anyone out there:
If you have a boyfriend and they invite you to a sports game of theirs, is it awkward to go or what is it like?

{ Well, I think it really depends on personal preference.
Some guys get anxious when their girlfriend/crush is there, and if they do poorly then it can be embarrassing.
I know that there are girls in my grade who've gone to the guys soccer games, but to an extent I think they're a bit stalker-ish.
If he invited you I don't see how it would be weird. Though I'd try bringing a friend or someone along, unless you adore watching sports, because it can get quite dull.

Now. I need help myself.
I keep thinking I'm reading too much into our interactions.
Especially when most of our interactions are nonverbal, more glances and eye contact and things like that.
He stayed home today because he has no more tests/class for this semester, and when we got home he was asking my younger bro -who he's friends with- about whether I'd be at school tomorrow etc.
WHY WOULD HE ASK THAT
I'm trying to decide if he likes me, but I think we just keep giving each other mixed signals.
I mean...its not like we talk all the time, why would he need to know that?
And just...the way he acts and the things he does sometimes...it just makes me wonder, and its frustrating.

[a_bowtie]

*RANT TIME*
(Don't Judge x3)
Okay, so if any of you have been keeping up with my rants and shtuffs, you'd know I like this guy named Ian. (Well, more than LIKE I'd say- but it's weird ._.) Well, we got back to school on the 8th of January, and I've liked him since the end of September, 2012. When we got back, I made my resolution to ask him out after he said he liked me back in November. I NEVER ditch a resolution, and after two weeks of waiting... I did it. He never said yes, but his smile was HUGE and he gave me the biggest hug. Before he left that day, he gave me another drawn-out hug and said, "I really, really like you." I didn't day anything.

Now, it's tuesday, and we always hug and all that stuff, but... he gives me mixed signals. Today, my friends called me over, and asked me if we go out. I of coure said "I don't know!" because, well, I don't. After going back over to hang out with Ian and his friend, my friends called HIM over without me. They asked him the same thing, and when Ian's friends asked about what my friends asked me, I explained, and they said, "If you and Ian were going out, he'd tell us." .-.

I'm so confused on what to ask him tomorrow. Any ideas?

[•Asi•]

Really? Spongebob TAMPAX?!