Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[hiraethe]

I know it's heaps to read but.. Please?? Anyone???

Feeling like I need serious help here. I know there's a lot I've written. There's a certain guy... I'll call him J

I knew him during a period of about a month and won't see him very often now. Maybe for a weekend or two sometime later in the year, but not really very often. I thought I had something, but I think one mistake was that a lot of what I knew was second-hand. I had told my BFF R but she didn't take it seriously I guess and told her boyfriend M. Then the subject of crushes came up when we (R's boyfriend, my crush and me) were sitting around chatting and he asked J who he liked and he didn't answer, I think because I was sitting next to him. I don't know, but I had sorta guessed that he might like me, and then he seemed really uncomforterble when asked, and him and M are fairly good mates.. And also R knew him for quite a number of years, and she told me after that she had asked J who he like liked, and he had told her me. I was hanging out with him heaps and everything. But of course in the same conversation I mentioned, just later on, M asked me truth or dare and of course I was screwed then 'cos any of the three options it would have been obvious regarding J (I'm a terrible liar, I think), so I just picked truth and admitted in front of him and a few other people as well that I liked him, and from there the whole class of 38 kids found out. Most embarassing thing ever. M thought it was a joke at the time. But R apologised afterwards.

R chatted to me about M, and I chatted about J, and she said he was confusing. So true. I thought we liked eachother and was going to ask him out, but then found out from somebody else that there was a girl at his school that he liked and was going to ask out when school went back?? Been obsessing over this for several weeks and it's not going away. I dream about him every night and I had been wearing a rubber band on my wrist (with my other bracelets and watch and stuff I wear) that he had been playing with and I nearly cried when it broke. And I don't do crying in front of people. I did cry when I found out about the other girl but managed not to very much in front of the guy that told me, but then again I was also super over-tired.. The worst thing is that we were talking and we figured out we lived maybe 5 minutes away from me, though I don't know his actual adress or anything. Please help! So confused and lost at the moment!

[LEAVING-]

my boyfriend finally got a new phone! now we can chat whenever. atleast he lives on a hill so his house can't flood. i really hope him and his family are safe<3

[Unashamed]

I cant understand L at all
we had dance today and we were learning waltz and quick step
and i was paired up with a guy i hate and he was paired up with a girl he hates
so in like the middle of learning the dance we pass each other,
and i ask "hey do you wanna switch"
because we obviously wanted to
he didnt mind dancing with me at all
he was actually really good and focused when we were
other girls he's always sighing and saying eww to himself, but not me which
i find suspicious and weird dont you think?
then when we had to learn this weird move for the waltz, i asked if he wanted to switch again
with me and he did. now for the weird part, i dont understand this really
since we couldnt get the move right, i would let go and started laughing a little
and he would keep saying lets try it again and taking my hand with his; like what?
Im not sure he said he didnt want the teacher to get mad at us but he didnt really seem like it
with other people he would slack off and not care, but with me its different WAYY
different. Like he's so into it, he would say sarcastic things like"haha that was great"
when we did or i did something wrong XD
also like on wednesday, sometimes i would like have to pretend
to be a guy since there are not enough girls for each guy
and yet L was somehow partnered up with the girl he hates
so he says"NO you are switching now" to me because he'd rather be partnered up
with me since i was like right there
it was really funny, he is really funny, but selfish at bit...
sorry for the long post, quite happy and confused at the time and i would REALLY
like some help c:

i need some help with this

Hey Perfy, nice to see some fellow Directioners here. Now, I'm going to give you the best advice I can, although I've never experienced this kind of thing.
First of all, I would say that either he likes you, or he just prefers you over any other girl. Maybe you should ask him after your dance classes why he wants to dance with you every time. I know, this is probably horrible advice, but it's truly the best I can come up with. Hope this helps you some!

[raey]

If you've been following my story then you know that I started dating this amazing guy a week ago. Technically I'm not supposed to date yet so I begged my parents to let me date. I gave them a whole speech and everything..And they said they'd give me an answer today.

Well the answer is no. And I seriously cannot believe it..Dylan's not like the rest. He's so much better..And I already said yes!? What am I supposed to do now..It'll have to be a secret. I hate secrets. Please give me some help guys..I'm crying as I'm typing this..

hey, first of all, try to calm yourself down a bit.
I'm only following this thread the last few days so, I don't know much about what already happened before. But what I could see in your post is that you really like a guy called Dylan and your parents aren't allowing you to date him for the first.
Well, the probably wrong would be to completely keep it as a secret in front of your parents, they might only get more angry with you, what I suppose you not to want. Well when you already keep the thoughts of dating Dylan you already must to talk to him.
Maybe it would be a first step to invite him to your home and watch a movie there or do something else, but with you parents near to you and introduce him to them. Maybe they will rather give they okay to a date without them if they get known to Dylan before.
I could imagine that your parents might be a bit afraid of their daughter getting adult .
But please keep calm, try to speak to your parents again - calm, and try not to cry then - and ask if a meeting under their eyes would be better for them for the first time. And if they should say No again, ask them directly after the reasons. I can't imagine that your parents stop you from dating a guy without any deep reasons - especially if they had to thought about it for a day.
Keep your hope up, maybe it will take a bit of time, but I think all will get good

edit: I read a few of your former post. Really I can't believe that your parents would still say No if they meet him before you have your first single date. I don't know where they should have a problem with it. Try what I suggested, and only keep us on information what happened

[Call Me Hero]

Hey guys! Crimson here!
Alright so I know many of you don't know me and I haven't been here long but I could really use some help.
So Saturday I had my little brothers birthday party and I invited my boyfriend of a month but he couldn't come. Well halfway through the party an unexpected guest showed up. We shall call him D. See now D has been my hearts love for 2 years now and we used to date but that ended when I had to move. Needless to say I've been confused all weekend because he showed up and I haven't seen him in almost a year.
I can't decide if this is a test for me sent by god or if he's trying to tell me my current boyfriend isn't the one for me.... any sugestions?
O.o

[Ollie~]

Hey guys! I just wanted to talk about my boyfriend, cause he is just Amazing...! Heeheeh....! Lol. Sorry he's just too cute. He's watching as I type. My BF's name is Zach. Zach is flippin' hawt. XD Me and him randomly got braces on the same day. He has been the world to me lately! He has even gotten me a dog. <3 He is the best person you'd ever meet. I love you my wonderful Zachary....

[vanilla kitten]

i kissed him ;~;

i mean it was more than just one kiss.

but it was still.

kissing.

and now i'm dating him.

omg.

does this make me a bad person? ;~;

oh no.

e's going to hate me.
c's going to hate me.
they're going to hate me.

well.

whatever.

atleast i can be happy.

for now.

[~NoeyyIzzaBeast]

Amazing day today! ^.^
Me and Bobby walked to class together.
I see him only in the morning on the way to 2nd period and at lunch and then we walk together to 5th


Anyways when we were walking to 5th I had a bag of cheetos (from lunch) and he took them from me.
I was like 'Give them back they're are for me and Marissa'. He said 'ill give them back, but only cause I love you' (I melted a little ^.^).
Then he took them again I got them back and then he started punching me Dx. (his soft punches hurt :c).
Then I was holding on to them trying to get them back, and he ended up taking me to his 6th period ._. He was trying to take me to his desk. And I was like no Bobby, you're gonna get me in trouble with coach Barrow so he finally let go of the bag and I went to class.

Then I saw him in the same hallway going to 7th I gave him the rest of the cheetos I had and he took them. Lol.
And he saw me when I was leaving and he was looking at me like he wanted to say bye.


So what do you think? I think he likes me but I'm not sure ._.

[squid!]

Amazing day today! ^.^
Me and Bobby walked to class together.
I see him only in the morning on the way to 2nd period and at lunch and then we walk together to 5th


Anyways when we were walking to 5th I had a bag of cheetos (from lunch) and he took them from me.
I was like 'Give them back they're are for me and Marissa'. He said 'ill give them back, but only cause I love you' (I melted a little ^.^).
Then he took them again I got them back and then he started punching me Dx. (his soft punches hurt :c).
Then I was holding on to them trying to get them back, and he ended up taking me to his 6th period ._. He was trying to take me to his desk. And I was like no Bobby, you're gonna get me in trouble with coach Barrow so he finally let go of the bag and I went to class.

Then I saw him in the same hallway going to 7th I gave him the rest of the cheetos I had and he took them. Lol.
And he saw me when I was leaving and he was looking at me like he wanted to say bye.


So what do you think? I think he likes me but I'm not sure ._.

He probably likes you- You can tell because he was lightly teasing you about the Cheetos and he said that he loved you (Which is a fire sign). Plus, when guys are, like, play punching you, it means that they like you and consider you close to them.

[squid!]

Okay, so I am confused.
So there's this guy I like, let's just call him J. So J and I are in an Advanced Math class together. So there are three of us. J, me, and another girl. J is really nice to me. I mean, when people are teasing me, he is always saying, "Stop, I have the same problem" or "I don't get it either, don't give her a hard time" he is really sweet, and is funny when he tells stories. He is obviously trying to impress somebody, but who? S, (The other girl) or me? He is never sweet to her like he is to me, but he does tell funny stories to her and seems happy when she laughs...
I just don't know.

{Oops, I'm really sorry for the double post }