Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[Horsegirlmadison]

My ex C has a younger brother(a year younger than him a year older than me) that is soo sweet and is like the best brother. He is also kinda cute, and when i look at him i wonder why i even dated C to begin with. Lets call this younger, better looking brother M. M is like the best brother i never had and hes such a strong person, but has his sensitive spot too. Whenever he cries, i cry because i just love him that much and it breaks my heart to see him cry. I am there with him for everything, and it hurts me sooo bad when he cant even bother to say hello most days. I feel like i cant talk to him because im afraid he wont wanna talk to me. I almost told him how i feel about him a few days ago but he didnt answer back to my hello text, so i just lay down and cried myself to sleep. I think i upset him by almost getting back together with C. What should i do? I really like M and dont want to lose him.

[inkydragons]

How do you not be awkward around a guy? Every time I try to talk to him, I just spout out stupid nonsense. We had every single class together for the last quarter, and will for the next quarter as well.

[*Exile*]

you say hey .....well I don't have an answer to that one ....

[•Asi•]

Well, turns out those rumors were true. My crush is dating someone Dx

Normally, I would be okay with this. Like I wouldn't be jealous, even if I have a major crush. In fact, I would try to be friends.
BUT, this girl HATES me. Because of one accident. In gym, we were playing a game called handball and we were on different teams, and my knee was locking. So, I was about to turn around when my knee locked, and my leg was stuck out and I accidently tripped her. I offered her help, I said I was sorry a bunch, and she just gave me a mean look, and possibly a growl and ran away. Ever since, she's been giving me dirty looks.

I really like this guy if we don't date we are really really good friends, but i'm worried if I hang out with him like I usually do, this girl will get really mad and threaten me to stay away or something like that. Help?

(I honestly don't think this relationship will last long. She asked my crush out and he said yes, and her couple last relationships only lasted 2 days each.)

Well, if you where me, you'd give the bish the middle finger if she DARED tell me to stop hanging out with someone I've been hangin with before her.

[thunderofthedrum]

are you having trouble with impressing guys? i can help! ask a question and i will help you

note: i have had over 24 boyfriends, and i did it all by impressing them

I don't know that that's appropriate - I do not see how you could possibly have known all of them in person, much less have known them well. That suggests to me that they didn't mean much to you or were not memorable.

Also, not all guys are impressed the same way. My boyfriend is impressed when I am level headed and understanding, he is impressed by my level of education and my career choice. My ex-boyfriend had no interest in my career choice and had the same 'high' level of education. My boyfriend loves my personality - I could not have predicted he would like me so much, so I could not have changed to be what he liked (nor would I want to change my personality).

It's more about learning to know yourself, speak up for yourself, have the courage to make positive changes (like if you want to speak up more, practice music, grow out your hair, get in shape, etc), and acquiring the experience of being with someone for the right reasons. I know we are all occasionally blinded by infatuation and crush or even date someone who is not a good person, but we can do our best to not repeat such a mistake over and over.

first of all, take things slow with him if you aren't all ready. a way you can tell a guy likes you is if they look at you for 8 seconds or more without talking. say i love you to him a few times. if he asks if you mean it say “whatever you think in means”

if you need anymore info just pm me

I also very much disagree with this. Saying 'I love you' is often considered very strong words. I would NOT advise saying them to people unless you mean it. Of course, I personally think people should try to always think before they speak and to not say things they don't mean. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and I just recently said that phrase to him - I did not want to say it too soon or too often; I would feel like it loses its importance. I'm glad I waited and I know it means so much more to him also because he knows I only say things that I mean. Words can have little or a lot of power/importance. It depends on how you use them. I like the idea of 'I love you' being powerful and worth saying, myself.

For the record, I have NOT dated many guys at all, however I am an adult and in a good relationship.

[MEAT!]

well, its official. im in love with my best mate.
i dont want to ruin our friendship, but im
in love with him, and i dont think the
feeling os the same . :/

[*Exile*]

Well, turns out those rumors were true. My crush is dating someone Dx

Normally, I would be okay with this. Like I wouldn't be jealous, even if I have a major crush. In fact, I would try to be friends.
BUT, this girl HATES me. Because of one accident. In gym, we were playing a game called handball and we were on different teams, and my knee was locking. So, I was about to turn around when my knee locked, and my leg was stuck out and I accidently tripped her. I offered her help, I said I was sorry a bunch, and she just gave me a mean look, and possibly a growl and ran away. Ever since, she's been giving me dirty looks.

I really like this guy if we don't date we are really really good friends, but i'm worried if I hang out with him like I usually do, this girl will get really mad and threaten me to stay away or something like that. Help?

(I honestly don't think this relationship will last long. She asked my crush out and he said yes, and her couple last relationships only lasted 2 days each.)

Well, if you where me, you'd give the bish the middle finger if she DARED tell me to stop hanging out with someone I've been hangin with before her.

I agree she has NO right to tell you who you can hang out with and if she did I woud ignore her because that means she is insecure and thinks that he might like you or sees as a threat .

[provolone]

If you've been following my story then you know that I started dating this amazing guy a week ago. Technically I'm not supposed to date yet so I begged my parents to let me date. I gave them a whole speech and everything..And they said they'd give me an answer today.

Well the answer is no. And I seriously cannot believe it..Dylan's not like the rest. He's so much better..And I already said yes!? What am I supposed to do now..It'll have to be a secret. I hate secrets. Please give me some help guys..I'm crying as I'm typing this..

[luxuriantluke]

I cant understand L at all
we had dance today and we were learning waltz and quick step
and i was paired up with a guy i hate and he was paired up with a girl he hates
so in like the middle of learning the dance we pass each other,
and i ask "hey do you wanna switch"
because we obviously wanted to
he didnt mind dancing with me at all
he was actually really good and focused when we were
other girls he's always sighing and saying eww to himself, but not me which
i find suspicious and weird :/ dont you think?
then when we had to learn this weird move for the waltz, i asked if he wanted to switch again
with me and he did. now for the weird part, i dont understand this really
since we couldnt get the move right, i would let go and started laughing a little
and he would keep saying lets try it again and taking my hand with his; like what?
Im not sure he said he didnt want the teacher to get mad at us but he didnt really seem like it
with other people he would slack off and not care, but with me its different WAYY
different. Like he's so into it, he would say sarcastic things like"haha that was great"
when we did or i did something wrong XD
also like on wednesday, sometimes i would like have to pretend
to be a guy since there are not enough girls for each guy
and yet L was somehow partnered up with the girl he hates
so he says"NO you are switching now" to me because he'd rather be partnered up
with me since i was like right there
it was really funny, he is really funny, but selfish at bit...
sorry for the long post, quite happy and confused at the time and i would REALLY
like some help c:

i need some help with this :/

[Kecko]

Well, if anyone wants to hear what's going on in my "crush life" here it is, Z now has a girlfriend who is also one of my 4 best girl-friends, him being my best guy friend.

But now I have a new crush, I don't know his name and I just met him Monday but he's really cool and funny, just saw him again today and got to stand by him for some of the time during a meeting, we're on the same team in the comp. we're doing, I'm also on that team Z and his GF and a couple others so it should be fun! I'll tell yall more about the new guy when I know more about him!

Here's an update on this post above

I was talking to Z's GF's sister (my other BFF) and she said Z and her sister aren't dating but want to, Z asked her out but his family and her family both said they couldn't, although I still have a crush on Z, him and his GF (who I'll call B and her sis C) look so good together I can't help but hope they get together, I'm still hopeful I'll find the country boy I dream about, but it can wait for now I guess!