Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[mitchypoosays]

Well...... I guess I'll go post here now....

Well.... it's the usually story. My old best friend ( I'll call him J ) had a crush on me. Had. So.... he did something that ticked me off and I got mad at him. He stopped talking to me. And meh. Whatever, I didn't care. I was goody two shoes nerd and he's the bad boy repeater. So there's a new girl and J starts flirting with her ( I'll call her R ). R ends up as my bestest friend but also ends up as J's girlfriend. I went with her to his house once for a surprise birthday thing and we saw him with some other girl when we looked through his window. So she cried and ran back to her car. I ended up chasing after her.

At school J finds out what she saw and they officially broke up. When R left school already, I was playing a game of basketball with J and the rest of the basketball team. When everyone from the team left already, J stayed to listen to me and my band practice for one of our school performances. Our rhythm guitarist is my best guy friend ( I'll call him M. ). J leaves the place we were practicing in and goes back to the basketball court to practice shooting. When it was just me and M, he picked up his acoustic guitar and started to play our favorite song, Check Yes Juliet. He played it just as I was about to leave. So I stayed until the end of the song. After the song he packed his stuff and walked with me out the school. And at the school gate, he grabbed my hand and kissed me. I just stood there and did nothing. And J saw and threw a hissy fit about it.

On the next day, J told me why he got mad. It was because he still liked me apparently. A few days later, I started to have feelings for both guys and well.... I didn't like J cause he cheated on my bestie. But he's acting really sweet to me. I dunno what to do. Help?

[LuvFinnick123]

Well...... I guess I'll go post here now....

Well.... it's the usually story. My old best friend ( I'll call him J ) had a crush on me. Had. So.... he did something that ticked me off and I got mad at him. He stopped talking to me. And meh. Whatever, I didn't care. I was goody two shoes nerd and he's the bad boy repeater. So there's a new girl and J starts flirting with her ( I'll call her R ). R ends up as my bestest friend but also ends up as J's girlfriend. I went with her to his house once for a surprise birthday thing and we saw him with some other girl when we looked through his window. So she cried and ran back to her car. I ended up chasing after her.

At school J finds out what she saw and they officially broke up. When R left school already, I was playing a game of basketball with J and the rest of the basketball team. When everyone from the team left already, J stayed to listen to me and my band practice for one of our school performances. Our rhythm guitarist is my best guy friend ( I'll call him M. ). J leaves the place we were practicing in and goes back to the basketball court to practice shooting. When it was just me and M, he picked up his acoustic guitar and started to play our favorite song, Check Yes Juliet. He played it just as I was about to leave. So I stayed until the end of the song. After the song he packed his stuff and walked with me out the school. And at the school gate, he grabbed my hand and kissed me. I just stood there and did nothing. And J saw and threw a hissy fit about it.

On the next day, J told me why he got mad. It was because he still liked me apparently. A few days later, I started to have feelings for both guys and well.... I didn't like J cause he cheated on my bestie. But he's acting really sweet to me. I dunno what to do. Help?

I know this might be hard, but if you go out with J, that would be a major violation of Girl Code. It would be fine if he hadn't cheated on her or if you and R are no longer friends and you don't see her. That would only be an option if you feel like you can trust him.

I would go with M. You said you kind of liked him. AND he plays the guitar. Plus, he never cheated on your bestie, won't cause problems, and you have no reason not to trust him.

[-Firesong-]

Well...... I guess I'll go post here now....

Well.... it's the usually story. My old best friend ( I'll call him J ) had a crush on me. Had. So.... he did something that ticked me off and I got mad at him. He stopped talking to me. And meh. Whatever, I didn't care. I was goody two shoes nerd and he's the bad boy repeater. So there's a new girl and J starts flirting with her ( I'll call her R ). R ends up as my bestest friend but also ends up as J's girlfriend. I went with her to his house once for a surprise birthday thing and we saw him with some other girl when we looked through his window. So she cried and ran back to her car. I ended up chasing after her.

At school J finds out what she saw and they officially broke up. When R left school already, I was playing a game of basketball with J and the rest of the basketball team. When everyone from the team left already, J stayed to listen to me and my band practice for one of our school performances. Our rhythm guitarist is my best guy friend ( I'll call him M. ). J leaves the place we were practicing in and goes back to the basketball court to practice shooting. When it was just me and M, he picked up his acoustic guitar and started to play our favorite song, Check Yes Juliet. He played it just as I was about to leave. So I stayed until the end of the song. After the song he packed his stuff and walked with me out the school. And at the school gate, he grabbed my hand and kissed me. I just stood there and did nothing. And J saw and threw a hissy fit about it.

On the next day, J told me why he got mad. It was because he still liked me apparently. A few days later, I started to have feelings for both guys and well.... I didn't like J cause he cheated on my bestie. But he's acting really sweet to me. I dunno what to do. Help?

I would like to say firstly; I am not a believer in "Girl Code". I personally think it is a load of crap.

But the fact that J was cheating in a relationship should tell you something. I would also like to point out that I think J is a bit of a player, all he wants is a girlfriend, you said it yourself; he's a "bad boy".
If he cheated on a girl in a previous relationship, don't expect him to stay true in yours.
There's also the matter of your bestie. From how you worded your post, I'm assuming this has all happened in the past week or so. If you are going to date J, you might want to wait a while. And you're also going to have the face the fact that if she still has feelings for him, she's not going to take this well.

Personally, I would go for M. But it's your life, not mine.

---
So I got Buggy a hat for Christmas. First thing I've gotten him in over a year of dating. [ I also got him swim goggles; he's on swim team, but that's not really relevant.]
Anyways, I saw him for the first time in a few weeks today, and he was wearing the hat. c:
Finally did something right.

[MEAT!]

well, my crush-luke- he has a dorm right next to me, and every night, we'll sneak out of our dorms and go to the park on campus. we do it everynight. we climb the willow tree and sit next to eachother on the thickest, highest branch there is. he always keeps me close, because he knows my terrible fear of heights, but when im with him, in his arms, with my head against his chest, and his chin resting ontop my my head, i feel so...safe.

we do that every night, like i said, but our actins are getting...couplely, if you look at us.

he leans up against the tree, and i lay my head in his lap, while he plays with my hair, and we talk about everything that happened that day.

or, im in his lap/in between his legs with my head against his chest and his chin on my head, but he'll like, kiss my head, in a conforting manner, or he'll nuzzle his face in the crook of my next, and he'll give me playful-hickeys.

its odd behaviour for him, and im not sire if that means he likes me or not. he just, never acted that way to me before.

of course i dont mind, because i really like luke, and im begining to fall in love with him.

now, i dont want anyone to say "youre too young for love. youre only *insert age here*. too young"

i just need some advice. with these actions he's doing, do you think he likes me?
~cece xx

well, im just giving you all an update, if it helps.

well, i wasnt home for new years this year. i went back to london to stay with my mum, step-father, and step sister.

well, me and luke have a new years ritual. we always go to disney world because we live near it, and we go on the ferriswheel before the fireworks go off and we watch the fireworks together onthe ferriswheel.

so, here;s the thing.

since i wasnt back home, we made a plan. i would take my phone on the london eye and he would take his on the ferris wheel, and we would skype eachother on new years so when the fireworks exploded, we could still sort of be with eachother, so thats what we did.

but the thing is, was the time differences. obviously, london time is before florida time, so i did mine first, and i would stay up for him to show me his fireworks.

we stayed on skype until he was back home in bed.m at the time, it was already early the next morning for me, and i was already on an airplane back hometo florida, so when he was settled in, i couldnt keep my eyes open.

we said our goodnights, but just as i logged off, i couldve sworn he said "i love you". i thought i heard him say it, and when i went back to classes today, he's been..ignoring/advoiding me it seems like.

im really confused and need some advice.
~cece xx

[Selene Moon]

Well...... I guess I'll go post here now....

Well.... it's the usually story. My old best friend ( I'll call him J ) had a crush on me. Had. So.... he did something that ticked me off and I got mad at him. He stopped talking to me. And meh. Whatever, I didn't care. I was goody two shoes nerd and he's the bad boy repeater. So there's a new girl and J starts flirting with her ( I'll call her R ). R ends up as my bestest friend but also ends up as J's girlfriend. I went with her to his house once for a surprise birthday thing and we saw him with some other girl when we looked through his window. So she cried and ran back to her car. I ended up chasing after her.

At school J finds out what she saw and they officially broke up. When R left school already, I was playing a game of basketball with J and the rest of the basketball team. When everyone from the team left already, J stayed to listen to me and my band practice for one of our school performances. Our rhythm guitarist is my best guy friend ( I'll call him M. ). J leaves the place we were practicing in and goes back to the basketball court to practice shooting. When it was just me and M, he picked up his acoustic guitar and started to play our favorite song, Check Yes Juliet. He played it just as I was about to leave. So I stayed until the end of the song. After the song he packed his stuff and walked with me out the school. And at the school gate, he grabbed my hand and kissed me. I just stood there and did nothing. And J saw and threw a hissy fit about it.

On the next day, J told me why he got mad. It was because he still liked me apparently. A few days later, I started to have feelings for both guys and well.... I didn't like J cause he cheated on my bestie. But he's acting really sweet to me. I dunno what to do. Help?

If it was me, I personally would've slapped him. He cheated on your friend, and that doesn't mean he'll be good to you. bad boys aren't always the best type. And if you chose J, imagine how your friend would feel.

[Zeee]

welp

first of all, my best friend (let's call her L)...
literally 4 people like her.
...including B.

a guy, let's call him O, texted her and said,
'i like u :) B does too, and so does -insert name here- and -insert name here-'
(the other two people, let's call them BE and E)

i was at her house when she got the message
and this, i guess, was our convo when she got it;

L: guess what?
me: what?
L: nevermind, you'll be angry
me: no i won't, tell me
L: you already know that BE and E like me, right?
me: ...yeah?
L: O likes me too
me: oh? why would i be angry about that?
(at this time i didn't know B liked her yet)
L: i don't know.
me: there must be a reason..
L: ...
me: tell me, L!!
L: go look at me and O's convo then
me: okay?
(goes to look and sees that B likes her too)

i lied and said that i didn't care
but...
meh

i'm trying to get over B
but it's so hard

D:

Aww! It's alright. I had tons of experiences like that. Don't worry. (P.S I realized you like B right?)
Anyways,
A guy I have been crushing on for years like other girls and he already has a "GF" but don't let it get you. It's alright. Everyone has their own "Like Like Crush thing" once in a while but actually they don't mean it. If he doesn't like you, just let it go and don't bother him :)

i've never 'bothered' him before. he barely talks to me, and i'm way too shy to start a conversation. when he does talk to me, our conversations are short. i've liked him for almost 6 years. and i can't just 'let it go', that's the problem.

[dαєnєrчѕ tαrgαrчєn]

Hey I guess I need some help.

Ok long story short I've been dating my boyfriend for 8 months now and my friend just got dumped out of her group and so she is hanging out with me and my friends. Well the thing is that she has been flirting with my bf and I don't like it and one day when we were watching a movie in class he leaned per to tell her somethig and I was in the middle of him and he didn't tell me what he told her which bugged me. Now she's still doing the same thing yet today he barely talked to me and when he did she told him to cause I told her about it. This is happening with my best friend too. Yet multiple times today whenever I saw him he was talking to her. He's usually good with seeing if I'm upset or nr and I hinted that today but he didn't pay attention at all. I really do love him and I'm afraid to lose him, yet I'm shy. It's part of my personality and I shouldn't change that for him, he just has to accept that.

Well not such a short story but it's shorter than intended. What I'm trying to get at here is I'm deciding whether or by I should let her know, or him, or both. The options all make sense, but I'm scared to lose my friend as well. Or I just possibly might lose my bf. I've hunted to him before that she was doing this but I couldn't bring up the nerve as in to tell him why I'm mad at her. But seeing as it is...maybe I should?

[cookies.]

welp

first of all, my best friend (let's call her L)...
literally 4 people like her.
...including B.

a guy, let's call him O, texted her and said,
'i like u B does too, and so does -insert name here- and -insert name here-'
(the other two people, let's call them BE and E)

i was at her house when she got the message
and this, i guess, was our convo when she got it;

L: guess what?
me: what?
L: nevermind, you'll be angry
me: no i won't, tell me
L: you already know that BE and E like me, right?
me: ...yeah?
L: O likes me too
me: oh? why would i be angry about that?
(at this time i didn't know B liked her yet)
L: i don't know.
me: there must be a reason..
L: ...
me: tell me, L!!
L: go look at me and O's convo then
me: okay?
(goes to look and sees that B likes her too)

i lied and said that i didn't care
but...
meh

i'm trying to get over B
but it's so hard

D:

Aww! It's alright. I had tons of experiences like that. Don't worry. (P.S I realized you like B right?)
Anyways,
A guy I have been crushing on for years like other girls and he already has a "GF" but don't let it get you. It's alright. Everyone has their own "Like Like Crush thing" once in a while but actually they don't mean it. If he doesn't like you, just let it go and don't bother him

i've never 'bothered' him before. he barely talks to me, and i'm way too shy to start a conversation. when he does talk to me, our conversations are short. i've liked him for almost 6 years. and i can't just 'let it go', that's the problem.

I could never talk to my crush first! He knows that I like him.. Just act like a friend and talk to him like talking to your friend. You will get the hang out of it X3

[Here The Fαιяʏ Fℓιɛƨ]

I need help with this.There's this guy,let's call him W.I've had a crush on W for two years now.He moved to the other side of the country.I still miss him and i still love him.I think it's a problem.Is there any way to help with this?

[-Cora-]

I need help with this.There's this guy,let's call him W.I've had a crush on W for two years now.He moved to the other side of the country.I still miss him and i still love him.I think it's a problem.Is there any way to help with this?

Its perfectly Ok To miss a friend if they move away ((Especially if that "friend" is a crush)). The best way I can think of to really "help" is to call him! Talk to him and keep in touch, If you both have access to webcams ((Or Iphones)) Suggest things like skype and facetime. Possibly even schedule an event on a weekend you're both free. ^^ Hope this helps!

~Spirit