Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[•Asi•]

Caught my boyfriend flirting with someone else. I then stopped talking to him. Three weeks later I decided to get together and forget it. left the room to get the popcorn. Came back seeing him kiss my cousin. She said "Oh, he's your boyfriend?" and there I just had it. I kicked them out and threw a couple knives at them (they all missed). THEN, oh you won't believe this. We were hanging out at my friends and he was trying to frikkin cuddle with me! wth?! You think you can break my heart and you can just do that and it'll all be chill? Hell no!

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[grimgrinning_]

I am literally in love with a fictional character.
Not my best moment.

[little things.]

I am literally in love with a fictional character.
Not my best moment.

Welcome to the crowd.

Well, my ex asked me out, my first kiss also. I still like him,but I just don't knw if he actually likes me for myself, or for my "buisness." He only dated me last year just because I always wore tight clothes, andat my Spring Dance, I wore a strapless dress 2 sizes too small and it was falling off. Then,he was always staring. Now, I don't know what to do.

[Tiger;]

ok so there's this boy named Jordan in my school who always flirts with me and I kinda flirt with him.... the thing is I know he likes me because I have friends who he tells them that he likes me and I kinda like him. overall he's pretty cute. my friends are always saying OMG y'all are the cutest couple ever!! you should totally ask him out you seem lonely. but the thing is I am a lonely girl who just what's someone I trust and feel comfortable with and he's that type of guy, please what should I do just ask him out or wait untill he does???

[wicked;]

ok so there's this boy named Jordan in my school who always flirts with me and I kinda flirt with him.... the thing is I know he likes me because I have friends who he tells them that he likes me and I kinda like him. overall he's pretty cute. my friends are always saying OMG y'all are the cutest couple ever!! you should totally ask him out you seem lonely. but the thing is I am a lonely girl who just what's someone I trust and feel comfortable with and he's that type of guy, please what should I do just ask him out or wait untill he does???

My opinion is to not ask him out. It's not as major, but it's like proposing to him. A girl on her knees proposing to a guy? Sorry, I don't really think that's how it usually works, but if you do, I suggest you go and ask him out right now!

Otherwise, I guess you can't go and tell him to ask you out. Maybe get some friends to tell him? Get them to tell him how you don't want to be the one to ask him out? I'm sure they could persuade him to ask you out. Then you are happy in a relationship and you will thank your friends forever. <3

[briny]

ok so there's this boy named Jordan in my school who always flirts with me and I kinda flirt with him.... the thing is I know he likes me because I have friends who he tells them that he likes me and I kinda like him. overall he's pretty cute. my friends are always saying OMG y'all are the cutest couple ever!! you should totally ask him out you seem lonely. but the thing is I am a lonely girl who just what's someone I trust and feel comfortable with and he's that type of guy, please what should I do just ask him out or wait untill he does???

My opinion is to not ask him out. It's not as major, but it's like proposing to him. A girl on her knees proposing to a guy? Sorry, I don't really think that's how it usually works, but if you do, I suggest you go and ask him out right now!

Otherwise, I guess you can't go and tell him to ask you out. Maybe get some friends to tell him? Get them to tell him how you don't want to be the one to ask him out? I'm sure they could persuade him to ask you out. Then you are happy in a relationship and you will thank your friends forever. <3

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Honestly, I don't see the problem with a girl asking a guy out. And, you can't compare it to marriage, though, it is not traditional for the woman to propose to the man, it is not forbidden. If you really like him, go ahead and ask him out. Usually people get nervous but if you take a couple deep breaths and have him alone, it should be easier to ask him out. I wish you the best of luck

[Guest]

moose as been in a bit of a rut lately.

for you see, she is in love with multiple people at the same time, including her semi-boyfriend.

because freckly italian nerds are adorable.

and there's this one really awful, antisemitic jerk i shouldn't like but do (he looks like clark kent when he wears his glasses).

i just don't understand what's wrong with me.

i like all of them, but i also feel like i wouldn't want to be with any of them.

part of me thinks it's just lust, to be honest.

i have no idea what i'm doing here.

can someone explain to me why, even with an amazing boyfriend, i'm still an emotionless void?

thank you.

take your time.

[Lioness626]

My crush doesnt think Im attractive, now need to move on I think. Not a chance...*sigh* Oh well. He told me himself, by facebook, but still. We were asking each other who was attractive or not.

Edit: Now hes saying he might not make it tonight to the plans we made, as he is 2 hours away at the min. He left location on on facebook chat, it says he is at home. Any ideas to help?

[StreamWolf]

Caught my boyfriend flirting with someone else. I then stopped talking to him. Three weeks later I decided to get together and forget it. left the room to get the popcorn. Came back seeing him kiss my cousin. She said "Oh, he's your boyfriend?" and there I just had it. I kicked them out and threw a couple knives at them (they all missed). THEN, oh you won't believe this. We were hanging out at my friends and he was trying to frikkin cuddle with me! wth?! You think you can break my heart and you can just do that and it'll all be chill? Hell no!

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I read this and my moth was hanging open. In my opinion, that is completely inappropriate behavior for your boyfriend and it would be a good idea to officially break up with him.

[StreamWolf]

ok so there's this boy named Jordan in my school who always flirts with me and I kinda flirt with him.... the thing is I know he likes me because I have friends who he tells them that he likes me and I kinda like him. overall he's pretty cute. my friends are always saying OMG y'all are the cutest couple ever!! you should totally ask him out you seem lonely. but the thing is I am a lonely girl who just what's someone I trust and feel comfortable with and he's that type of guy, please what should I do just ask him out or wait untill he does???

I would drop hints. "Accidently" let it slip to a friend of his that you like him too, to get him interested in asking you out. I always found that if I found someone liked me, I would begin to like that person too Hope this helps!