Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

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Could someone please tell me:
1) Judging by this boy's pretty flirtatious behavior BUT failure to take any initiative ever, do you HONESTLY think he likes me? Please do not worry about hurting my feelings. I promise you will not.
2) I am probably going to a New Year's party at his house. Should I try to kiss him at midnight? HONESTLY? Do you think it would do any good? I want to :3

1) I'm not sure if he likes you. It sounds like he's just flirting.
2) Depending on events. If you are in a crowded room, or in public, no. If you are outside or relatively alone or something, just get close and see what happens. Talk about relationships. Lead up to it slowly. You'll have all night. best of luck.

[Bye.....]

Okay, there is this boy at my school folloss me around EVERYWHERE, unless he's not supposed to be there. Let's call him o. O is in a grade below me and is prolly 2 or 3 years younger then me. He follows me around with this face:
http://www.soundbeatmedia.com/wp-conten ... nd-600.jpg
He follows all of my other GIRL friends around with the exact same look. We have all tried EVERYTHING to get him to stop. He seems to find joy in watching what we do. And when we get him to stop, he goes and cries in a corner to make us feel bad about yelling at him. Any advice? Thanks in advance.

[Squid-a-roni]

Well i have a huge dilemma i think i like my best friend.
Apparently he likes me and he posted on facebook that he "found the right girl but she thinks he is a creep and she tells him that." i am the only who has ever called him that.
He said he was going to ask out the girl he liked when we got back and he wanted me to find him in the morning.
I am afriad of what to say.....he also told me no one has ever called him a creep but me.

[Everett.]

I have a few crushes, but no girlfriend right now, heh. ouo
I love relationships, though. <3 Most of mine have been long distance, but that's totally okay. I love sending messages and watching movies together and just being cute ;u;
sighs~

[Tiger;]

ok so there's this boy named Jordan in my school who always flirts with me and I kinda flirt with him.... the thing is I know he likes me because I have friends who he tells them that he likes me and I kinda like him. overall he's pretty cute. my friends are always saying OMG y'all are the cutest couple ever!! you should totally ask him out you seem lonely. but the thing is I am a lonely girl who just what's someone I trust and feel comfortable with and he's that type of guy, please what should I do just ask him out or wait untill he does???

[Lioness626]

My crush just said when we go out on new years eve he will prove hes not gay. Hopefully this is good. He has been doubted, and some friends keep saying he is.

[Here The Fαιяʏ Fℓιɛƨ]

I remember this guy i once had a huge chrush on.He was just so perfect.Perfect eyes,hair,voice,and he was really nice.And his twin brother is just the same.They both liked me,and I liked them both.I just could'nt choose between them.But there was a sad relief from it.They moved all the way across the country unexpectedly.It's now 6 months after that and i still have a place for them in my heart.Is there any way to get rid of it?

[anquinlan]

Alright, well I have had a major crush on this guy for literally more than a year now! I started liking him on the first day of school last year! I think that he is kinda into me right now, but then there is these 2 girls who keep getting in the way -.- one of them I know doesn't like him and won't date him, but the other one dates everyone so... Well, he plays 'Footsie' with me a lot, and he tickles me everyday.. But now when ever I talk to him on Facebook he 'Has to go' so now I don't even bother.. it kinda feels like i'm not good enough for anyone! I'm ugly and just plain annoying... :'(

[flowercrown;]

I think I'm in love, but I'm really young. Is this a bad thing?


*~ҒƖЯЄƜѲЯƘ~*'s Answer wrote:
Love takes time. It's like ... cookie dough! It's so sweet and great when it's raw, but it can make you sick and it's not that great, but when you let it bake for a while, and then you try it. It really truly does taste beautiful - and you wonder why you ate the dough in the first place. Because eating cookie dough is for children. It's really adults - or more mature people - who know how to bake real good yummy cookies.


Nimble's Answer wrote:
Like Firework said, love takes time. It is TOTALLY possible that you're in love. The average person falls in love around 6 times in their lifetime, and it's generally known that after 4 solid months of having a crush on somebody you're in love. But even if you are in love, you are young, and you have to be careful. You don't want to eat too much cookie dough because you'll get sick. A little bit of it is ok, but if you eat so much of it from so many different batches, you might find yourself unable to eat any of the golden crisp cookies. No, it's not a bad thing, but take things really slow. Don't act like you see your mom act with her boyfriend. Act like the person you're in love with is your best friend. That's the real deal: The love that lasts forever. You don't need all those romantic things, you don't even need to kiss each other. Just be best friends until you're old enough to eat the baked cookies, because then you'll really enjoy it.

This really helped me, me and my boyfriend both agreed we were still young and treat each other like brother & sister! On the last day before break, we had a huge dance off. Of course me and him were a team and we were laughing so hard because he was a not very good dancer. But we won! The only thing we do is hugs and high fives. I really like him! ^.^

[kimmy1479]

Okay, there is this boy at my school folloss me around EVERYWHERE, unless he's not supposed to be there. Let's call him o. O is in a grade below me and is prolly 2 or 3 years younger then me. He follows me around with this face:
http://www.soundbeatmedia.com/wp-conten ... nd-600.jpg
He follows all of my other GIRL friends around with the exact same look. We have all tried EVERYTHING to get him to stop. He seems to find joy in watching what we do. And when we get him to stop, he goes and cries in a corner to make us feel bad about yelling at him. Any advice? Thanks in advance.

Oh gosh. I knew a kid like that. I sat behind him on the bus once. Bad idea. It was the day the bus broke down and for an extra hour he wouldn't stop talking to me. I would be reading a book and every few minutes,
"Are you done yet? Are you gonna stop reading yet?"
T_T No, no I am not done.
He stole my glasses once. Then he cleaned them. Then he put his hat on my head. I did not want that hat on my head.
He high fived me after ever play in our soccer game. (Whoot! Graphic arts pwned the Engineering kids!) Even if I didn't do anything. Even if I kicked it our of bounds.-
"Whoo! Way to go! High five!"
He kept asking where I lived. Where I went to church. If I knew friends of his. If I was going to some homeschool gatherings.
It was creepy, to say the least.

Basically, don't yell. He's doing this because he admires you guys, obviously. Just explain nicely that you will set aside a tmie specifically for you and your friends to include him, but when it is not his time, he has to leave you alone.
Like a kindergartener.