Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[*Little Person*]

I have a crush but he has a girlfriend *heart cracks open*

There's also a guy in the grade below me who has a major crush on me (I can just tell by the way he stares at me) but wouldn't it be awkward to date a guy one grade lower than you???

Nah, it's totally normal. Think about it, the adult world people date other people 10 years apart! { plus I did it once }

It is true.

[arcticwolf]

I have a crush but he has a girlfriend *heart cracks open*

There's also a guy in the grade below me who has a major crush on me (I can just tell by the way he stares at me) but wouldn't it be awkward to date a guy one grade lower than you???

Nah, my most recent ex boyfriend was a grade younger than me. It's not awkward at all.

[NushiSushi]

Hmm that makes me feel a lot better thanks all of you

[thunderofthedrum]

I have a crush but he has a girlfriend *heart cracks open*

There's also a guy in the grade below me who has a major crush on me (I can just tell by the way he stares at me) but wouldn't it be awkward to date a guy one grade lower than you???

It's only awkward if you make it awkward! Really- if you guys like each other, then I see no problem with it. After all, that's really only a single year and even people in the same grade can be up to almost a year different in age!

[[x]]

Guys I don't know what to do about JO. Whenever I see him or he sees me he would tease me or say hi to me. Whenever I see him I go, "Heyyyyyyyy JO_________" (Say his name really long). I don't want that to send him mixed signals. He is really sweet but he's just a friend. I know for sure he likes me because he was talking to his friend one day at his locker and my friend's locker is really close to his. He was giving REALLY OBVIOUS hints on who he likes. He said, "She's short, she has brown hair, her name has 4 letters in it. It starts with E and ends with _." I want to tell him I only think of him as a friend but I don't want to hurt his feelings! He doesn't show it but he is really fragile. Whenever me and my friend is talking J always butts into our conversations as I do with him. He lost all his pencils and his ruler (Yup. That's my Loser Idiot for ya.) so instead of asking the people around him he would ask me. He keeps on losing my pencils but I'm sure he's doing it on purpose. Nobody can't lose a pencil going from one class to another. During SR (Silent Reading) one day I would see him glance at me from the corner of my eye from time to time. He always asks me for help when he has his friends around him. I want to work up the courage to be partners for math one day but he always goes with his friend. They pick even before we're supposed to pick. One day during drama he came in a bit late but this girl who admires me came before him and sat right next to me. I saw that J was going to sit beside me!!! I can't be rude to her and I don't want to tell her I like J so I have to put up with it. I- I don't know what to do!


Pleeeease help! With both JO and J XD

If you only like J as a friend, it shouldn't bother you. Right at this moment, how do you feel about him? What would you do if he asked you out? Would you ask him out?

No, JO is the friend, J is the crush. If he asked me out I would die of happiness XD If JO asked me out I'd say, "Well JO, I'm flattered because well, I'm irresistable but... I only like you as a friend now. I'm sorry..."

[luxuriantluke]

okay
i had my heart smashed yesterday :(
idk why but everyone randomly started dating...L is dating his crush now.I cried for literally two hours :'(
my eyes are tearing up right now its hard you know E, his crush and his girlfriend,
isnt that nice really,she a little snobby to me and to alot of other people
theres nothing i can do though right?
Like, it hurts, alot.
I really thought he liked me.....
but no.
I kept hoping, but it never worked.
It kept backfiring at me.
I guess i can be his friend?
The problem is that he's nice to me at one time then a total a** the next?
He almost tripped me two weeks ago because he was blocking the classroom door
and we were pushing
each other and he moved abruptly and almost tripped me and everyone laughed -_-
thanks a**
Like in gym when i'm on his team for Ultimate Frisbee he like ALWAYS passes to me acts all nice
His 'girlfriend' isnt in my class though, thank god D:
Like i asked my friend to quickly put my hair up in a pony tail before the game started and
I said."Oh my god, i bet like a retard like this!"
because it was really messy and stuff. L says:
"Oh no you don't you actually look good."
I really wanted to tell him to shut up.
I'm trying to stop thinking some things he does doesnt mean anything at all
It hard its working a little
I was over him for the whole summer then it came back...
I need help trying to forget him or else i'll just get my heart smashed even more :(
--
My other crush, M, also got a girlfriend the same day L did
talk about friggin weird.
Of course, its A.....
shes like dated all the guys
She and him have known each other since second grade and i have too..
its seems that whoever i like, i get hurt
I now have trust issues
like if someone said: 'oh so and so likes you'
and said it like they were dead serious and not joking
i would deny it no matter what...:(

any help?

guys i really need help :/

[Gà.]

I have a crush but he has a girlfriend *heart cracks open*

There's also a guy in the grade below me who has a major crush on me (I can just tell by the way he stares at me) but wouldn't it be awkward to date a guy one grade lower than you???

If we thought by that logic by dad would think it was awkward to date my mom > 2 years younger. It may seem like a big gap *now* (even tho its tiny) when your 20, 21, etc. it doesn't matter a bit.

[llamadelrey]

okay
i had my heart smashed yesterday
idk why but everyone randomly started dating...L is dating his crush now.I cried for literally two hours :'(
my eyes are tearing up right now its hard you know E, his crush and his girlfriend,
isnt that nice really,she a little snobby to me and to alot of other people
theres nothing i can do though right?
Like, it hurts, alot.
I really thought he liked me.....
but no.
I kept hoping, but it never worked.
It kept backfiring at me.
I guess i can be his friend?
The problem is that he's nice to me at one time then a total a** the next?
He almost tripped me two weeks ago because he was blocking the classroom door
and we were pushing
each other and he moved abruptly and almost tripped me and everyone laughed -_-
thanks a**
Like in gym when i'm on his team for Ultimate Frisbee he like ALWAYS passes to me acts all nice
His 'girlfriend' isnt in my class though, thank god D:
Like i asked my friend to quickly put my hair up in a pony tail before the game started and
I said."Oh my god, i bet like a retard like this!"
because it was really messy and stuff. L says:
"Oh no you don't you actually look good."
I really wanted to tell him to shut up.
I'm trying to stop thinking some things he does doesnt mean anything at all
It hard its working a little
I was over him for the whole summer then it came back...
I need help trying to forget him or else i'll just get my heart smashed even more
--
My other crush, M, also got a girlfriend the same day L did
talk about friggin weird.
Of course, its A.....
shes like dated all the guys
She and him have known each other since second grade and i have too..
its seems that whoever i like, i get hurt
I now have trust issues
like if someone said: 'oh so and so likes you'
and said it like they were dead serious and not joking
i would deny it no matter what...

any help?

guys i really need help

1.First, listen to Taylor swift. It's weird, it works.
2. Think of all the bad things about the guy, list them on a piece of paper.
3. Consider your list. Is there a lot of bad things? Are these things really that bad? Is this exaggerated?
4. Make a list of why you don't like him now.
5. Think about that list. Scratch that: just hold on to it.
6. Make a list of all the good things about him.
7. Make a list of why you loved him.
8. Compare the bads and the goods. Pair each good with a bad, and decide a winner of the two.
9. Make a new good and bad list using step 8.
10.ponder the new list.

If you followed those steps, you should have a pretty clear position for or against the crushes. Post here when you finish the steps.post your results too, please!

[Shisien]

One quick question, how does one flirt witha friend-crush? O-o I really need help with that...

[SonrienteMuerte]

Ok... So having major guy issues right now.... So I like Z, but he is trying to date some girl from another town, and ddoesn't even know I like him.... And I can't just outright tell him because I'm too shy for that... Then I have this other guy, B, who I think likes me, but eh... Not really sure on him. He's nice and everything, but I just don't like him... Which I feel bad about... Then there is L Who is quickly becoming my best friend, but I'm scared I might start to like him, and he's friends with Z and is trying to help me get with him, but its just so twisted up now.. Not to mention there are more guys that like me, but I don't like them, or guys that like me, but know I won't date them so they are going out with my friends and I'm to the point that I just don't know what to do... help please?


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