Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[abandoned_account]

Hello, I believe that I had posted a comment here a very long time ago, if anyone remembers, about guy issues. Well now I have a problem with a guy I know, again. I'm desperate for answers, as I can't get very good sugestions on what to do in real life because no one understands :I . Okay, here I go.
So I have this very...complicated relationship with a close friend. Let's call this friend D. I like him and he likes me. He told me he did. But soon after D sent me an email saying that he only wanted to be friends so he could see were the relationship was going plus he didn't want to ruin things between us. That's cool, completely understandable. I thought to myself, "that's fine, I don't want to force D into this. I can wait. I'll just try to win him over by being a good friend." That was almost 2 years ago. Things had been pretty good for awhile, we were having a great time in the friend-zone, D would always do nice things for me, complement me, or (in his own way) flirt a little, to the point were some people thought he changed his mind and asked me out. I found myself falling more and more for him. My first love. Wow. I couldn't believe it was happening.
So, since school recently started back up again we've gotton to see more of eachother. I kind of regret it. D's been so distant and angry, and it really feels like the anger is towards me. And all of a sudden, he has all these other girls hanging on him. They all just showed up one day, and C (my best friend who is like a sister to me) isn't sure who they are either. I don't want ask him about it though, it might upset him. But that's not the worst part. If we're ever with C, I feel like a stranger. D talks to her and forgets I'm with them. If I say anything, it's usually ignored or answered with a quick grunt or something close to that. He used to invite us (C and me) to come with him after school, but but lately only inviting her. D also looks at her with that awe-struck face that used to give me, that's not a good sign. Sometimes I thank God that she isn't into him and I feel like a bad person when I do.
So here is my question to anyone out there who might be able to help me. What should I do? I've thought about cuting myself away from him to save myself the pain, but I fear that I might love him too much to do that.

Wow that was a lot to type. I apologize for any misspellings, it's reall hard to type on my iphone thing :I

[Nimble Awesomeness]

Everyone wants ME to ask HIM out. These people include my closest and best friends and even my 19 year old friends who's in the Marines. On Saturday, this said friend saw me at the stable and immediately said, "So, how'd it go?" He was referring to me asking J out, which I never did.
ugh
I'm so shy
I have class with him tomorrow though
<3

Hey, if you're not ready to ask him out, don't do it. It's not up to others what you should do with your life. If you feel like you're not ready, you should go with your instincts and not ask him out. :)

[Shrimplybad]

So, um, I've been wanting to break up with my boyfriend, but I can't get the courage to. I'm hoping he'll break up with me, but that probably won't happen for awhile. Any help?

[Shisien]

Hello, hello, hello. I am here in a little bit of a delema, i like this guy and we have been hanging out like alot. And last time we hung out he had to go into his house and grabed his camera, which after that we when back to the park(We were hanging out from 7-9 that night) and he kept on taking pictures of me. o-e. I will admit it i did felt flattered but i am just wondering also because we both like hugging each other if he likes me back? But im also really shy when telling people i like them. And he's two years older then me and he has alot of girls telling him they like him and i really don't wanna be one of them and embarase myself. That and one time we were sitting beside each other and the night before that i cut myself and then he pointed it out and he freaked out, and i mean FREAKED OUT. (That was a month ago and i haven't cut since) But thank you to any one who will help me know if he likes me or not!

[AbbyMarMac]

I would say he definitely like you!

[Shisien]

I would say he definitely like you!

Please quote the person you are directing this message to! (It confuses every one c:)

[DecafBunny]

Holy car farts help me...I have this friend...let's call him n I don't like him one bit.(god every guy friend I get wants to ask me out ;n;) he moved away today and some adverts happend...*flashbak mode activated* It was yesterday when I asked him how you know when a guy if is flirting with you because I wanted to know if my crush C was flirting with me that day (him and a previous guy whom asked me out before) and him and his friend showed me(very awkward btw) so on the way to my house he kept flirting with me and touched my butt (apparently on a accident...yeah right) and he tried to grab my hand twice.He kept moving closer to me(stupid small sidewalk for being to small) then he admitted it.
-back to early this afternoon- I went over to his house and he,his gf(my friend who is going out with n and the other guy who was at the park lets call him J),the other guy at the park whom asked me out(j)and a 6th grader(let's call him r) we're messing around.r and n had no shirts on and n hugged me and I said I hate to be hugged(give me space more like it) and he chased me.(it was awkward) his gf glared at me and she kept yelling at me and J called me a bit**.Soon we went inside ,had a pillow fight,then it gets awkward...n's gf keeps glaring at me.N said that me and her should kiss,or thAt I should kiss him or j or r.I said no and left.

[Shisien]

Hello, hello, hello. I am here in a little bit of a delema, i like this guy and we have been hanging out like alot. And last time we hung out he had to go into his house and grabed his camera, which after that we when back to the park(We were hanging out from 7-9 that night) and he kept on taking pictures of me. o-e. I will admit it i did felt flattered but i am just wondering also because we both like hugging each other if he likes me back? But im also really shy when telling people i like them. And he's two years older then me and he has alot of girls telling him they like him and i really don't wanna be one of them and embarase myself. That and one time we were sitting beside each other and the night before that i cut myself and then he pointed it out and he freaked out, and i mean FREAKED OUT. (That was a month ago and i haven't cut since) But thank you to any one who will help me know if he likes me or not!

[[x]]

Guys I don't know what to do about JO. Whenever I see him or he sees me he would tease me or say hi to me. Whenever I see him I go, "Heyyyyyyyy JO_________" (Say his name really long). I don't want that to send him mixed signals. He is really sweet but he's just a friend. I know for sure he likes me because he was talking to his friend one day at his locker and my friend's locker is really close to his. He was giving REALLY OBVIOUS hints on who he likes. He said, "She's short, she has brown hair, her name has 4 letters in it. It starts with E and ends with _." I want to tell him I only think of him as a friend but I don't want to hurt his feelings! He doesn't show it but he is really fragile. Whenever me and my friend is talking J always butts into our conversations as I do with him. He lost all his pencils and his ruler (Yup. That's my Loser Idiot for ya.) so instead of asking the people around him he would ask me. He keeps on losing my pencils but I'm sure he's doing it on purpose. Nobody can't lose a pencil going from one class to another. During SR (Silent Reading) one day I would see him glance at me from the corner of my eye from time to time. He always asks me for help when he has his friends around him. I want to work up the courage to be partners for math one day but he always goes with his friend. They pick even before we're supposed to pick. One day during drama he came in a bit late but this girl who admires me came before him and sat right next to me. I saw that J was going to sit beside me!!! I can't be rude to her and I don't want to tell her I like J so I have to put up with it. I- I don't know what to do!

[painted.]

I need some major help/advice. I just started high school and I came from a school in the middle of nowhere. I don't know anybody too well and I am (regretfully) starting to get a crush on a guy. I've never had a boyfriend or guy friends, so I don't know what to do. I get scared to talk to guys only because I have no idea how to interact with them. Help???