Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[abandoned_account]

On Friday, I was like super mixed emotion day for me XD

So first of all, I have a crush on this guy, um, E. and another girl likes him also. I have every class with him exept one, so I'm with him 5 days a week and about 7 hours each day , anyway, at P.E., the other girl would poke him and try to run off, but I mean she's overweight and her little legs don't go too fast. I think she poked him because I had poked him earlier in a game my friend and I play with a bunch of these guys. So I guess she decided to "join" our game, called "Poke War", and poke him too. I'm very fast, so I always outrun E. in Poke War and he always ends up being poked. Well, the girl is not my friend in the first place and she definitly isn't now, either. So on Tuesday, we were in the locker rooms and the girl comes up to me and just asks who I have a crush on, so I tell her she doesn't need to know. She starts guessing and after I think 3 minutes, she guessed it was E. She just starts laughing and starts pointing out mean things about him and making fun of him. So I laughed along, but didn't insult him.

On Thursday, my best friend texts me asking "did you tell the girl that you like E. ?" and I didn't reply because my phone died two seconds later eats its own battery, that phone. Anyway, at school, my friend tells me that E. asked her if it was true that I liked him. So to protect me, she answered "no". On Friday, the girl comes up to me at lunch and tells me that he asked her out last night. I was just shocked so I said something like "oh, ok, ya. Ok, that's fine." like a total idiot and she just is like "oh, I'm so sorry" and "I didn't know what to say to him" and whatnot. So after she got her lunch, she goes and sits at the Poke War table right next to E. and I couldn't take it, so I didn't eat and didn't laugh at him or the other guys the whole lunch. I don't think I'll be poking him any more. Later on Friday, I was in my room and I don't know how it happened, but I was drawing in my sketchbook and I burst into tears. I guess I held it in all school day, and I had to let it out sometime, right?

Can anyone explain why he decided to just date her all of a sudden?

I'm having serious problems of my own so I'm not sure how helpful I'll be.
I have asked guys about why they ask out girls they don't have any intrest in. 90% of the the time the answer was either to look cool or impress someone. It differs though. So he might be doing it to make you jealous?

[East]

Everyone wants ME to ask HIM out. These people include my closest and best friends and even my 19 year old friends who's in the Marines. On Saturday, this said friend saw me at the stable and immediately said, "So, how'd it go?" He was referring to me asking J out, which I never did.
ugh
I'm so shy
I have class with him tomorrow though
<3

[Eleanor and Louis]

I am the kind of girl that gets along with everyone, but I am not the top rank most popular and I am fine with that. There is this REALLY popular guy also. Well all these popular girls want to marry him, and I never really liked him like that. But then he turns around and flirts with me all of the time and does the cutest things to get my attention. It is just so funny, because the other girls think that I am taking him from them, and I never even talked to him, so he just comes up to me and starts flirting while the girls are getting mad at me....I think it is pretty funny. Yesterday he asked me to the fair....and so I went....and we both had a great time.

[abandoned_account]

Hello, I believe that I had posted a comment here a very long time ago, if anyone remembers, about guy issues. Well now I have a problem with a guy I know, again. I'm desperate for answers, as I can't get very good sugestions on what to do in real life because no one understands :I . Okay, here I go.
So I have this very...complicated relationship with a close friend. Let's call this friend D. I like him and he likes me. He told me he did. But soon after D sent me an email saying that he only wanted to be friends so he could see were the relationship was going plus he didn't want to ruin things between us. That's cool, completely understandable. I thought to myself, "that's fine, I don't want to force D into this. I can wait. I'll just try to win him over by being a good friend." That was almost 2 years ago. Things had been pretty good for awhile, we were having a great time in the friend-zone, D would always do nice things for me, complement me, or (in his own way) flirt a little, to the point were some people thought he changed his mind and asked me out. I found myself falling more and more for him. My first love. Wow. I couldn't believe it was happening.
So, since school recently started back up again we've gotton to see more of eachother. I kind of regret it. D's been so distant and angry, and it really feels like the anger is towards me. And all of a sudden, he has all these other girls hanging on him. They all just showed up one day, and C (my best friend who is like a sister to me) isn't sure who they are either. I don't want ask him about it though, it might upset him. But that's not the worst part. If we're ever with C, I feel like a stranger. D talks to her and forgets I'm with them. If I say anything, it's usually ignored or answered with a quick grunt or something close to that. He used to invite us (C and me) to come with him after school, but but lately only inviting her. D also looks at her with that awe-struck face that used to give me, that's not a good sign. Sometimes I thank God that she isn't into him and I feel like a bad person when I do.
So here is my question to anyone out there who might be able to help me. What should I do? I've thought about cuting myself away from him to save myself the pain, but I fear that I might love him too much to do that.

Wow that was a lot to type. I apologize for any misspellings, it's reall hard to type on my iphone thing :I

A quick bump before I go to bed.

[Fluffy:3]

@ =Neo= - Well, I don't think she's improving his reputation. She's really obnoxious, kinda not smart, and too talkative. He wouldn't be impressing anyone with her with him. But I did read that the guys tend to like the dumber girls because they're easier to understand. I'm in all advance classes and smart.

[DecafBunny]

Holy car farts help me...I have this friend...let's call him n I don't like him one bit.(god every guy friend I get wants to ask me out ;n;) he moved away today and some adverts happend...*flashbak mode activated* It was yesterday when I asked him how you know when a guy if is flirting with you because I wanted to know if my crush C was flirting with me that day (him and a previous guy whom asked me out before) and him and his friend showed me(very awkward btw) so on the way to my house he kept flirting with me and touched my butt (apparently on a accident...yeah right) and he tried to grab my hand twice.He kept moving closer to me(stupid small sidewalk for being to small) then he admitted it.
-back to early this afternoon- I went over to his house and he,his gf(my friend who is going out with n and the other guy who was at the park lets call him J),the other guy at the park whom asked me out(j)and a 6th grader(let's call him r) we're messing around.r and n had no shirts on and n hugged me and I said I hate to be hugged(give me space more like it) and he chased me.(it was awkward) his gf glared at me and she kept yelling at me and J called me a bit**.Soon we went inside ,had a pillow fight,then it gets awkward...n's gf keeps glaring at me.N said that me and her should kiss,or thAt I should kiss him or j or r.I said no and left.

[Gà.]

Soooo.... I like this kid.. Hes really mature, and is 3 years older then me. Due to the age gap (just because of how old I am RIGHT now and how old He is right now, not that 3 years is a problem), I'm just interested in friends.... But I kinda think he likes me (yes I like him), whenever we hang out (only like 3 times a year. I only know him because my sister is in the Big Brother Big Sister's program and hes step son to my sisters 'big sister' ) we're always together. We're always having fun, and on the last time we saw him, he kept tackling me on the trampolne. Anyways, my Q is, does it sound like he likes me?? (I'm reading the first page so sorry if theres something like this onthere xD )

[texaco]

ugububu ugh
basically kat gets crushes on everyone and literally all of those crushes have bout 0% chance of ever being fulfilled ever
there's this girl in my class who's reALLY PRETTY AND REALLY FUNNY AND AWESOME but like i'm not really friends with her and i think the only reason she has any idea who i am is because we're on the same field hockey team and i'm really awkward and really quiet and the chances of us sharing any interests whatsoever is like 9567 to 1 and like guys i probably couldn't hold up a conversation with her alone or anything but woAH like she's just really talented and awesome and guh

and THEN the other one is my friend like best friend we've been biffles since like third grade we don't go to the same school anymore but we still text each other a ton and still get together from time to time and wow okay definitely have a crush on her but big problem she is completely and definitely straight (like literally no "maybe" factor at all i've been her best friend since third grade i know this as a fact i could cite this fact MLA style) and i've never told her straight out that i like girls but i've kind of alluded to it from time to time and i think she knows sort of maybe? but the point still stands that we are super awesome best friends but she is 800% straight

lOUD SIGH

does anyone have advice for falling for girls that at least have a tiny plausible chance of liking you back thank

[luxuriantluke]

okay
i had my heart smashed yesterday :(
idk why but everyone randomly started dating...L is dating his crush now.I cried for literally two hours :'(
my eyes are tearing up right now its hard you know E, his crush and his girlfriend,
isnt that nice really,she a little snobby to me and to alot of other people
theres nothing i can do though right?
Like, it hurts, alot.
I really thought he liked me.....
but no.
I kept hoping, but it never worked.
It kept backfiring at me.
I guess i can be his friend?
The problem is that he's nice to me at one time then a total a** the next?
He almost tripped me two weeks ago because he was blocking the classroom door
and we were pushing
each other and he moved abruptly and almost tripped me and everyone laughed -_-
thanks a**
Like in gym when i'm on his team for Ultimate Frisbee he like ALWAYS passes to me acts all nice
His 'girlfriend' isnt in my class though, thank god D:
Like i asked my friend to quickly put my hair up in a pony tail before the game started and
I said."Oh my god, i bet like a retard like this!"
because it was really messy and stuff. L says:
"Oh no you don't you actually look good."
I really wanted to tell him to shut up.
I'm trying to stop thinking some things he does doesnt mean anything at all
It hard its working a little
I was over him for the whole summer then it came back...
I need help trying to forget him or else i'll just get my heart smashed even more :(
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My other crush, M, also got a girlfriend the same day L did
talk about friggin weird.
Of course, its A.....
shes like dated all the guys
She and him have known each other since second grade and i have too..
its seems that whoever i like, i get hurt
I now have trust issues
like if someone said: 'oh so and so likes you'
and said it like they were dead serious and not joking
i would deny it no matter what...:(

any help?

[[x]]

Guys I don't know what to do about JO. Whenever I see him or he sees me he would tease me or say hi to me. Whenever I see him I go, "Heyyyyyyyy JO_________" (Say his name really long). I don't want that to send him mixed signals. He is really sweet but he's just a friend. I know for sure he likes me because he was talking to his friend one day at his locker and my friend's locker is really close to his. He was giving REALLY OBVIOUS hints on who he likes. He said, "She's short, she has brown hair, her name has 4 letters in it. It starts with E and ends with _." I want to tell him I only think of him as a friend but I don't want to hurt his feelings! He doesn't show it but he is really fragile. Whenever me and my friend is talking J always butts into our conversations as I do with him. He lost all his pencils and his ruler (Yup. That's my Loser Idiot for ya.) so instead of asking the people around him he would ask me. He keeps on losing my pencils but I'm sure he's doing it on purpose. Nobody can't lose a pencil going from one class to another. During SR (Silent Reading) one day I would see him glance at me from the corner of my eye from time to time. He always asks me for help when he has his friends around him. I want to work up the courage to be partners for math one day but he always goes with his friend. They pick even before we're supposed to pick. One day during drama he came in a bit late but this girl who admires me came before him and sat right next to me. I saw that J was going to sit beside me!!! I can't be rude to her and I don't want to tell her I like J so I have to put up with it. I- I don't know what to do!