Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

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So... tomorrow at school I'm thinking about conversing with JA. What should I say? I know I'm gonna welcome him to the school and ask him what he wants to be when he grows up (He seems like a very smart person) but how do I start and when should I ask him all this? What if he gets creeped out by my questions and stuff? I'm positive he likes me, I'm *irresistible*.

[Zeee]

(NAME KEY :D --
B = My crush
H = My crush's girlfriend, and my best friend
BE = B's best friend
Me = Me :D)

Good news- I finally got the courage to ask B out, but there's one little issue or two...
One, he has a girlfriend. Two, his girlfriend is my best friend (H).
They're so happy together, so I doubt he'd say yes, but... Yeah.

H told me that I should date BE so that we could all hang out, and it wouldn't be awkward,
but I really don't like him... (he's really annoying) XD I kept on saying no. I don't understand why it would be awkward if we, and a bunch of other guys, hung out together if we weren't dating? Why would that be awkward?
She told me another reason is because I'm "lonely." XD This is B's, H's, BE's, and my conversation...

(all hanging out)
H: You and BE should date.
Me: Haha, no. Why?
H: Cause then we could all hang out together!
B: Yeah, what she said.
BE: No...
Me: I agree... Not a chance.
BE: Thanks for agreeing with me.
Me: No prob! Haha!
(we high-fived)
H: *pointing at us* SEE! You have so much in common.
B: Sorry to interrupt, but... what do they have in common? Like really?
H: They both hate eachother!
(we all start laughing)
Me: Seriously, but no. I'm not dating him.
BE: Yeah... Thanks for the offer, not, but I'll pass.
H: Fine.
B: I dunno, it'd be cool... But whatever.
H: Yeah... It would be less awkward.
Me: Okay, H. Give me another reason why. A better one.
H: Because... You're lonely...
Me: I'm not lonely!
B: Are you sure about that?
Me: B, I'm perfectly fine being single.
B: Okay, fine, whatever. Haha.
Me: Thank you!
H: *whispering to me* ...But you are lonely.
Me: .... ._.
And then I split to talk to someone that needed my help.

XD I still, however, can't get over how B called me funny (he said it so shyly and so cutely<3) Let's refresh your minds of the conversation...

Me: Hey! B, wait up!
B: Yeah? What's up?
Me: Why did you ask me if I liked you?
B: ...
Me: I mean, what does it matter? You have a girlfriend.
B: I don't know.
Me: That's not a valid answer, and you know it.
B: Because... you're funny...
Me: Oh am I? How so?
B: I don't know, you just are.
Me: ...
B: And you make me laugh. I don't know, you're just generally funny!
Me: *telling him a joke to test it*
B: *bursts out laughing*
Me: So I am funny?
B: *pauses* Yeah.
Me: Any other reason?
B: Nope.
Me: Aw, really? *laughing*
B: Well...
He just paused and was called onto the bus, so he never finished, and I can't get him to tell me what he was gonna say. D:

[Tyra_Rawr_700]

And I need advice, one piece for me and one for my friend.

My friend
It's obvious she likes this boy who I'm friends with (he Is my ex lol!!) and I've warned her he is BAAAAAAD!!! He is a heartbreaker...I mean it. I'm scared for her, I don't want her to get her heartbroken!!!! I need to help her get over him!! But she sees him everyday. I might get him to talk to her and see if he could like her back...she's nice and kind and my friend would get along with her!!! But just...he moves along so fast...I'm really scared 4 her! I've liked him, asked him out, he dumped me the day after then </3!!! I got over him tho.

Me
My boyfriend is calling me babe and all that stuff, I need to know, is there anything like that you can say to a boy?? Or just something romantic?? I also need corage to say I love you to him...I could try at my youth club...that'd be a good time...but there is year 8 and stuff there...maybe on our own...I could say that then kiss him, I'm not sure what to do or how to start the kiss or anything. I REALLY need help!!! PLZZZ HELP!!!!!!'

~T

For your friend, maybe he won't be a heartbreaker for her. You have to just let her make that decision on her own. What happens, happens.

As for you, feel free to say "babe" too. It took my boyfriend months to actually get me to say that. x3 The romantic thing, can't give too much advice there. Guys do like compliments as much as we do though, so those are always good.
The whole "I love you" thing, just be sure you mean it. You could say it over text first if that makes you feel better or more confident about it.
The kiss... well, have you ever kissed a guy before? I'm guessing no, because once you do it you'll always know how. Just tilt your head to the side and kiss him. Simple as that, but then again I was nervous before my first kiss too. My boyfriend was the one who initiated it.

thank you, i have kissed before but...i wasn't the one who started it. we both say i love you over txt but i just need the courage to say it to his face!!! XD thanks you once again for the advice. ~T

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Wow... this board always needs a bump.

[Tyra_Rawr_700]

So my plan...failed...........

I told my guy-friend that my friend obviously likes him then she found I said that and she said she didn't but...she does!!! So then she said if I don't convince him that's not the truth then she will tell the most annoying boy in my form that I like him...

I told my other guy-friend to tell my guy-friends she don't like him but he knows now!! Ahhhh!!!! I hate it when stuff backfires...well, I asked for it I guess...

[Nimble Awesomeness]

I have a TON of guy friends with next to no girl friends, I think I might have a crush on one or more of my guy friends. How do I prevent possible injury to our friendship(s)?

There's something about this on the front page. ;)

Don't worry about it. If you just want to be friends, that's what your relationship will be. If they wants something more, that's ok too. It makes it harder, but they're not worth it anyways if they would want you to force you into dating. If you don't want to like them, you don't have to. You are in control of your feelings, why do you think they're called yours? They're not your mom's, they're not your friends. Your feelings aren't any of ours either; they're yours. Do what you want with them, and place them where you wish.

People in this society say you can't choose who you love. But the thing is, you can. It's really not hard. Like I said multiple times, they're your feelings.

I have a TON of guy friends with next to no girl friends, I think I might have a crush on one or more of my guy friends. How do I prevent possible injury to our friendship(s)?

let the crushes grow, like how they make cheese. Wat untill ts thick and yummy to do anything with it.

^Don't do that if you don't want to ruin the friendship. If you do this you risk them not liking you, and thus, the friendship now an awkward one-sided crush.

Wow... this board always needs a bump.

No, it doesn't. Please don't bump this thread, it's not that slow moving. If you want more advice on your problem, quote it once every page. (Just no more than that.)

[-Firesong-]

And I need advice, one piece for me and one for my friend.

My friend
It's obvious she likes this boy who I'm friends with (he Is my ex lol!!) and I've warned her he is BAAAAAAD!!! He is a heartbreaker...I mean it. I'm scared for her, I don't want her to get her heartbroken!!!! I need to help her get over him!! But she sees him everyday. I might get him to talk to her and see if he could like her back...she's nice and kind and my friend would get along with her!!! But just...he moves along so fast...I'm really scared 4 her! I've liked him, asked him out, he dumped me the day after then </3!!! I got over him tho.

Me
My boyfriend is calling me babe and all that stuff, I need to know, is there anything like that you can say to a boy?? Or just something romantic?? I also need corage to say I love you to him...I could try at my youth club...that'd be a good time...but there is year 8 and stuff there...maybe on our own...I could say that then kiss him, I'm not sure what to do or how to start the kiss or anything. I REALLY need help!!! PLZZZ HELP!!!!!!'

~T

For your friend, maybe he won't be a heartbreaker for her. You have to just let her make that decision on her own. What happens, happens.

As for you, feel free to say "babe" too. It took my boyfriend months to actually get me to say that. x3 The romantic thing, can't give too much advice there. Guys do like compliments as much as we do though, so those are always good.
The whole "I love you" thing, just be sure you mean it. You could say it over text first if that makes you feel better or more confident about it.
The kiss... well, have you ever kissed a guy before? I'm guessing no, because once you do it you'll always know how. Just tilt your head to the side and kiss him. Simple as that, but then again I was nervous before my first kiss too. My boyfriend was the one who initiated it.

thank you, i have kissed before but...i wasn't the one who started it. we both say i love you over txt but i just need the courage to say it to his face!!! XD thanks you once again for the advice. ~T

Yeah, for a long time I would not initiate a kiss. Now, I have no problem doing it.
Anyways, it took me forever to actually be able to say "I love you" first to my boyfriend. I think I actually said it first for the first time in July, after we'd been dating for over a year.

Anyways, there's a football game tonight and me and Buggy are going. c: I was just thinking back, and I remember a year ago I was asking for advice on making out on this thread. /sillyoldme
I just found it funny, as it's pretty much the easiest thing in the world and I was all scared and nervous.

[Roonil Wazlib]

So, there's this guy. I'll call him A. So, I met him 2 years ago. I had one class with him and his friend. I didn't really talk to A much, mainly because his friend was really annoying and A didn't talk to me much either. So, last year A started talking to me, since he had a few classes with me. It was sort of..sudden, I mean we didn't really talk before but we just sort of suddenly began talking. Anyways, this year it's been sort of the same as last year, but today he complimented my haircut and he never really noticed anything like that before...I'm so confused right now, what do you guys think? Oh yeah, I'm in high school if that helps at all

Edit: Oh, and I forgot to say: It's really weird because he has other friends who are girls but he teases them all the time, but he's never teased me- is that because he doesn't think of me as a friend, or because he likes me?

[Tyra_Rawr_700]

So my plan...failed...........

I told my guy-friend that my friend obviously likes him then she found I said that and she said she didn't but...she does!!! So then she said if I don't convince him that's not the truth then she will tell the most annoying boy in my form that I like him...

I told my other guy-friend to tell my guy-friends she don't like him but he knows now!! Ahhhh!!!! I hate it when stuff backfires...well, I asked for it I guess...

I feel really bad for you on this one.
What I would do if I were in this postition is to apologize to your friend and convince her you meant good. If she is still upset, talk to your guy-friend that she likes and first tell him that you made a mistake and she doesn't like him. If he doesn't buy it, find out if he likes your friend back. On chance that he does, go back to your friend and off-handedly tell her that he likes her. If she has a positive response, encourage her to ask him out.
This just might untangle you from this mess! If it doesn't work, feel free to PM me and I will come up with some more advice.

Thank you, I've tried convincing him. He didn't believe me, so I said 'look, she does like you but...you didn't hear anything!!' then smiled! Ha ha ha! Best I could do!!

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JA update! I can now just call him J on here because we have much more in common than me and JO so... yeah. I forgot to mention yesterday that during LA when he was asking me all those questions we looked at each other at the same time and held it for about 3 or so seconds. His eyes being big already got bigger and we both slowly looked away. Today I also realized we have the same personality. We're both shy when meeting new people or around our crush, we love Percy Jackson, and we are both very sarcastic. During library his friend kept looking at me in curiosity so he's probably on a "mission" to see if I like J. J is a bit more mature than me which is good because I have PPS and I don't want that to stick with me forever! We always look at each other at the same time and he always instantly looks away. I should've hinted during LA that I love honest guys because I had the perfect oppertunity. Him and all his friends surround me during LA and so one guy complimented me on my drawing. J and his other friends told him to stop "flirting" and I could've gone, "Yeah, T. If you like me just tell me." but guess what... J was the one who started the teasing! That could mean something... right?