Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[seattle]

The day after he said he loved me he broke up with me because he likes someone else.
I just... I don't think I haver any tears left.



I think I'll drown my sorrows in popcorn and chocolate.

May I have some advice on how to get over him? Food ain't cutting it, haha. ^^;
But I still really like him and I just... ugh.

I know that feel. :c
My boyfriend broke up with me last summer, not long before school started. It was my first real breakup, and I took it hard at first. Until I decided that I didn't want to let him make me feel this way. [I am all about having control.]
I'm not a very emotional person now, and I really wasn't back then. So having no idea how to go about a breakup, this is what I did.

-I let myself be as depressed as I wanted for three days. Listen to depressing music, lock myself in my room, indulge in chocolate.
-I wrote letters to him, about fifteen I think, that I never sent. They were pages long. But I need to get it out of my system.
-I listened to "The Scientist", by Coldplay on repeat.

And then, I decided I wasn't going to let myself be depressed anymore. I wanted to fight that feeling, so I did.
-I ran, and ran, and ran, and ran, and ran. Lots of running, because when I ran, I didn't think.
-I started listening to more upbeat music. "Over You", by Daughtry, was my song. I still know every word.
-I didn't listen to any love songs. Don't listen to love songs, they only make you more depressed.
-I told myself he was a jerk, over and over and over.
-I didn't hate him for breaking up with me.
-I had fun with my friends.

Then, school started. At open house I saw him and realized I was not over him. But this is what I did:
-I didn't beg.
-I didn't yell at him.
-I didn't take it out on him.
-I didn't cry in front of him. Not that I did cry, as I said, I wasn't emotional then.

Now, my story is different because that was over a year ago and he still liked me. We did get back together, but I made him work for it, I made him beg.
But, that's my breakup advice, and I'm sticking to it.

Though, if he broke up with me now I'd probably crawl in a hole and die.

The day after he said he loved me he broke up with me because he likes someone else.
I just... I don't think I haver any tears left.



I think I'll drown my sorrows in popcorn and chocolate.

May I have some advice on how to get over him? Food ain't cutting it, haha. ^^;
But I still really like him and I just... ugh.

This has hapened to me before...you will just eventually get over him! My ex, D, dumped the day after I asked him out. I was heart broken but I didn't cry, I sat on the same table as him but didnt cry. You WILL get over him!

Just think this: He is stupid if he says I love you then moves onto someone else. You don't need him back if you know what a rubbish boyfriend he is, if he isn't loyal there is no point wasting your life over him. He's gotta learn that girls can be strong, so you fell for him! That dont mean you can't get over him!!!

Thanks so much, both of you<3 Well, when we broke up with me he lied about why. He said that since we go to different schools we won't be able to hang out that much, so I, thinking that was the only reason, suggested the weekends. But he just replied with "I'm sorry" and so I started getting suspicious, and I asked him if he liked someone else and he wrote this big long apology. Obviously we know what his answer was.. but he also asked if we can still be friends which I don't know if I can handle. I don't know if I like him that much or if I just like being in a relationship. I think it's a little bit of both, but every morning I think I'm over him and then in the afternoon it starts all over again.
Thanks again so much for the advice, it really does help<3

[Simplistic Beauty]

Alright so awhile go me and my friend met this one guy. I kinda liked him but my friend did as well. He was also bi at the time so I questioned myself. We've been talking online for awhile and now my friend says he likes her a bit more bt now i'm starting to like really like him. I have no clue what to do! I don't want to betray my friend but I like this guy!

[CaptiveLegacy]

I am so excited!!

My boyfriends comes up from college tomorrow, I miss him so much! We are going to go to the fair, and celebrate our 1 year on the 2nd <3

[Heatwave]

I went on my first date with Matty! <333

It wasn't that romantic, but it was so nice to be with him!
At lunch time we went up to the local town center which is a five minute walk from our school, we ate at a proper cafe there. He payed, too!
We held hands all the way there and back, and at the cafe we talked and talked. In fact, we nearly forgot about getting back to school. (We ran half the way back, but he still held my hand)

[Tyra_Rawr_700]

Ok, couple of pages back i posted that my BF (Over txt) asked me to 'Make out' with him (i still do not know what he means by make out, but im not letting him go to far. im very young.) in the 'future' so i asked, what do you mean by the future?and the answer..........a week. But ive seen him since them and he hasn't mentioned it! Yay! but i dont think his mum likes me at the mo... :'( coz me, him, my friend, and his friend went out on a walk without really telling his mum. then we turned up at my house and his mum drove past, saw us and then my dad persuaded his mum to let him stay for a bit longer.

and plus, every time i look at him he looks into my eyes, i get really nervous and look away. is there anyway to over come that?

[size=85]Make out means kissing with your tongue, to put it bluntly. But if you don't feel ready or comfortable about it then tell him you're not ready to move into that kind of level in your relationship, regardless of any excuses he may come up with (e.g. "Everybody is doing it") or pressuring you because he 'loves' you. (If he really does he wouldn't be pressuring you in the first place) Just a little forewarning there in case you ever get into that kind of situation.

But since he haven't mentioned yet he either forgotten about it, somehow he's physic and realized you don't want to go into that level and stopped, or he's a real nice guy and doesn't want to pressure you.

Uh, I can't really tell since I'm sort of lacking information here but if your relationship just started recently then that's natural for most relationships; there's nothing really worry about and you'll get over it eventually. If it's another reason such as the make out situation you mentioned before then that might be possibly it, but really you're gonna need to be more specific so I can understand the situation a little

Thx and when we first kissed (it was a dare lol, but I hav a feeling it was a planed dare.) we were both kinda awkward so he went out and talked to his friend,this is what he said: look, Its kinda awkward and I'm not sure if she wants to. We did kiss and it was fine. I think he doesn't want to pressure me, he knows I'm not like that but is trying to help me get over it.

~T

[chart]

i feel pathetic because i have never had a boyfriend before, and i am in my early teens. how pathetic am i?

i know i should get over my crush, but every day i purposly rush oustide into the hallway just to walk passed him. i am obsessive. everyone is right. i just need to move on because i am too hopless at him ever liking me.
if he'll never like me i see no point in trying.
i need ways to forget. but forgetting someone you think you truly love is like trying to remember someone you've never met ...
help? :c

[Captain Iron Krista]

i feel pathetic because i have never had a boyfriend before, and i am in my early teens. how pathetic am i?

i know i should get over my crush, but every day i purposly rush oustide into the hallway just to walk passed him. i am obsessive. everyone is right. i just need to move on because i am too hopless at him ever liking me.
if he'll never like me i see no point in trying.
i need ways to forget. but forgetting someone you think you truly love is like trying to remember someone you've never met ...
help? :c

Wow. I think I just found my twin. Never had a bf & I do thet same exact thing as you do. I love to see his face in the hallway.

I think you shoukd try and pursue him. If that's not your type of thing, then try and be friends with him first. Find out his interests, what he likesin a girl and get to know him better. See if you truly think it's love or just a crush.

[rachiechu888]

So there's this guy I like, and he's in my 3rd period class (which is drama). So we were done with our (my drama group) script read-throughs, so we all were just talking. Well he (let's call him C), is righting a story, so he decided to work on it it class. Okay, random time skip, but then, towards the end of class, he asked everyone for their phone numbers. I use a texting app(long story, my phone doesn't have a sim card.. XP), so I didn't know what mine was. I just gave him my email instead.. XP There was only one other guy in our group that gave him their number, and no one else did... I think he likes me, but he also always talks to me at the end of class. However, he's a year older than me, so I have my doubts... Okay, so he said he was going to email me his phone number so I could text him, but he'll probably do it tomorrow. XP I hope he's responded though! *goes to check email*

Edit: I checked it, but it wasn't there! DX He probably typed my name wrong... Or put a capital R on the first word. Maybe he forgot? Oh well... XD

[llamadelrey]

i feel pathetic because i have never had a boyfriend before, and i am in my early teens. how pathetic am i?

i know i should get over my crush, but every day i purposly rush oustide into the hallway just to walk passed him. i am obsessive. everyone is right. i just need to move on because i am too hopless at him ever liking me.
if he'll never like me i see no point in trying.
i need ways to forget. but forgetting someone you think you truly love is like trying to remember someone you've never met ...
help? :c

Wow. I think I just found my twin. Never had a bf & I do thet same exact thing as you do. I love to see his face in the hallway.

I think you shoukd try and pursue him. If that's not your type of thing, then try and be friends with him first. Find out his interests, what he likesin a girl and get to know him better. See if you truly think it's love or just a crush.

Pretty sure we a triplets, because, he sits in front of me in class and I stare at his beautiful hair. For the whole, entire period. I even get docked participatin points.

Stupid hormones. Stop it, your making my score go from an a to a b!

[Shire14]

i feel pathetic because i have never had a boyfriend before, and i am in my early teens. how pathetic am i?

i know i should get over my crush, but every day i purposly rush oustide into the hallway just to walk passed him. i am obsessive. everyone is right. i just need to move on because i am too hopless at him ever liking me.
if he'll never like me i see no point in trying.
i need ways to forget. but forgetting someone you think you truly love is like trying to remember someone you've never met ...
help? :c

Wow. I think I just found my twin. Never had a bf & I do thet same exact thing as you do. I love to see his face in the hallway.

I think you shoukd try and pursue him. If that's not your type of thing, then try and be friends with him first. Find out his interests, what he likesin a girl and get to know him better. See if you truly think it's love or just a crush.

i agree ^ but be careful, i had 1 real BF and im in my early teens too and he wasnt wirth it in the end. we had along time relationship then he started pushing it and it became uncomfortable for me to be around him. so my advace is to just be careful and good luck! x3