Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[Shire14]

lol yup! @professer, the avengers pic in your siggy is my computers background! ;3

[greysilence]

Welp, I haven't posted here since I've gotten over Jon. Noowww...

I like someone else. His name is Nick. :3 He's a year older than me, and he has blue eyes. <3 Along with longer dark brown hair. He's incredibely funny, and absolutely adorable. He's extremely weird, just like me. :p lol Instead of being nervous and awkward, I'm actually comfortable around him. ^w^ And, he flirts a bit, so of course I flirt back. I don't know, it's just sooo....different then when I liked Jon. But a good different, and I like it a lot more. C:

[Deeply Charmed]

There's this guy he's really funny and nice and really hot. He's in my class & I've been liking scince school started, since he's new. Anyways, I've noticed every once and a while I catch him looking at me, even today.
But what he got a girlfriend yesterday....
What's up with this guy?

Ooookay. So..
My friend Haley ended up sitting by him and asked him a lot of questions about me and so then when I got home I messaged her on Facebook asking her what she said. Because at the end of class she said she talked about me. And she said she asked him if he liked me and, according to her, he said yeah. Then, she said she asked him if he'd go out with me of her single. I was like, why'd you do that? Now he KNOWS I like him.
So, when I messaged him on facebook and asked if haley said anything. He said no, why? and haley promised me she asked him that stuff. So I said 'Yeah, youre cute' because I'm not gonna lie. And he said thanks. And a couple hours later he messaged me his number and said I should text him. So i did and we've been texting for 2 days now

[Livalathia]

Okay...so now that school is starting up again..I will never get to see my bf anymore
We don't go to the same school...and the only time ill see him is dances and on the weekends if my parents aren't working..most likely. I hate this x.x I'm trying to just enjoy my last week but its not really working out.
Oh and I found out that his whole family doesn't like me...does anyone have any advice for that? Cause idk what to do about it They are kinda tearing us apart a little D;

Whydoeslifehateme? D;

[Lady Luna]

Ok, so I like T, more than just "you're my best guy friend" like, but "I want to be your girlfriend" like. He's one of the few guys that I can actually have a full length conversation with because we've been hanging out off and on since 4th grade. He's scrawny for a basketball player, has dirty blonde hair that I like to run my hand through, breathtaking blue-green eyes and he has some of the funniest stories ever. There's just one problem. This kid in my class, D, seems like he likes me. I used to like him and even asked him out once. (Shocking, I know.) He turned me down and I got over him. Now he's just kinda being.... weird about it, I guess. What do I do?

[Valentines]

Hey guys

Just got off work at a daycare and I realized something.

I DO want kids, not now though, and I want a guy whose gonna be a good dad.

Seriously, one of the little girls who was there(these are pre-k kids mind you) her dad came to pick her up and soon as he walked in she yelled 'Daddy!' and ran to him and he picked her up, spun her around and gave her a kiss on the cheek and asked how her day was.

And it was SO sweet!

And It got me thinking, and I think when that time came around, Will(My boyfriend) would be that dad.
I've already seen him with kids, and he's great with them, they love him. And with how affectionate and protective and caring he is to me, I feel that he'd be that way to his own, specially cause his dad wasn't really that way with him(every time we get on that subject he always tells me he wished his dad played more the caring father role than military dad role).

Speaking of Will, we talk, constantly, Though I won't be able to see him till the 16th probably. I'ma try to see him sooner though. Hopefully his car will get fixed soon... again(His Camaro, it's an 89 Manual iRoc, has so many problems it's not funny.)

And if anyone wants to see a picture of us, pm me :3 I love gushing about him. Lol

[Simplistic Beauty]

Alright so awhile go me and my friend met this one guy. I kinda liked him but my friend did as well. He was also bi at the time so I questioned myself. We've been talking online for awhile and now my friend says he likes her a bit more bt now i'm starting to like really like him. I have no clue what to do! I don't want to betray my friend but I like this guy!

[Tyra_Rawr_700]

Ok, couple of pages back i posted that my BF (Over txt) asked me to 'Make out' with him (i still do not know what he means by make out, but im not letting him go to far. im very young.) in the 'future' so i asked, what do you mean by the future?and the answer..........a week. But ive seen him since them and he hasn't mentioned it! Yay! but i dont think his mum likes me at the mo... :'( coz me, him, my friend, and his friend went out on a walk without really telling his mum. then we turned up at my house and his mum drove past, saw us and then my dad persuaded his mum to let him stay for a bit longer.

and plus, every time i look at him he looks into my eyes, i get really nervous and look away. is there anyway to over come that?

[Julia]

He's two years younger than me.

I don't know how to handle that.

Why is it alright if the girl is two years younger, but not the boy? :l

I know age shouldn't matter and all that stuff, that real love is stronger.

But really, some people look at me as if I do something forbidden when I talk about him.

[rocketmaids]

Ok, couple of pages back i posted that my BF (Over txt) asked me to 'Make out' with him (i still do not know what he means by make out, but im not letting him go to far. im very young.) in the 'future' so i asked, what do you mean by the future?and the answer..........a week. But ive seen him since them and he hasn't mentioned it! Yay! but i dont think his mum likes me at the mo... :'( coz me, him, my friend, and his friend went out on a walk without really telling his mum. then we turned up at my house and his mum drove past, saw us and then my dad persuaded his mum to let him stay for a bit longer.

and plus, every time i look at him he looks into my eyes, i get really nervous and look away. is there anyway to over come that?

Make out means kissing with your tongue, to put it bluntly. But if you don't feel ready or comfortable about it then tell him you're not ready to move into that kind of level in your relationship, regardless of any excuses he may come up with (e.g. "Everybody is doing it") or pressuring you because he 'loves' you. (If he really does he wouldn't be pressuring you in the first place) Just a little forewarning there in case you ever get into that kind of situation.

But since he haven't mentioned yet he either forgotten about it, somehow he's physic and realized you don't want to go into that level and stopped, or he's a real nice guy and doesn't want to pressure you.

Uh, I can't really tell since I'm sort of lacking information here but if your relationship just started recently then that's natural for most relationships; there's nothing really worry about and you'll get over it eventually. If it's another reason such as the make out situation you mentioned before then that might be possibly it, but really you're gonna need to be more specific so I can understand the situation a little better.

He's two years younger than me.

I don't know how to handle that.

Why is it alright if the girl is two years younger, but not the boy? :l

I know age shouldn't matter and all that stuff, that real love is stronger.

But really, some people look at me as if I do something forbidden when I talk about him.

A good friend of mine went through the same situation as you and their relationship went just fine. (Before they broke up anyway but that's a whole different story) Back then she was in Year 9 and he was in Year 7, and everybody was going "woah there that's a taboo, think about your decisions guys" but they manage to pull through it and I'm pretty sure their bond got stronger from the criticism, too. You just gotta learn to ignore it and accept the fact that there's always some people who doesn't agree because of their opinion, and realize to cherish the people who understands and has full support for your relationship.

I'm not really good at comforting people by words as I'm more of the 'awkward pat on the back' person so sorry if I sound like I'm not sympathetic from above, but I hope you'll be able to overcome the criticisms you might be facing right now and work it out together.