Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[ephemeral.light]

Me and my boyfriend are going to different schools and everyone is saying its not gonna work out!!! We've seen each other Practicly everyday of the holidays and we talk all the time! Only thing is his best friend might have a thing for me and one of my best guy-friends also might have a thing for me! But my best friend likes my boyfriend and we keep getting into arguments!

I'm so confused...I'm trying to work my life out and (because I'm very spiritual) try and mediate and comunicate with spirits at the same time.

I don't think you have to worry about it too much if you and your boyfriend are really close. :] If you can still talk all the time and can still see each other sometimes, then it should still be okay. It shouldn't really matter if his best friend and one of your guy-friends like you. If you stick to your boyfriend and make that clear, then it should discourage them and make them kind of back off, in a sense. As for your best friend liking your boyfriend, it would probably work similarly if you're really close. She should understand that you like your boyfriend and accept it.

[Shisien]

okay um, So im Bicurious and I have like my best friend and i have like um uh a crush on her like REALLY badly (thinking of her EVERY DAY) And she knows i like her but she doesn't seem bothered by it (we still have sleep overs and hang out when ever we can) But when ever she askes about it i just blush majourly and hde my retarded looking bush face. but i REALLY BADLY wanna date her. Some one please help me D:

[Kecko]

I got to hangout with Z today, I pointed out a pickup truck I liked and he started singing "Take a Little Ride", he put his arm behind my seat in the car for a few minutes, we talked a bit and really it was just plain fun. We do staring contests a lot and he said something that sounded like "I love doing that to you" after we did one and we were both laughing but when I asked him what he said he didn't answer, what do you all think? I know it's not much to go on but do you think he likes me?

[clouded-days]

My dearly beloved friend is having Boyfriend problems. She wants to break up with him but she doesn't what to break his heart. Help me and her she is my best friend and I really need to help her.

[Ara.]

My dearly beloved friend is having Boyfriend problems. She wants to break up with him but she doesn't what to break his heart. Help me and her she is my best friend and I really need to help her.

From my past experiences in breaking up with girlfriends, honesty really can be the best policy.
Doing it over any kind of instant messages (including text and e-mail) is too cruel in my option. and a face-to-face conversation tends to go over much better in the long run.
She needs to just say it, holding it off really does allow the other person to tell it's coming-- and that makes it even worse.

[Paranoia]

The guy I like isn't allowed to talk to me.
I miss him more than anything. He got in trouble and his mom restricted him to talking to people she's personally met.
His friend was over one day and I talked to him then. He told me the best bet to get to talk to him was to message his mom on fb. I did and she said she'd get back to me in a week since he would be at camp anyways. There's 2 problems here.
1: He lives States away from me
2: His mother hasn't messaged me back in over two weeks. I messaged her again and got no reply.

My ex also still likes me, I feel bad but I don't feel much for him anymore.

[kld100]

I have a boy-friend named Matt, but me and this other guy Chandler both like each other. I don't know what to do! Please help!

If you have a boyfriend and like someone else, make sure it's not you being bored in the relationship. Maybe you are just tired of Matt and want something new, and Chandler is most available. Or, you actually like Chandler more than Matt.

Either way, it sounds like you're done with Matt and want to move on.

I met my best friend and boyfriend around the same time, and started dating boyfriend. But eventually (about a year later eventually,) we really started liking each other a lot. I liked him more than boyfriend, I realized. I had more fun, we had more in common, and I actually enjoyed time with him more. But we were both in relationships. We ignored our feelings and stayed with our boy and girlfriends.
Well, a year later, I broke up with boyfriend. I just didn't feel the same anymore. Half a year after that, best friend broke up with his girlfriend (for the second time. He actually really hated her, but he doesn't like upsetting people and allowed her to convince him back.)
We were always hanging out during out relationships (both of our others were okay with it) and we finally recognized we felt the same way we had a year and a half before.

Now, best friend and I have been dating for a year, and it's really perfect. We can be deep, or playful, or whatever we want.

Basically, I'm much happier now with best friend than with boyfriend. I wish I'd broken up with boyfriend the first time I realized my feelings; I didn't want to hurt him. But doing so, I missed out on two years of blissful companionship.

Maybe it's time for a change.

Thanks so much! I talked to Matt today and he told me he felt the same way. I just gave him a last hug and asked out Chandler and now me and him are together. <3

[Shisien]

okay um, So im Bicurious and I have like my best friend and i have like um uh a crush on her like REALLY badly (thinking of her EVERY DAY) And she knows i like her but she doesn't seem bothered by it (we still have sleep overs and hang out when ever we can) But when ever she askes about it i just blush majourly and hde my retarded looking bush face. but i REALLY BADLY wanna date her. Some one please help me D:

Why wount some one, anyone help me? i really need help!!!

[Tyra_Rawr_700]

Me and my boyfriend are going to different schools and everyone is saying its not gonna work out!!! We've seen each other Practicly everyday of the holidays and we talk all the time! Only thing is his best friend might have a thing for me and one of my best guy-friends also might have a thing for me! But my best friend likes my boyfriend and we keep getting into arguments!

I'm so confused...I'm trying to work my life out and (because I'm very spiritual) try and mediate and comunicate with spirits at the same time.

I don't think you have to worry about it too much if you and your boyfriend are really close. :] If you can still talk all the time and can still see each other sometimes, then it should still be okay. It shouldn't really matter if his best friend and one of your guy-friends like you. If you stick to your boyfriend and make that clear, then it should discourage them and make them kind of back off, in a sense. As for your best friend liking your boyfriend, it would probably work similarly if you're really close. She should understand that you like your boyfriend and accept it.

Thank you, it's just hard sometimes when I was walking next to him she just barged in the middle and we both just looked at each other like 'but we were flipping talking!' and she always flirts with him. Which really annoys me.
I just realised how stupid I've been! That I didn't realise J (that's what I'm calling my guy-friend) likes me! He was the one (along with my best-friend-boy-friend-fliter) who was saying you to should break up and it's not gonna work! I'm so stupid!!!!!!!

[tabbystorm]

The guy I like lives in Seattle, and I live on the other side of Washington (5 1/2 hours away) I met him through a furry group based in Seattle when I decided to go over there for a huge BBQ. My grandparents (whom I live with) don't really like him because of the whole "grown men wearing costumes" thing and because he has a really bad temper (bi polar). I get to see him again on the 25th for bowling, but it's gonna be a HUGE event with about 200 people, and I'm the shy type, it makes me uncomfortable to start a conversation unless I know the person really well, and I'm concerned that we'll be on completely different sides of the alley and not really even see each other. So basically what I want help with is how to go all the way across the alley and bring up a conversation with him (if that's what happens) and how to make my grandparents believe that he's a nice guy.