Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[[Lannie]]

Okay, what do I do?
Me and my boyfriend (lets call him "R") just broke up and I'm totally ruined. I sent him a long message apologizing because I messed around with another guy. He found out about the other guy and he dumped me. He said he still loved me but couldn't put up with all the BullSh*t. So what do I do when I was the one who messed everything up and I want him back?
It hasn't even been a whole day yet and I had to tell him how I felt. My birthday was a few days ago and he bought me something apparently worth 150$, and he never got it to me yet, I don't think I will ever get it after what I just did to him. He just dumped me and his best friend is calling me extremely rude names, (that can't be said in this topic). What do I do? I told the other guy to leave me alone (lets call him "j") What else can I do to make this better?
I thought I wanted us to break up. But it turns out it's not what I wanted at all!
"J" is a just a player and isn't worth ANY girls time! He has a girlfriend himself and doesn't care at all that he is all over me! He has no respect for teenage girls and shouldn't even be privileged enough to have the amazing girlfriend he has as we speak. They have been dating for like over a year and you think she would do something about him playing her! But... Apparently not.
All I can say is I really need help and my best friend doesn't want to talk to me because she liked "J" ... ALOT. And he.... Liked me more.
PLEASE HELP ME !!!!
-Sincerely -Skinny

Edit: Now I really need help!!! My long message didn't even help that much!
He just responded"It's ok, It's good to hear that."
What do I do now!?!?!?!!?!?! HELP ME, SOMEBODY PLEASE! I'M DESPERATE TO GET HIM BACK

[cth;]

-^^ well I hope you don't take this really back, but this is just me... I think you aren't going to get him back, you lost his trust and messed up things, and even if you do end up back together, there wouldn't be as much trust as their used to be.. and if you plan on getting him back and his trust then your going to need to prove it to him...
Just my opinion, sorry if it sounds mean!-

[[Lannie]]

^^ Thank-You for the advice. And I was sort of thinking the same thing. I think this whole situation made him look at me differently.

[cth;]

-no problem!(: glad to help-

[Shisien]

okay um, So im Bicurious and I have like my best friend and i have like um uh a crush on her like REALLY badly (thinking of her EVERY DAY) And she knows i like her but she doesn't seem bothered by it (we still have sleep overs and hang out when ever we can) But when ever she askes about it i just blush majourly and hde my retarded looking bush face. but i REALLY BADLY wanna date her. Some one please help me D:

[Miku_Cat]

Okay so i will admit it i am going into the -removed- grade (idc if the world knows -.-) So apparently they are going to have a dance! And i know i know, i should be exited but i dont think anyone will go with me cuz

1. I AM THE BIGGEST DORK in the whole school, i stutter, get distracted in class, and im pretty much the WORST at sports D:
2. All my guy friends have a girlfriend, so i cant go with them or it will be awkward >.<

should i just go with my friends? idk...
I have one more question though..
For my whole life i have been doing what i call
"The baby chick has to wait for the her older brother to cross the river before she can try"
meaning, i cant do anything unless my brother already has >.<
He doesnt have a girlfriend yet, and he is heading into collage in two years..
My point is i am scared to get a boyfriend (even though i dont like anyone that much yet) cuz
1.My brother hasnt had a love life yet
2. My parents would KILL ME! D: especially my dad he is soooo protective of me, and he treats me like im still 7
>.< idk what to do! I want to be treated older then i am! Even my guy friends who are only a year older then me treat me like a little kid, and im SICK OF IT -removed- oh and just so you know a LOT of -removed- graders at my school have boyfriends, it not to unusual it just my family loves babying me.

[Tyra_Rawr_700]

Me and my boyfriend are going to different schools and everyone is saying its not gonna work out!!! We've seen each other Practicly everyday of the holidays and we talk all the time! Only thing is his best friend might have a thing for me and one of my best guy-friends also might have a thing for me! But my best friend likes my boyfriend and we keep getting into arguments!

I'm so confused...I'm trying to work my life out and (because I'm very spiritual) try and mediate and comunicate with spirits at the same time.

[Kecko]

I got to hangout with Z today, I pointed out a pickup truck I liked and he started singing "Take a Little Ride", he put his arm behind my seat in the car for a few minutes, we talked a bit and really it was just plain fun. We do staring contests a lot and he said something that sounded like "I love doing that to you" after we did one and we were both laughing but when I asked him what he said he didn't answer, what do you all think? I know it's not much to go on but do you think he likes me?

[ephemeral.light]

Okay so i will admit it i am going into the sixth grade (idc if the world knows -.-) So apparently they are going to have a dance! And i know i know, i should be exited but i dont think anyone will go with me cuz

1. I AM THE BIGGEST DORK in the whole school, i stutter, get distracted in class, and im pretty much the WORST at sports D:
2. All my guy friends have a girlfriend, so i cant go with them or it will be awkward >.<

should i just go with my friends? idk...
I have one more question though..
For my whole life i have been doing what i call
"The baby chick has to wait for the her older brother to cross the river before she can try"
meaning, i cant do anything unless my brother already has >.<
He doesnt have a girlfriend yet, and he is heading into collage in two years..
My point is i am scared to get a boyfriend (even though i dont like anyone that much yet) cuz
1.My brother hasnt had a love life yet
2. My parents would KILL ME! D: especially my dad he is soooo protective of me, and he treats me like im still 7
>.< idk what to do! I want to be treated older then i am! Even my guy friends who are only a year older then me treat me like a little kid, and im SICK OF IT i mean COME ON im almost 12! a long time ago people were having babies at 12! oh and just so you know a LOT of sixth graders at my school have boyfriends, it not to unusual it just my family loves babying me.

Since you're just entering into the sixth grade, I don't think you really need to worry about a boyfriend quite so soon. It may seem like a lot of your friends in your grade have one, but you're still young and you have your entire life ahead of you. If you don't find someone now, most likely you will later on in life. I think it varies because when I was in sixth grade, almost nobody had a boyfriend. So, I don't think it's necessary to be comparing yourself with others. Young relationships like these tend to not last that long anyways. For the dance coming up, you can go with one of your friends. I wouldn't see anything wrong with that. :]

And for your parents, I'm sure that they just want the best for you. Maybe you could try telling them how you feel.

[Captain Iron Krista]

I agree. You seem to be exactly like me minus the brother and I have never had a boyfriend. I'm going into 8th grade and I went solo at every dance. You hav enothing to worry about. Focus on school, that's what I do

Okay so i will admit it i am going into the sixth grade (idc if the world knows -.-) So apparently they are going to have a dance! And i know i know, i should be exited but i dont think anyone will go with me cuz

1. I AM THE BIGGEST DORK in the whole school, i stutter, get distracted in class, and im pretty much the WORST at sports D:
2. All my guy friends have a girlfriend, so i cant go with them or it will be awkward >.<

should i just go with my friends? idk...
I have one more question though..
For my whole life i have been doing what i call
"The baby chick has to wait for the her older brother to cross the river before she can try"
meaning, i cant do anything unless my brother already has >.<
He doesnt have a girlfriend yet, and he is heading into collage in two years..
My point is i am scared to get a boyfriend (even though i dont like anyone that much yet) cuz
1.My brother hasnt had a love life yet
2. My parents would KILL ME! D: especially my dad he is soooo protective of me, and he treats me like im still 7
>.< idk what to do! I want to be treated older then i am! Even my guy friends who are only a year older then me treat me like a little kid, and im SICK OF IT i mean COME ON im almost 12! a long time ago people were having babies at 12! oh and just so you know a LOT of sixth graders at my school have boyfriends, it not to unusual it just my family loves babying me.

Since you're just entering into the sixth grade, I don't think you really need to worry about a boyfriend quite so soon. It may seem like a lot of your friends in your grade have one, but you're still young and you have your entire life ahead of you. If you don't find someone now, most likely you will later on in life. I think it varies because when I was in sixth grade, almost nobody had a boyfriend. So, I don't think it's necessary to be comparing yourself with others. Young relationships like these tend to not last that long anyways. For the dance coming up, you can go with one of your friends. I wouldn't see anything wrong with that. :]

And for your parents, I'm sure that they just want the best for you. Maybe you could try telling them how you feel.