Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[labradude]

Last year I moved from one state to another. New school, new house, new friends. I still contact my best friend over skype. I'm not much of a girly girl, I tend to stick with the boys. So there's one boy in my class who I'd say is a close friend. We talk over the computer a lot, on minecraft and skype. In minecraft he tells many of the other players that he has a crush on me, and most of them go over and tell me that he said that. This has been going on since January, but died down around the end of May. A few months ago I introduced him to my best friend, and he told her this too. Except he went farther, and told her that him and three other boys in my class have crushes on me. One of them was a creep and was expelled.. Now everyone in my class is joking around that my friend and I are dating.

Truth is, I may have a teeny weenie crush on him, but not on any of the other boys. To me they're all friends, and I'd really like for it to stay that way, especially since I'm odd in the way that I don't think I should date anyone for atleast a few years from now.

[Auyn]

Does he like me....

That is always the most common question i hear, and the most annoying, sometimes.
Everyone asks it sometimes, wither he or she, and even i ask it.
Everyone has their own different personalities, i know, and that question has a 50/50 chance of being answered correctly, i know.
But i still have to ask.

Does he like me?
I knew him, B, since 5th grade, and now we are going into 9th.
I remember telling him, via note, that i liked him in 5th grade, our last year in elementary school and my first year in Texas, and i do recall, he did not say anything, which is good and bad, considering my friend, now enemy, liked him too and did the same thing i did. Except she was avoided by B. Now i just laugh in her ugly face. Ugh.

Anyways, before the note, which was sent at the end of that year, my friend, a small group of other friends, and me roleplayed the Warrior Cats series during recess. I was the leader, Nightstar, and he....he was my mate .-.
Mosstail..... I had no idea how he became my mate, nor if he cared or noticed it. I do know that he had nothing to do with it, i think.

Now, i had just returned from an orchestra camp, and guess what. He was there. He was not in my orchestra, one ahead of me, but we hung out with each other and a few other people, and had a lot of fun. The next part makes me squirm.

Every time he laughed or smiled, or thought something was funny, he glanced at me. I'm not sure if he was laughing at me sometimes, since most of the time i heard or saw what was happening, since him and his two pals typically stood within my hearing range. He also sat at me and my friends' breakfast/lunch/dinner table (we were in dorms) with a few of his friends.

Thanks for reading, and please, please help me.

[Zeee]

quick question...

how do you get the guy you like to notice you?
i don't want to go around doing stuff right in front of him. i like him a lot, even though he usually 'judges books by their covers', so if i do anything right in his face he'll probably think i'm desperate...
and i don't want him to :c

any ideas?
school's starting september fourth, and i want to know how to get his attention
without seeming desperate, or like an attention wh*re. i know he hates people who seem desperate, and he absolutely despises attention wh*res...

:c

[Auyn]

quick question...

how do you get the guy you like to notice you?
i don't want to go around doing stuff right in front of him. i like him a lot, even though he usually 'judges books by their covers', so if i do anything right in his face he'll probably think i'm desperate...
and i don't want him to :c

any ideas?
school's starting september fourth, and i want to know how to get his attention
without seeming desperate, or like an attention wh*re. i know he hates people who seem desperate, and he absolutely despises attention wh*res...

:c

I know each guy is different on what they think is flirting, but what most people who don't want to be attention hogs do, is they typically smile and be kind to them, without being overly obessive and a kiss up. Try being nice to other people before him, like to people you sometimes talk to, then gradually to people you rarely talk to, then to him. That way, he won't think you are being nice, just to him, and not to anyone else.

[Zeee]

quick question...

how do you get the guy you like to notice you?
i don't want to go around doing stuff right in front of him. i like him a lot, even though he usually 'judges books by their covers', so if i do anything right in his face he'll probably think i'm desperate...
and i don't want him to :c

any ideas?
school's starting september fourth, and i want to know how to get his attention
without seeming desperate, or like an attention wh*re. i know he hates people who seem desperate, and he absolutely despises attention wh*res...

:c

I know each guy is different on what they think is flirting, but what most people who don't want to be attention hogs do, is they typically smile and be kind to them, without being overly obessive and a kiss up. Try being nice to other people before him, like to people you sometimes talk to, then gradually to people you rarely talk to, then to him. That way, he won't think you are being nice, just to him, and not to anyone else.

thanks <33
i'll definitely do this, it really helps a lot. i mean, we're good friends [REALLY good friends] so it won't be SUCH a problem talking to him, it's just he gets distracted REALLY easily [like me o3o] and doesn't listen very well XDD and he usually can't tell when people are flirting...

one more question [for you specifically |D]... what might this mean...?

the guy i'm talking about, this year before the school ended, he walked by my desk for absolutely no reason and winked at me. i couldn't help but smile and he smiled back.
and on the last day of school, he said he'd miss me most... and he went on the bus, i walked home. i saw him on the bus before it left, and he waved at me shouting, "i'll miss chu!" and i'm like, laughing, "miss chu too!" and i waved my shoe at him. "shoey will miss you!"
XD but what might it mean... all of this? might it just mean that we're JUST good friends, or maybe he likes me? ;n; i mean, i don't think he likes me... he's dating my best friend ex best friend... and it's not that he might be just too shy to ask me out, if he may like me, but he's NOT shy at all. i swear to god, all hell will break loose the day he isn't shy.
;n;

[loonyloolaluna]

Dennis broke up with me because he thinks I'd be happier with Maia.
Well. True in a way. I 'dated' him so that people wouldn't judge him when he told them he was gay or bisexual (he's still figuring that out).
And ... I really want to ask Maia out before my birthday (before the end of September). But I need to know if she's dating somebody. And I ... really want to have the song 'Primmadonna Girl' in there somewhere.
Someone please help me out a bit (in PM)?

[Auyn]

quick question...

how do you get the guy you like to notice you?
i don't want to go around doing stuff right in front of him. i like him a lot, even though he usually 'judges books by their covers', so if i do anything right in his face he'll probably think i'm desperate...
and i don't want him to :c

any ideas?
school's starting september fourth, and i want to know how to get his attention
without seeming desperate, or like an attention wh*re. i know he hates people who seem desperate, and he absolutely despises attention wh*res...

:c

I know each guy is different on what they think is flirting, but what most people who don't want to be attention hogs do, is they typically smile and be kind to them, without being overly obessive and a kiss up. Try being nice to other people before him, like to people you sometimes talk to, then gradually to people you rarely talk to, then to him. That way, he won't think you are being nice, just to him, and not to anyone else.

thanks <33
i'll definitely do this, it really helps a lot. i mean, we're good friends [REALLY good friends] so it won't be SUCH a problem talking to him, it's just he gets distracted REALLY easily [like me o3o] and doesn't listen very well XDD and he usually can't tell when people are flirting...

one more question [for you specifically |D]... what might this mean...?

the guy i'm talking about, this year before the school ended, he walked by my desk for absolutely no reason and winked at me. i couldn't help but smile and he smiled back.
and on the last day of school, he said he'd miss me most... and he went on the bus, i walked home. i saw him on the bus before it left, and he waved at me shouting, "i'll miss chu!" and i'm like, laughing, "miss chu too!" and i waved my shoe at him. "shoey will miss you!"
XD but what might it mean... all of this? might it just mean that we're JUST good friends, or maybe he likes me? ;n; i mean, i don't think he likes me... he's dating my best friend ex best friend... and it's not that he might be just too shy to ask me out, if he may like me, but he's NOT shy at all. i swear to god, all hell will break loose the day he isn't shy.
;n;

Well, it could be that he does like you and that he is afraid that if he makes a move, that it will affect your friendship.

[Lana1171]

I actually don't know what to do about this....... Let's call my crush D

My two friends and me were messaging each other in a three way convo thing, my two friends were In one class together and I was in a different class... Anyways...., we were mucking around saying silly things and I said he's my D and future boyfriend and I put a love heart and my friends were in the class with D and one of my friends sent him that part of our convo and she said to him check your emails and he did and apparently he smiled and laught what am i going to do...

Thankyou for reading this

[Simplistic Beauty]

Well in grade 8 I really liked this one guy. Sound great right? Well at the end of school my friend told me he liked a girl and might date her or was already dating her. At grad after-party my whole crush thing kinda changed. I went from likeing two guys to liking one since the girl and my crush were sitting together and my crush got a huge house! Saw it for grad party. The thing is I can't get this one crush out of my mind and we have a class together when school starts. What do I do? I know he doesn't like me but I can't stop thinking bout him.

[cth;]

Well in grade 8 I really liked this one guy. Sound great right? Well at the end of school my friend told me he liked a girl and might date her or was already dating her. At grad after-party my whole crush thing kinda changed. I went from likeing two guys to liking one since the girl and my crush were sitting together and my crush got a huge house! Saw it for grad party. The thing is I can't get this one crush out of my mind and we have a class together when school starts. What do I do? I know he doesn't like me but I can't stop thinking bout him.

-Ah..Same thing happened to me! well the guy that i first liked yes it took a LONG time for me to get over him, Just give it some time and you will get over him hopefully!

Sorry if this sucks!-