Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[Lana1171]

I actually don't know what to do about this....... Let's call my crush D

My two friends and me were messaging each other in a three way convo thing, my two friends were In one class together and I was in a different class... Anyways...., we were mucking around saying silly things and I said he's my D and future boyfriend and I put a love heart and my friends were in the class with D and one of my friends sent him that part of our convo and she said to him check your emails and he did and apparently he smiled and laught what am i going to do...

Thankyou for reading this

[Valentines]

Well, Will left :c

And after two nights, my bed feels really lonely.
Like, painfully so.

And I miss him. A Lot.

But he's back to treating me like his girlfriend. And he swears up and down that he won't be going to anyone else, no matter what.

We're exclusive in the fact that we aren't 'seeing' anyone else, As in not talking to anyone else, not fooling around around with anyone else.

And I don't think someone would drive 2 and a half hours to see someone, also refusing gas money and everything else, without truly wanting that person to stay in their life as something more than a friend.

I love that boy so much it hurts. Lol<3

[Nimble Awesomeness]

Hey guys, long time no post. :P (At least this type of post.)

I just thought I'd tell y'all what happened last night, because, well, my head is still spinning.

Remember that guy I met at the water park? We've been talking on the phone a lot more lately. Well, last night he kinda...proposed to me? It was all really confusing. At first he was like-I'll just dictate the conversation to you. Note that this isn't exact. Meaning, A is an idiot and types like a sloth with a phone. I will be M, for Me.

M: *confused*
A: I know I sound like I'm smoking something but seriously think about it will you marry me or some other guy???
M: ...Did you just ask me to marry you?
A: Maybe...Maybe not
A: Do you want me to?
A: ??
A: ??
A: Sure taking a long time.
M: I'm thinking.
M: You just asked me to marry you, gimme a minute.
A: I wasn't aiming for proposal...
A: But whatever floats your boat...
M: You asked me if I wanted to marry you or some other guy.
A: Well I wasn't thinking that but now that you said it I want an answer.
M: What are you asking me, A? I want a straight question because I'm not sure what you want from me.
A: Who do you want to marry, me or some other person? (Unnamed)
A: You take forever...
A: Just watched Slenderman vid he's not scary you're a wuss
A: Think who are you leaning towards guy you told me about or me?
M: Dude, you just proposed to me. Through text. Life time decision bro, gimme a break. Do you mean a random guy or the guy I told you about? [J, the one who's not into me anymore and I'm getting over.]
A: You're seriously about this aren't you? You gotta promise that whoever you choose you marry when you're ready to get married.
A: I'll shut up now give me your answer in ten minutes and btw my parents are rich
A: They could buy a honeymoon anywhere
A: Hello??
A: I'm about to pass out so hurry [It was late last night]
A:???????????????????????????????-_-?????????????????
A: I'm taking that as a no.....
A: I'll just go cry myself to sleep now... :'(
M: God, no I'm not serious about this, are you? Are you seriously proposing to me? Because we're *young teenager*. *Young teenager* A. I can't make a promise like that. We barely know each other. We've met in real life once. How about you get to know me as a friend more. Then maybe we can date, then we can be boyfriend and girlfriend and THEN we might consider getting married. If you want to be with me, you have to take the slow road. Not to mention we haven't even discussed religion, and that's huge to me. Oh, and I haven't told you that I don't date, at least I won't for a while. I take these things very seriously, which is why I don't like it much when you joke about these types of things and force me to hurt your feelings now as opposed to later when they could be hurt instead. If it makes you feel better, "The other guy" might just be out of the running. I hate to tell you this, but this will probably just be a high-school romance in 10 years. If it lasts, that's great, but there's no way of telling. A, we're still just friends. You're going...really fast. Please realize you just proposed to me. [Woah, wall of text O.o Dang, I was on a roll.]
A: I'm not serious that't why I asked lol that's why I was coming up with gay conditions and stuff like that [Wut o.O] I'm up for the friend thing.
M: [This is my reply to all the stuff he sent me while I was writing my wall.] A, please don't do this to me, and don't do this to yourself. You can't win me over by rich parents. I come from a middle-class family. Those things don't matter to me much. And you can't buy me with a pity party, I want to be a counselor for crying out loud. All your hurting is yourself by doing this. You need a reality check and lower your expectations.
M: Did you not get from that whole thing that I take relationships very seriously?
A: Longest message I've ever received was right there what you just sent me. Heartbreaking but good to know. Hahaha. I got relationship seriousness too I'm just happy today. I'm not proposing to anyone till I'm at least 21.
A: I take them super seriously too so you got nothing to worry about until 21 mwahahahaha
A: And really I'm middle class too my parents don't wanna move up the chain to rich snobby class.
A: I'd never put that on a young teenager* year old girl, geeze, you think I'm some sort of moron? And I seriously want an answer if you think I'm a moron....
M: Well with what just happened I'm leaning to desperate moron, but it probably won't be so bad in the morning. It sure seemed like you were putting that on me, thank you very much.
A: Lol it's good to know your feelings about all that I might write a book about it called the mind of *M*
A: Goodnight lol watch out for Slenderman
A: Well I know how to sell it pretty well
A: And thank you for calling be a desperate moron
A: I deserved it....
M: I think we're even now, considering what you're just put me through. Just know I'm very frustrated with you. [Understatement] Goodnight.
A: Goodnight....

I don't expect any of you to read that, so in short, A confuses me a lot, wants me to choose between him and J, acts like a moron. Pretty much everything that happened in that conversation. So because of that, I'm A: Feeling impressed with myself that I'm only *young teenager* years old and I already have a marriage proposal, B: Annoyed that one of the guys I actually might consider for dating turned out to be a complete idiot, and C: Stressed out and my head is spinning. I need some tea. Thank you, and good day. *facedesks*

[Auyn]

Does he like me....

That is always the most common question i hear, and the most annoying, sometimes.
Everyone asks it sometimes, wither he or she, and even i ask it.
Everyone has their own different personalities, i know, and that question has a 50/50 chance of being answered correctly, i know.
But i still have to ask.

Does he like me?
I knew him, B, since 5th grade, and now we are going into 9th.
I remember telling him, via note, that i liked him in 5th grade, our last year in elementary school and my first year in Texas, and i do recall, he did not say anything, which is good and bad, considering my friend, now enemy, liked him too and did the same thing i did. Except she was avoided by B. Now i just laugh in her ugly face. Ugh.

Anyways, before the note, which was sent at the end of that year, my friend, a small group of other friends, and me roleplayed the Warrior Cats series during recess. I was the leader, Nightstar, and he....he was my mate .-.
Mosstail..... I had no idea how he became my mate, nor if he cared or noticed it. I do know that he had nothing to do with it, i think.

Now, i had just returned from an orchestra camp, and guess what. He was there. He was not in my orchestra, one ahead of me, but we hung out with each other and a few other people, and had a lot of fun. The next part makes me squirm.

Every time he laughed or smiled, or thought something was funny, he glanced at me. I'm not sure if he was laughing at me sometimes, since most of the time i heard or saw what was happening, since him and his two pals typically stood within my hearing range. He also sat at me and my friends' breakfast/lunch/dinner table (we were in dorms) with a few of his friends.

[Fireflii]

I don't expect any of you to read that, so in short, A confuses me a lot, wants me to choose between him and J, acts like a moron. Pretty much everything that happened in that conversation. So because of that, I'm A: Feeling impressed with myself that I'm only *young teenager* years old and I already have a marriage proposal, B: Annoyed that one of the guys I actually might consider for dating turned out to be a complete idiot, and C: Stressed out and my head is spinning. I need some tea. Thank you, and good day. *facedesks*

I read the whole thing and, I have to tell you, he deserves being called a desperate moron. He had no right to put you on the spot like that. And even then, he was pressuring you into an answer that you should be thinking about. I honestly don't have much to say. But you did the right thing about telling him to slow down. He's being way too pushy with your relationship for how young you are.

[Nimble Awesomeness]

I don't expect any of you to read that, so in short, A confuses me a lot, wants me to choose between him and J, acts like a moron. Pretty much everything that happened in that conversation. So because of that, I'm A: Feeling impressed with myself that I'm only *young teenager* years old and I already have a marriage proposal, B: Annoyed that one of the guys I actually might consider for dating turned out to be a complete idiot, and C: Stressed out and my head is spinning. I need some tea. Thank you, and good day. *facedesks*

I read the whole thing and, I have to tell you, he deserves being called a desperate moron. He had no right to put you on the spot like that. And even then, he was pressuring you into an answer that you should be thinking about. I honestly don't have much to say. But you did the right thing about telling him to slow down. He's being way too pushy with your relationship for how young you are.

Haha, really. I'm not ready for this emotional turmoil. This is WHY I don't date. My head hurts and it sounds stupid but I just feel...icky. I just feel bad and stressed. It's going to take me a while to get over this one. Seriously, I don't even know what he was thinking and he's made me feel bad in a way I've never felt before. This is a whole new level of hurt. :|

Thank you though, I tried my best. I'm normally pretty good at relationship stuff, and I'm full of myself for it, but even I know I don't know how to handle this. I'm really not sure how I should be reacting. It's honestly just weird to say. "I've been proposed to," just rolls off my tongue and it doesn't taste good. Well, maybe it's not that it doesn't taste good, maybe it's just that I'm not used to hearing it... What an experience. I didn't think I would be dealing with this until..6 or 7 years at LEAST. I haven't even had my first boyfriend yet. Who would have thought I'd be proposed to without having even dated the guy.

[kld100]

I have a boy-friend named Matt, but me and this other guy Chandler both like each other. I don't know what to do! Please help!

[Lana1171]

I actually don't know what to do about this....... Let's call my crush D

My two friends and me were messaging each other in a three way convo thing, my two friends were In one class together and I was in a different class... Anyways...., we were mucking around saying silly things and I said he's my D and future boyfriend and I put a love heart and my friends were in the class with D and one of my friends sent him that part of our convo and she said to him check your emails and he did and apparently he smiled and laught what am i going to do...

Thankyou for reading this

[VoltageInside]

I have a boy-friend named Matt, but me and this other guy Chandler both like each other. I don't know what to do! Please help!

If you have a boyfriend and like someone else, make sure it's not you being bored in the relationship. Maybe you are just tired of Matt and want something new, and Chandler is most available. Or, you actually like Chandler more than Matt.

Either way, it sounds like you're done with Matt and want to move on.

I met my best friend and boyfriend around the same time, and started dating boyfriend. But eventually (about a year later eventually,) we really started liking each other a lot. I liked him more than boyfriend, I realized. I had more fun, we had more in common, and I actually enjoyed time with him more. But we were both in relationships. We ignored our feelings and stayed with our boy and girlfriends.
Well, a year later, I broke up with boyfriend. I just didn't feel the same anymore. Half a year after that, best friend broke up with his girlfriend (for the second time. He actually really hated her, but he doesn't like upsetting people and allowed her to convince him back.)
We were always hanging out during out relationships (both of our others were okay with it) and we finally recognized we felt the same way we had a year and a half before.

Now, best friend and I have been dating for a year, and it's really perfect. We can be deep, or playful, or whatever we want.

Basically, I'm much happier now with best friend than with boyfriend. I wish I'd broken up with boyfriend the first time I realized my feelings; I didn't want to hurt him. But doing so, I missed out on two years of blissful companionship.

Maybe it's time for a change.

[ephemeral.light]

I have a boy-friend named Matt, but me and this other guy Chandler both like each other. I don't know what to do! Please help!

Maybe you could try talking with both Matt and Chandler and tell them in a gentle manner what your real feelings are. If you don't like your boyfriend as much as another person in that way, then he certainly deserves to know. It's more hurtful to him to have to be heartbroken later than to be told earlier on.