Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[TubsDeGoat]

Oh gosh, I haven't posted on here in a while. So me and Dylan broke up and he got mad at me for moving on to fast, But he pushed me to run from him...So now he is going after my [now ex best friend after all this happened] but she was my best friend at the time, and she has a boyfriend who she is flat out cheating on him with Dylan. Everyone knows. So that is happening and she is saying how bad of a boyfriend her REAL boyfriend[R] is. R is the only person in the world that cares for her so much. And now Dylan turned into the biggest player ever after me cause he is a guy and really wants one thing from her. He was never like that with me. But now I met another guy [Call him S] and he is sweet. But I am just scared with liking him so much cause of his track record with girls...he was looking at collages the night we first hung out and he made out with one of the girls. But his best friend and my best friend [Me and my ex best friend were a trio] and so they both say he really really really likes me and dosn't wanna mess things up with me and him. So that's why he hasn't asked me out yet...but he drives me everywhere and we are always hanging out with me him his best friend and my best friend. But like I said, He dosn't have a good track record with girls and stuff. Also me, him, and his best friend almost got arrested together [it wasn't anything bad, just guilty by association and it was S's car. We cooperated and we are all good now So it wasn't anything bad.] But so he is awesome and he kept trying to take all the blame off me when we got pulled over. And he always wants to be careful about what he says around me because he dosn't wanna make me turn away from him. I will tell you guys how it goes today cause I'm about to go hang out with him now...sooo do you think that he is a good guy to date? Like not a serious relationship but just like dating? And does anyone have any advice for me with the whole Dylan thing? Thank you everyone for reading!

Personally, I think you should tell R that your ex-best-friend is cheating on him. It's for his own good. If he's a guy who's sweet and caring, he doesn't deserve that, and he needs to know. It'd be better for somebody else to tell him than for him to find out on his own and then realize that everybody knew but nobody told him before.

S sounds like he'd be a good guy to date. He sounds sweet and caring and it does sound like he's interested. As for his track record; Well, it's hard to say. Sometimes, it's not good to judge someone because of their past. But sometimes, a person's past shows what kind of a person they are. You said you aren't looking for a serious relationship, right? So I'd say just go for it and ask him out, or at least ask if he likes you. The worst that can happen is he says no and you remain friends.

Well R knows...He knows EVERYTHING! And he cares about her so much that he wants to try and make it work. That is how much he loves this girl. I feel bad for him...

And well after me and S just hung out, like we were in his basement just hanging out and stuff. His brother stole the car so he asked his dad t take his hummer and before we went upstairs he said 'well if my brother took my car I'll have to ask my dad to borrow his hummer to drive my girlfriend home...' and I was like '...Yeahhhh.' And this is the second time he has called me his girlfriend. The first time he stopped himself, and this time it just came out and he didn't stop it....so yeah. But it was the most amazing time ever, he drove me home in a stick shift hummer H3 <3 I was never so happy...

[Lady Luna]

I am so confused right now. This guy I like, Bradley, lives right across the street, but we don't hardly see each other. This summer, I have the oppurtunity to go back to my hometown, my heart's home, or stay at my house next to Bradley's. My main reason for staying at either place is the jobs. I could either work the same jobs at either place, but I still can't decide. But the one tiny little reason keeping me at my house is Bradlet. I'll tell you why.
Last week, I went on this trip to Washington D.C. Bradley was there too. The first day, he surprised me by walking right beside me to most of the memorials. The second day, I was on the bus and had found a seat before any of the guys were even out of the hotel. When Bradley got on, he found a seat on the opposite side of the bus, just one row infront of me. We ended up walking together again for the next three days. We didn't hardly talk though. Of course, Bradley's friend, Scott, was there most of the time. That's why I didn't talk.
I am so confused right now about Bradley. I don't know if he likes me, and that's why he made it a point to walk beside me that first day, or if it was a coincidence. Because that had never happened before. In school or otherwise. Right now I just don't know. Bradley has done little things like this before, like moving to sit on the bench right infront of me at a baseball game or saying "good job" to me for no particular reason after I had told him that the day before.
I'm just confused, can anyone help?

[bast,]

Cute story time! Yay!

Every night my boyfriend manages to text me anything along the lines of:
"goodnight pretty girl. :] love you."
It makes me smile every time. <3

[Proud violent zealot]

Okay, so here's the situation that I'm in.

There's this guy who will be called Marco. I've known him for three years, but we've never really talked before this year. He asked me out multiple times this year, and I heard from a source of unknown reliability that he has a huge crush on me. He's actually my type, but the problem is that he's a popular, and is infamous on the second rung for acting and humiliating second-rung girls, which I am. He sort of kissed me two nights ago in the most romantic way possible on the forehead. My stomach filled with butterflies, and it was the best feeling ever. Since then, I can't stop thinking about him. I think I'm falling in love with him, but I know that I shouldn't because of what he does to girls. Maybe that's normal for someone after a first kiss, I don't know. I even wish that it was on the lips now, though I was repulsed by the idea of him kissing my forehead before.

I don't know what to do now, and I have to see him tomorrow. Everyone at school knows about it now. My heart wants to be with him, but my head says it's crazy. Besides, what if he doesn't like me back after all, and was just acting? I don't want to make a fool of myself. School's out in just a few days anyway, though I'm pretty sure he's going to the same high school as me next year. Also, my parents think that I'm too young for relationships, and they probably wouldn't warm up to something along the lines of "Surprise, I've been dating Marco for the past six months!"

Aargh, I need help! Can anybody give me some advice?

This is just my opinion, but I wouldn't get into a relationship with a person that has a bad history of acting and such, especially since your parents don't approve. See if you can last the next few day, alot can change over the summer, even if you're going to the same high school. There's also going to be alot of other different (possibly better) guys in high school. Don't worry, I know it's hard but a few days isn't that long. Try to stay muted or something. Don't admit that you like him to the people who ask and stay quiet when they talk about the two of you. (That's what I did when a guy liked me) It helped me deal with everyone. If you don't give them something to talk about, they won't talk about it.

[mindless.]

Well, let's start from the top. This guy has been giving mixed signals for a while (Thank goodness it is summer break) and been plain complicated. My friend and I think he likes me, but is too afraid to DO anything. When we would talk, things would somehow end up with us. Every time. He tried once to ask for my number through my friend, because he can't do it himself. I'll call him One. (That is our name for him) One will find excuses to talk to me in some way. He tries to make me enviuos by talking to another crush of his or just other girls, and for how long this has been going on, it has worked. I do the same right back to him, which is fun. But the ways he confused me and tormented me...Dx

Five dollar story- So today a friend and I saw eachother at a volunteering thing for school, and it was calling for my grade. At first it was fine, and only me, my friend, my sister, and a few other people from school were there. Then as I was satisfied with myself for vowing to get over him this summer, he walked in to volunteer. This was extremely awkward, seeing as he watched me for a minute when he got there (Then left for helping away from me and my friend ^^) and when we were cleaning up afterward, he gave a lot of glances.

Alright, all done ^^ Please PM any responses.

[Lenotti]

Do you think everything will end up okay, though? It's not big fights, just minor, but I'm worried.

dramatic much, sis?

[loonyloolaluna]

Btw, let me just say I'm a girl ... that's year 10.

There's Alex (year 11), this chick who likes me and won't get off my back. She's so freaking clingy and she's always asking me out and always coming to me when $#!% happens in her life. I've let her down gently, and I've ignored her, annd 've accepted being asked out. NONE OF THEM SEEM TO PLEASE HER. I let her down gently: 'But firework we belong together!' i ignore her: 'firework? why can't i text you?' I accept her: 'Is this what you'd really do firework? I want you to be honest with me.'

There's Hollie (Year 10, even though she'd technically pass for year 11 - 'it's different in France'). Oh I adore her. We both love Harry Potter, and Glee, and Starkid, and One Direction, and Doctor Who, and both support gay rights, and are both bi ... I've asked her out ^.^and she accepted. Then the minute later she said she couldn't because she still likes Jess (unknown for me). It's cool, I still like Josh~. But we seem so right for each other ...

There's Maia (year 11)(who made a chickensmoothie ) and she's so full of life, and so happy aand bubbly ll the time. She always dyes her hair. She's so exciting to be around, we have the same humour ... oh I do like her, she's pretty, funny ... thing is I don't know her too well. I really want to. And I think she has a boyfriend anyway >.>

There's Josh~ (year 12) I'm crazy about him. I like him so much. I don't care about his faults however minor or major they can be. And in my head I see how wrong he is for me - but yet so right too. Hes "kinda not single.." and "its like not a proper girlfriend and we don't know whats happening yet" with this other chick. It makes me kinda sad ... but yet I am happy for him.

There's UFO (... second year or uni - would techniclly be year 15). Last time I ever saw him was on the 7th of May 2012. I was kinda sad, but yet I'm glad that he's going to go and become a pilot. He also has a girlfriend. Me and him were quite similar in personality. When I think about it he was like my brother (ugh). He was funny in the meme way, and was kinda a gamer (Skyrim/WoW/Pokemon etc) He was really fun to be around. After a year of obsessing over him ... it's kind of like dry sand falling between my fingers I had him when the sand was wet and would stick, but now the sand has dried and he's slipping away, only to be a distant memory. I will miss him. But not like a heart break miss. Like a -distant- friend misss ...

Oh and there's this other random. Luca (year 13) ... Yeah, I kinda started ... it's not even a crush. I jjust think he's hot. But Yeah, I saw him one day at school and he looked like Jackson Rathbone (Jasper Twilight/Sokka Last air Bender) so yeah. And he's a friend of a friend, that's how i found out his name. But I'm sure it's nothing serious. It's one of those distant crushes where when I see him pass in a corridor i'll smile because it feels like i'm passing a celeb.
Fine since i'm on the topics of celeb crushes I might as well add this guy Christian (I think first year of uni/year '14') who looks like Darren Criss.
Also there's Niall Horan from One Direction.
And Johnny Depp.

Note: Jackson Rathbone, Darren Criss, Josh~ and Maia all play guitar.
Note 2: Notice how it's the older people that get my attention? *sigh*

edit 1: Note 3: I just had to say this somewhere to gather my thoughts, you don't have to help me out (I don't see how you can really ), but it would be nice :3

Alex is still very desperate for me. I'm flattered, but it's annoying.

Okay so last Saturday I'm at camp with ATC, and Hollie's there, we're talking and she says this guy (Will) is being creepy and stalking her like memorising her phone number and always talking to her and calling her babe (he also goes to ATC and was at camp with us), and she was getting really uncomfortable. So after we put up the tents we went out for a tramp (bushwalk) and Will and I were trying to walk next to Hollie, but I realised that if I were in her position I would be getting annoyed, so I just walked ahead. She came to talk with me and told me she was getting annoyed at Will, she was trying to walk as far away from him and stuff too - but was too polite to say anything about it to him. I randomly asked her who she'd rather date - me or Will. She said me :3 All that day she dind't want me too close to her because she was worried about me being contageous (because I was recently sick - like coughing/runny nose type), I asked her how Jess was (this chick she used to like - but is now a cow), and then she said she had a girlfriend (Katie) I felt sad. Then when we got back, we had dinner, and after dinner we were cleaning our pans, and she asked me if I was still contageous, I said 'I don't think so' then she asked what I would do if she kissed me. I said that 'I'd be happy' and she just kissed me on the lips. I was going to said 'I'd be happy - but confused because you have a girlfriend.' then she was going on about how she was a cheater, and that that kiss never happened - never existed.

On Tuesday I was waiting outside of school, waiting to see Josh~ pass. And Maia came. The week previously we passed in the corridor and she said 'Hey beautiful!' then that day we were talking and such, and then when she went to say good-bye she kissed me on the cheek.
2 kissed from both girls I like in the space of 1 week.
And on Wednesday she asked me to come to her house for a sleepover Friday-Saturday. I was busy Friday, so it was just Saturday. But she's feeling sick today, so T.T

And Josh~ and I don't talk much ... Which I'm sad about.

Apart from the Josh~ and Alex thing. My love life seems to be

I like 3 people.
They're all dating.
Hollie with Katie
Maia with Dante
and Josh~ with Emily.
Ugh. I see you guys get to talk with your crushes often.
While Hollie goes to another school, and I think is avoiding me
Maia is sort of a friend but ... yeah doesn't know my friends.
Josh has other friends too ...
So I'm just left here like 'Hey no, that's cool you're dating, hope all is swell, go ahead and ditch me, I don't care.'

Edit: Just saw that Hollie deleted me as a friend on facebook ...

'lil help? Please?
I'll bake you cookies.

[not zinnia]

Seriously. I've had three guys ask me out this year, and I barely even knew these kids at the time, ;-;
I hate how the guys I actually like aren't the ones asking me out on dates. Also, as if that wasn't enough, the kid who asked me out last night won't stop spamming up my messages.
HEY BUDDY, I'M IGNORNING YOU FOR A REASON. GET THE HINT.

Any suggestions on what to do about this situation?

[loonyloolaluna]

Seriously. I've had three guys ask me out this year, and I barely even knew these kids at the time, ;-;
I hate how the guys I actually like aren't the ones asking me out on dates.
Also, as if that wasn't enough, the kid who asked me out last night won't stop spamming up my messages.
HEY BUDDY, I'M IGNORNING YOU FOR A REASON. GET THE HINT.

I know exactly how you feel.
*read prev post*

[s y n]

A came over to my house on Saturday.
We played video games together for like five hours xD.
He came to my house at like 6:30 PM, we had pizza, watched a movie, and then at like 8:30 we started playing Penumbra Black Plague (it's a scary game) and we played until 12:30 AM .3.
All of the problems between us have been resolved, thankfully.
He heard from K that I was breaking up with him - which I wasn't -, and freaked out the minute he heard. I wasn't at school that day, and he called me - which he doesn't normally do since he'd rather text than talk on the phone - to ask if I was breaking up with him. Because of that little scare, he totally changed; The way he was acting when we first started dating, how sweet and affectionate he was, is how he is again. We hung out the day after she told him I was "breaking up with him" and it was a great day :3 His mom and my mom went out for a little bit, so for like an hour it was just me, him, R, and S at my house. We played truth or dare, so I'm not going to go into details, but it was a pretty awesome day.
And then on Saturday, the minute he gets to my house, he started messaging me on Facebook from his phone even though I was sitting right beside him xD We had a little conversation, then we were going to watch a movie. We were waiting for pizza so we started watching this movie. He didn't put his arm around me but I'm pretty sure that's only because I have a sectional, and there's these two parts that have an area to put drinks and stuff on, and we were sitting in those two parts. Then after we ate pizza and finished the movie, he saw the Penumbra icon on my desktop and asked what it was. I told him it was the game I had told them about that one time. So he wanted to see me play it. After having a cute little fight about who was sitting where - he took the computer chair so I had to grab another one, and then he wouldn't move over, and by the end of it we had been laughing so hard we couldn't breathe - we started playing. He wanted to play it together, so I took over the mouse, which picks up stuff and controls the direction you walk in, and he took over the keyboard, which controls the walking, crouching, etc. We played for like four hours and we actually co-operated! We didn't argue for a whole four hours. For us, that's a new record. All of our arguments are cute and over stupid stuff though, and we're always laughing the whole time, but still.
We got a lot accomplished xD. And then I got cold, so I grabbed a blanket and he complained about being cold, too, so we cuddled up in the blanket side-by-side and played. We were just going about our business when randomly a dead guy fell from the ceiling so I freaked out and grabbed onto him Dx
His mom and my mom sat there the whole time talking, until 12:30 AM when he had to leave. As they were leaving, he asked if he could have a sleepover, but my mom said no x3. She said that if she didn't have to work in the morning, she'd just say yes because it was so late, and A freaked out and said that he was coming over on a night that my mom didn't have to work ^.^

The only downside about Saturday night;
Our mothers were right there the whole time, meaning we couldn't kiss, which was clearly difficult for him; He kept getting really close as we were talking and then my mom would increase the volume of her speaking just a little bit for like two seconds, and we both knew what that meant, so I would just smile and gently push him away. Other than that, it was still an awesome night :3