Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[mulder]

I have a bf, we've been dating for a few months now, but my 'rents don't let me date, and they don't know, and I'm so confused!! What do I do? No one knows but my friends, and they come over ALOT, and I'm afraid my parents might find out!! HELPP

[Mistress Shadow.]

I have a bf, we've been dating for a few months now, but my 'rents don't let me date, and they don't know, and I'm so confused!! What do I do? No one knows but my friends, and they come over ALOT, and I'm afraid my parents might find out!! HELPP

Tell your parents. It's better comming from you then someone else. It would be even worse if they found out on their own. Sit down with them and talk about it, but do not expect them to handle it very well. My mother would kill me if she found out I was dating anyone {Which I'm not} and I can understand why you are scared. At first your parents will be upset, but tell them that you love your boyfriend, and you are old enough to make your own descisions about this kind of thing now. It will be hard, and I cant promise that they will handle it very well, but it's best if you tell them.

[Spooksee]

I'm just kinda' sad since I haven't seen my boyfriend in a while due to things beyond his control. It's summer, but we go to the same school so we're used to seeing each other every day. He was going to come over on wednesday but his mom had a seizure and his step-dad wrecked on a motorcycle the week before and broke all the ribs on one side and his collarbone. So, he has to take care of them until his mom feels better (she's already started to, just a little sore).
:c
It really sucks. But hopefully soon he can come over and we can watch Disney movies, Sherlock, and make Creepy Crawlers! Hehe. :3
We've been together for...almost 10 months now!

[Speak]

I’m falling apart.
I told my bestfriend E that I liked him and he crushed my heart by telling me that he didn’t feel the same way but wanted to be friends, it hurt but I agreed and eventually got over it but then a month or so latter he told me that’d he’d been lying and that he wanted to go out, I was so happy an d said yes. We went to the park for our first date but when we got there he said “we need to talk” and we did he said that he felt awkward dating and asked how I felt, I lied saying it didn’t matter to me because I wanted to see if he actually cared. We broke up twenty minutes latter, now I’m stuck trying to be cheerful while he is ecstatic with his new girlfriend and stressing over an old one who he’ll be taking to the dance -something he asked me to do- I can’t help feel insignifigant. Please help me, is there anything I can do to make this go away?

[Spooksee]

I’m falling apart.
I told my bestfriend E that I liked him and he crushed my heart by telling me that he didn’t feel the same way but wanted to be friends, it hurt but I agreed and eventually got over it but then a month or so latter he told me that’d he’d been lying and that he wanted to go out, I was so happy an d said yes. We went to the park for our first date but when we got there he said “we need to talk” and we did he said that he felt awkward dating and asked how I felt, I lied saying it didn’t matter to me because I wanted to see if he actually cared. We broke up twenty minutes latter, now I’m stuck trying to be cheerful while he is ecstatic with his new girlfriend and stressing over an old one who he’ll be taking to the dance -something he asked me to do- I can’t help feel insignifigant. Please help me, is there anything I can do to make this go away?

It seems like he's had a lot of girlfriends... :s
Just know that a guy as fickle as he is isn't worth your time. You should also remember that there are so, so many amazing people on earth! There's definitely at least one that will see you and think, "wow, she's just perfect."
This guy just seems really wishy-washy and you should just remind yourself that there's someone out there who'll ask you out and treat you like you make the world stop turning. uwu

[mulder]

I have a bf, we've been dating for a few months now, but my 'rents don't let me date, and they don't know, and I'm so confused!! What do I do? No one knows but my friends, and they come over ALOT, and I'm afraid my parents might find out!! HELPP

Tell your parents. It's better comming from you then someone else. It would be even worse if they found out on their own. Sit down with them and talk about it, but do not expect them to handle it very well. My mother would kill me if she found out I was dating anyone {Which I'm not} and I can understand why you are scared. At first your parents will be upset, but tell them that you love your boyfriend, and you are old enough to make your own descisions about this kind of thing now. It will be hard, and I cant promise that they will handle it very well, but it's best if you tell them.

Yeah, my friends have been telling me to do that (other ones, not the mentioned) but my parents I'm sure would rather hack off my head and eat it for dinner than let me have a boyfriend. They get angry if I get a 90 on a report card sometimes though!!They belive education and stuff is more important than boyfriends and crap. Whenever we watch stuff and people star kissing, they yell "No boyfriends!!" really loudly. Should I just break up with my bf? He'd be heartbrokenthough...

[Nimble Awesomeness]

I have a bf, we've been dating for a few months now, but my 'rents don't let me date, and they don't know, and I'm so confused!! What do I do? No one knows but my friends, and they come over ALOT, and I'm afraid my parents might find out!! HELPP

Tell your parents. It's better comming from you then someone else. It would be even worse if they found out on their own. Sit down with them and talk about it, but do not expect them to handle it very well. My mother would kill me if she found out I was dating anyone {Which I'm not} and I can understand why you are scared. At first your parents will be upset, but tell them that you love your boyfriend, and you are old enough to make your own descisions about this kind of thing now. It will be hard, and I cant promise that they will handle it very well, but it's best if you tell them.

Yeah, my friends have been telling me to do that (other ones, not the mentioned) but my parents I'm sure would rather hack off my head and eat it for dinner than let me have a boyfriend. They get angry if I get a 90 on a report card sometimes though!!They belive education and stuff is more important than boyfriends and crap. Whenever we watch stuff and people star kissing, they yell "No boyfriends!!" really loudly. Should I just break up with my bf? He'd be heartbrokenthough...

You need to explain to your boyfriend what's going on, because you shouldn't be going behind your parents back on this. They're probably right, education is better than boyfriends at this stage in life. (I'm assuming you're around middle school age, correct?) I understand that he'll be heartbroken, and you will be too, but wait until you're allowed to date to date him. It's really not a good idea to date against your parents consent, because it's not going to go well no matter how they find out.

In my opinion, you should break up with him, but tell him exactly why you're doing it. It would be pointless to just break up with him without a word. After you do that, talk with your parents about dating. Do it in a reasonable, mature manner. Don't say "But I want to!" or "You're being unfair!" or anything like that. Explain why you want to, your intentions, your rules of how far you would go and what dating means to you, what you're planning to do romantically (Kissing, hugging, just holding hands) and then say, "Do you have anything I could do to prove myself that I'm mature enough to handle dating?" For me it's reading a few books that my mom gave me about dating, and writing an essay about everything that I just told you to tell them. It might be something like that, it might be keeping your room clean for a few months. Just ask. If they start to be unreasonable about it and don't give you any reasons at all for why you can't date, tell them IN A CALM MANNER that they aren't being reasonable about the subject.

Make a list of all those things (What dating means to you, etc) on a sheet of paper with bullet points if you would like, and use it during your "presentation". It will help you get your points across, make sure you don't miss anything, puts it down in writing so that they can hold you accountable and shows that you're serious about this.

Hope I helped some, and good luck! :3

[Ebby20]

I'm really upset about this... My boyfriend is moving out of state in the first week of summer break... And it is quite appearent that he does not want a long-distance relationship. I don't mind that, because I don't want to stop him from dating if we won't see each other in real life again. If I end up getting a Facebook account, I would be able to talk to him... We'd just be friends, though. I really do care about him... He's the only boy that I felt in love with, ever. It's not like we could meet up somewhere, anyway. Way out of both of our price ranges... Any ideas on how I could feel better, maybe from people who have had this happen? Thank you, to anyone who responds. : )

[pastel.]

well how could u tell if a guy likes u back???

[Nimble Awesomeness]

well how could u tell if a guy likes u back???

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