Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[Roonil Wazlib]

@Salt
Sorry, I worded that wrong. I don't really know how to word it...I guess it's just that she shouldn't jeopardize her friendship for a guy.
What I meant was if she'd known her friend had a crush on this guy for a while, and then decided she liked him too, then she should let her friend have him

[rachiechu888]

I am sososososososoooooo confused right now! D: Okay, so my friend, S has a crush on this guy C, but C also likes her back (CS!!!! XD), but they won't admit it. Okay, the confusing part: I think C likes me... O.o At summer camp (this is where it all happened), we went on a field trip (roller skating), and C was coming up to me and talking to me a lot. Also, in the skate session, the refs hold a race for each age group. C and I were in the same age group; ours went last. The whole time, he was talking to me about races and skating and stuff. Another thing, I kind of like C, but not like I want to be his girlfriend or anything, just good friends. Okay, back to things about C and S. At the end of skating, there is always a couple skate, and I told C to go skate with S, and he kept on saying he didn't like her. Poor S was skating out there all alone! Oh, and one last thing; when we were getting ready to leave, all of my age group sat down on the benches at the skating place, and I happened to sit next to C, and one of my friends, A. Another one of my friends, D, who was also sitting next to C said that I liked C, and I wouldn't admit it, because I didn't want to hurt S's feelings. I like C, but not in that way, you know. XP

[~кιηg∂σмнєαятѕ~]

Honestly, I think you should admit your feelings to C. Your friend S will more than likely be mad, but in time, she will learn to forgive and forget. You will just have to give her time and space. Hope this helps ^^

[rachiechu888]

No, I just want to be C's friend, and I'm happy that C and S both like each other.

[~кιηg∂σмнєαятѕ~]

Ok, so there's this guy. His name is Cody, and we both like each other a lot (it's actually really obvious) and we ended up dating once. So then after everything going great for just about 2 months, my best friend jumps in and steals him. It happened about 3 months ago, but I am still mad at my so called "best friend". I also want to tell Cody that I wish he would come back to me instead, but I don't want to upset my "friend". What should I do?
And right in the middle of all this, I have a boyfriend. I din't like him that way, but I wanted to give him a chance because he is really sweet. He tells me he loves me, but I just can't say the same thing back.. I am really confused..

[Roonil Wazlib]

@~кιηg∂σмнєαятѕ~
First thing you should do is break up with your current boyfriend. It isn't fair to him if you like another guy. If you don't love him, you shouldn't be dating. Tell him that you'd still like to be friends, though. Don't be harsh.
Secondly, anyone who steals your boyfriend isn't a true friend. If she disregards your feelings enough to selfishly take your boyfriend, then she obviously doesn't care a bit about you.
Thirdly, tell Cody. Don't make a move while he's still dating your friend; that would be bad. Just tell his what's been going on. If he wants to date you, that's great. If he wants to stay with your friend, it would be best to try any forget about him because there's other guys out there. There's no point in crushing on a guy who'd rather date your friend than you.
Hope that helps (:

[rachiechu888]

If your best "friend" would do that, then they really aren't your friend anymore. You should just tell Cody that you like him a lot, and you want him back. Also, about the other guy you're dating, just tell him you want to be friends, and you don't like him in that way, but you still want to be friends.

[~кιηg∂σмнєαятѕ~]

Thanks... It really helped a lot. I will be sure to talk to him
And as for my current boyfriend, I will try my very best to be gentle.

[redninetails]

I thought i'd share this since i....i don't really know i just feel like it i guess XD

Blue=Crush
Jewl=Blue's crush
E=one of my friends

So the other day I went up to an algebra teacher's classroom and Blue is in that class. The thing is that Blue recently started dating this girl, jewl, that it was obvious that he liked, alot. So i went in, put my geometry book in the back with the rest, and then E stops near the doorway to talk to one of her other friends. Weirdly enough blue's seat is the last table at the door so i was just sort of standing there behind where he sat. And i tried really hard not to look at him since i felt really awkward. I mean he has a girlfriend now...So anyways he kind of looks at my and then waves really slowly, and what did i do? I kind of gave a weird look and looked away. I 1) didn't really want to wave back and 2) i couldn't bring myself to do it. But yeah that's what i wanted to share, school ended yesterday so i wont see him all summer, which i particularly good for me since i'm now trying to get over him.

[~кιηg∂σмнєαятѕ~]

Well, you should tell him how you feel, but you prefer him as a friend.