Marquise wrote:Khemo wrote:When people imply that those who do not choose to remain abstinent until marriage or wear "un-modest"* clothes are objectifying themselves, will sleep with anyone, and have no respect for themselves. Whatever, you be modest or wait until marriage. Nobody's stopping you. But do not imply you are of higher morals or smarter than someone who doesn't.
*"Un-modest" as in, shows shoulders, maybe your collarbone but not cleavage, shorts at half your thigh, form-fitting clothes, etc.
This so much. It's your choice, go ahead. Wear and do what you want. But you don't need to say you're better than anyone...
I dislike the definition of un-modest though. D: The collarbone thing especially. Then again, I shouldn't be talking.
I only wear t-shirts, jeans, and hoodies. I have like five hoodies. :P
I'm not sure if switching colours like this will annoy people or not.
I just can't settle on one colour to use. XD
If this does annoy people, please tell me so I can just decide on one colour to use. D:
Thus in quotes. xD I personally think those are pretty modest clothes and wear stuff like that all the time, but there are some who think it's way too revealing, despite nothing popping out. Despite their relative modesty concerning what
could be showing, some people would claim you are only attracting people with your body and nobody will truly love you because you GASP, show shoulders.
Also, ever hear the phrase "modest is hottest"? Just.. Wut. That's totally contradictory. D: