Je 'Taime... Why?!

[Devil Spawn Child]

okay, So, I like this dude, He's in 1 of my classes and We went to elemtry together for like 4 years then he moved. He just recently got back and its been 2 years i think, since I last saw him. yeah, he changed, but he's still the same guy I knew. We don't talk anymore, mainly due to the fact that I cant talk to him. I get butterflys even when he's near me. I cant look at him when he looks at me or I freak out and blush probably that much and look away to hide it. I'm on face book so we talk on there sometimes, but not that often. I finally got the nerve to tell him I liked him, so I sent a message to him on Fb saying: "I love you." But, it was in french. (Je 'Taime.) I told him That I wasn't going to tell him what it said and he had to translate it. He said "Ok?" I don't think he ever did because i was thinking about 2 days later and i felt like an idiot so I sent another message saying: "I feel like and idiot now.... Forget that message." And all he said back was Ok again. I'm freaking out because he's in my dance class and I sit next to him, so I was gunna tell him, but then he might ask me out, and I dunno if I want to go out with him..... Any Tips?

[My.Immortal]

Why did you tell him you love him if you aren't sure if you want to go out with him?

[yohomeycoolcat]

Its Je t'aime not Je 'taime. :]

Take a chance. Go ahead and try to date, but only if you think youre ready.

[Devil Spawn Child]

I told him because at the time I was about to kill myself and wanted him to know before i died.


I meant that....

I dont know if i should or not though.... im to inocent and hes.... not so innocent. .. nvm i m not that innocent but still. hes way worse than me and spent one year when he was away in Juvie..

[yohomeycoolcat]

I saw that post on your suicidal thoughts in the adults 18+. Please don't ever do that to yourself.....

But, if you don't think he's the guy for you, then don't tell him that you like him and you guys don't have to date. But you can still try. The guy I'm dating is a year older than me. For the one year we were in the same junior high at the same time (our junior highs in our school system consist of 7th and 8th grade) we had completely different things going on. While I was slowly rising to the top student of our team, becoming a well-respected pupil, and being praised as one of the most creative and understanding people my teachers had ever seen as a 7th grader, Tyler was getting suspended for locking Mrs. Thomas out of her own room and having to have the janitor come get the keys to let her in as an 8th grader..... But we are a beautiful couple. I never thought I would be dating a guy like him, and he is probably the most loving boyfriend I have ever had. You just never know :3.

[Devil Spawn Child]

you dated in seventh grade? My dad wouldve literally killed me and whoever i was dating.

You saw that? Yeah... I got reported

I dnt know if he even remembers me though. I asked him and he said maybe...

[yohomeycoolcat]

you dated in seventh grade? My dad wouldve literally killed me and whoever i was dating.

You saw that? Yeah... I got reported

I dnt know if he even remembers me though. I asked him and he said maybe...

No, not the 7th grade silly :3! That was a MEMORY of when I was younger. I'm in high school now. I'm also currently one of Miss Browning's best Painting students she has ever seen, and yet Tyler can even bring a pencil to Drawing 1 class XD.....

[Devil Spawn Child]

Oh. haha dumb me.

Your lucky though. He knows you still and remembers you fully. L**** thinks he might remember me but isnt sure.

[Twistedtooth]

I would just ease into it. It's weird going into unknown waters. I know that all too well... But if you have someones hand to help you, you can't drown. Just be careful, but don't be afraid to take risks.