please help. seriously, any thoughts, ideas, or advice will help!
okay, so I have a friend, lets call her a. now, a has a fried that we'll call j. after I broke up with my boyfriend, whom we shall call bob, she started going out with him. now, j is just a friend of my friend. so we're not really close or anything. sometimes we talk and we'd be generally nice to each other, but that's about it. and when j started dating bob, I was super cool about it. I wasn't mean or anything, even though on the inside, it hurt. but I brushed it off. well, although he is my ex, bob and I are still good friends, and we talk a lot. bob broke up with j a few days after they started dating [yikes, I know.] and now whenever I talk to him, she says I'm flirting, and some of my friends say that too. I'm not flirting with him, at least I don't even try to. but they say that I am. and when I try to stop talking to him, like today, he still talks to me, even when I tell him to stop... anyways, my real problem is that j is super mean, and one of her friends told her that I was saying bad things about her. of course, even though I didn't, and no matter what I say, she's convinced that I did. and today in front of some of our classmates, she started saying mean things to me and such, to my face, and accusing me more. my classmates just laughed and encouraged it. it was hard to make it through the day, and now I don't know what to do tomorrow. and my friend a sits right next to me. then when we have partners, j sits right next to her and tries to start stuff with me. well, tomorrow, a is going to be my other friend's partner, and I don't have anybody else to be partners with, so I'm worried about being along and that j is gonna start stuff again. please help. and I can't ignore it, when I leave she follows me. I dot know what to do, but this needs to stop. and if I tell a teacher, they'll make fun of me more. help!!!!!
okay, so I have a friend, lets call her a. now, a has a fried that we'll call j. after I broke up with my boyfriend, whom we shall call bob, she started going out with him. now, j is just a friend of my friend. so we're not really close or anything. sometimes we talk and we'd be generally nice to each other, but that's about it. and when j started dating bob, I was super cool about it. I wasn't mean or anything, even though on the inside, it hurt. but I brushed it off. well, although he is my ex, bob and I are still good friends, and we talk a lot. bob broke up with j a few days after they started dating [yikes, I know.] and now whenever I talk to him, she says I'm flirting, and some of my friends say that too. I'm not flirting with him, at least I don't even try to. but they say that I am. and when I try to stop talking to him, like today, he still talks to me, even when I tell him to stop... anyways, my real problem is that j is super mean, and one of her friends told her that I was saying bad things about her. of course, even though I didn't, and no matter what I say, she's convinced that I did. and today in front of some of our classmates, she started saying mean things to me and such, to my face, and accusing me more. my classmates just laughed and encouraged it. it was hard to make it through the day, and now I don't know what to do tomorrow. and my friend a sits right next to me. then when we have partners, j sits right next to her and tries to start stuff with me. well, tomorrow, a is going to be my other friend's partner, and I don't have anybody else to be partners with, so I'm worried about being along and that j is gonna start stuff again. please help. and I can't ignore it, when I leave she follows me. I dot know what to do, but this needs to stop. and if I tell a teacher, they'll make fun of me more. help!!!!!
