Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[Himalaya]

okay. so there is this guy. and he is super cute!!! and i really like him but i think he likes me but im not sure. he stares at me sometimes and sometimes he comes up to me out of nowere to talk to me. sometimes he flirts with other girls i think he tries to make me jealous. he is popular, im not... im really weird but i try to act like im normal around him. but he sits in my desk when im not there and sometimes he bumps into me! i want to know. does he like me? AND how can i impress him?! he looks most like harry styles and i look kind of like dakota fanning exept with dark blonde-brownish hair.

[{Winchester}]

Could somebody mature please PM me? I'm having a problem, but I'd rather not talk about it here.

[vympyre]

Tomorrows the day...
Tomorrow I'm telling my crush I like him by writing a note in his yearbook.
I hope it works out okay, I'm just a little nervous. cx

[Roonil Wazlib]

I just found this video about getting the guy to like you (I suppose it could work on girls too)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=blxplEy_TyQ
I highly recommend giving it a watch!
c:

[Lady Sabine]

Any other military SO's out there? I'm a Navy gf and it's getting kinda tough. :c

[Outlander]

I just found this video about getting the guy to like you (I suppose it could work on girls too)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=blxplEy_TyQ
I highly recommend giving it a watch!
c:

I completely agree with this video. You can't force someone to like you.

[serendipitydaring]

please help me, I NEED HELP IM SO CONFUSED

this happened only today

(you guys remember my crush rejected my offer to go on a date?)

well, when i got to school i was told by my crush that he was planning on going to a different school next year. not a great start to my day. but later when i was hanging out with my friends, i was introduced to this guy from the guys tennis team. I recognized him from practice. we introduced ourselves, and at that exact moment im pretty sure i was attracted to him. I DONT KNOW WHY. we just introduced ourselves and then im getting butterflies in my stomach! all through the day i kept thinking of him, and i was like "Oh hell no theres no such thing as love at first sight" and at the end of the day, after tennis practice and this new guy had left, my old crush (whom i still like) started to play tennis with me. I felt very queasy the entire time, because i felt torn. I had NO IDEA who this new guy was, but i felt like i was falling for him, and yet with my old crush saying he was leaving i was unsure. i finally got to the point where i was about to vomit. we stopped the game and started to pack up our things, and my mom had just pulled up. he walked with me to the car, and i on a random whim i asked, "so was this the date that i asked you on?" i expected either a no or no answer at all, but he said, "uh... sure. a friendly outing." i had high hopes that i could win him back, but now i wasnt sure i wanted to



i went home and cried in the shower(/.\)

[.yuanfen]

Hey everyone,
My friend wanted me to ask this for her. She's concerned about her relationship with her boyfriend.

Basically, they started out pretty close to each other, as she tells me, both of them flirted with each other, the typical way dating starts, at least, in high school. { I wouldn't know, I've never dated anyone }. She tells me that they texted each other a lot, couldn't stop thinking about each other, and they hugged and kissed a lot.
He began trying to force her to ... do it, and also text him with...that stuff, if you know what I mean, and it made her really uncomfortable. She wanted to give him another chance, so she told him how she felt about it, and they went back to "the cute stuff", little hugs, hanging out with each other, etc.
The first time she told me that he wanted her to text him with images like that, I wanted to suggest that she break up with him, but she seemed so hopeful that he was just not realizing what kind of a girl she was, not into those kinds of things. So I didn't say anything, but I did imply my opinion about him { I didn't know who he was, so their relationship is kind of like a degree of separation for me }.
All of a sudden, he's been avoiding and ignoring her, deliberately avoiding eye contact even when they sit right across from each other in her class. They don't text each other anymore, they never hang out at all, even during lunch or after school, and they don't even go out on the weekends. It's like they don't even know each other, and my friend feels lost and confused. To me, it seems like the only thing he wanted to get out of her was...you know, and now that she's refused that, he doesn't want to even talk to her anymore, but she is wondering if that means he's broken up with her.

So the question is, has he broken up with her indirectly? And how should I say to my friend that I don't think she should date him anymore?

[Outlander]

Hey everyone,
My friend wanted me to ask this for her. She's concerned about her relationship with her boyfriend.

Basically, they started out pretty close to each other, as she tells me, both of them flirted with each other, the typical way dating starts, at least, in high school. { I wouldn't know, I've never dated anyone }. She tells me that they texted each other a lot, couldn't stop thinking about each other, and they hugged and kissed a lot.
He began trying to force her to ... do it, and also text him with...that stuff, if you know what I mean, and it made her really uncomfortable. She wanted to give him another chance, so she told him how she felt about it, and they went back to "the cute stuff", little hugs, hanging out with each other, etc.
The first time she told me that he wanted her to text him with images like that, I wanted to suggest that she break up with him, but she seemed so hopeful that he was just not realizing what kind of a girl she was, not into those kinds of things. So I didn't say anything, but I did imply my opinion about him { I didn't know who he was, so their relationship is kind of like a degree of separation for me }.
All of a sudden, he's been avoiding and ignoring her, deliberately avoiding eye contact even when they sit right across from each other in her class. They don't text each other anymore, they never hang out at all, even during lunch or after school, and they don't even go out on the weekends. It's like they don't even know each other, and my friend feels lost and confused. To me, it seems like the only thing he wanted to get out of her was...you know, and now that she's refused that, he doesn't want to even talk to her anymore, but she is wondering if that means he's broken up with her.

So the question is, has he broken up with her indirectly? And how should I say to my friend that I don't think she should date him anymore?

Regardless, I don't think he's healthy for her.

[.yuanfen]

Thanks, I'll tell her.