Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Jaysquirrel]

me and my bf we hang out a lot and He's really cute and funny and I wanna ask him If he wants to move to My apartment we go to the same School and such And were on our final Grade till Uni And I don't know how to tell him Please help

How long have you been together?

[Kylee Hart]

I just had a terrible break-up with a boy I thought was better than that... Any tips on getting over him?

[thunderofthedrum]

I can't stop thinking about this guy.

So long story short, I am a freshmen and he is a senior.
We do crew together, but now he drives to the crew place so I don't talk to him anymore.
He is super cute and I have a huge crush on him. Like he is always on my mind and my locker is right next to all the seniors and whenever I see him, I blush up like crazy. Like today I was walking and he ran into me and like body on body contact. My whole face went red and I stopped berating for a second. He smiled and looked down and said I am so sorry. Like gaaaa, I know I will never be able to have him. But is there anyway to get him off my mind.
He is just to perfect and in crew he only wears spandex shorts and not shirt and .... *drools* I really can't take it. Also, I always stare at him when I walk by and I think he is starting to catch on. But please give me advice in any way possible.

To be honest, it sounds like you are attracted to him but don't KNOW him, and because of this are likely filling in all the blanks of his personality with *perfection*. It's normal but it's not reality. A nice daydream, but nothing substantial, if that makes sense.



Kylee Hart - what do you mean 'better than that'? Better than breaking up with you? Breaking up alone does not make a person bad. It means he wasn't happy, or liked someone else, or just didn't see the relationship going the distance and didn't want to waste your time or lead you on, etc. It's very normal to like someone, start dating, and as you get to know them deeper you learn that you really aren't as compatible as you thought, and it's also very common for one person to realize it while the other not. I felt it while my ex wanted to make it work, but that just felt like forcing two very different puzzle pieces together, ones with different backgrounds, different values, etc. Maybe it's not as extreme for you, but who knows.

[global concepts]

someone help me. my boyfriend is a junior and im a freshman and we have been dating for almost two months. he never told me that people bullied him for dating a freshman until today because last night he went to a party and everyone was really rude to him. he told me it's my decision whether we break up or not. i want him to be happy but at the same time i don't want to lose him. what should i do? we were suppose to go to laser tag tomorrow and my mom already bought his ticket. i don't know what to do and im really scared.

[[x]]

I'm really confused about if my crush likes me or not.
When we would sit near each other we would always joke around together, or he would tease me, and we would talk almost the whole time despite having to sit at the front of the class, but he wouldn't talk to any of the other girls around us unless they talked to him first.
The thing is, I thought he liked someone else in our grade so I'm super confused?

[Jaysquirrel]

I can't stop thinking about this guy.

So long story short, I am a freshmen and he is a senior.
We do crew together, but now he drives to the crew place so I don't talk to him anymore.
He is super cute and I have a huge crush on him. Like he is always on my mind and my locker is right next to all the seniors and whenever I see him, I blush up like crazy. Like today I was walking and he ran into me and like body on body contact. My whole face went red and I stopped berating for a second. He smiled and looked down and said I am so sorry. Like gaaaa, I know I will never be able to have him. But is there anyway to get him off my mind.
He is just to perfect and in crew he only wears spandex shorts and not shirt and .... *drools* I really can't take it. Also, I always stare at him when I walk by and I think he is starting to catch on. But please give me advice in any way possible.

To be honest, it sounds like you are attracted to him but don't KNOW him, and because of this are likely filling in all the blanks of his personality with *perfection*. It's normal but it's not reality. A nice daydream, but nothing substantial, if that makes sense.

Ya it does, but I do know him hahaha. We have a science class together because I am in AP science and I talk to him a lot. Also, I do advanced crew so last year I took the bus with him and always sat next to me...

[Horsegirlmadison]

My parents made my boyfriend and i break up because they don't like him. Not only do they not like him because of his race(which is really messed up.), but he is a couple years older than me. They told him we had to break up and he isnt allowed to talk to me anymore. I'm really upset about it and i don't know what to do.

[northern downpour ;;]

Well. My boyfriend broke up with me by telling me that I'm a horrible person and rubbing the fact that he has a new love in my face.
I was in a lot of pain for a little while and then I went numb.
But now I can feel the pain coming back and I don't know what to do.
The thing is, I know I deserve this, too.
So...
Someone please PM me, and don't judge me too harshly; I can't deal well with being judged.

[.sea]

So last year in my chemistry class I was friend with this really nice guy.
My friend said that he was attractive but I didn't see it. So she told me to talk to him for her, which I did. We started to talk and iI think he started to like me, cause one random day he told that he and his girlfriend broke up. I said I was sorry and then a couple of days later he told me I had something on my face and touched where it was. (It was charcoal because I had art class before chemistry).
Now I had a feeling he liked me and I did too. But I didn't want to admit it, then I told him I had a boyfriend, which I didn't. Then we stopped talking.
I have been thinking about it a lot and the other day I messaged him and told him I was sorry. And he said "are you sure you have the right person? We only talked like 5 times last year." but to me we talked a lot more.
I think that I have feelings for him but he just never did.

Should I just move on or try to talk to him again?
Please message me

[Oddment]

I just want to know one thing- how do you get over a crush?
Thanks!