| TheComfortCorner | v.5

[bark!]

I used to live on the other side of town my whole life. I moved. I didnt know a single soul at my new school, i moved up in school and i was nervous. The only person i did now was the guidance consular, and i will explain later why that's important.
So my first week of school, hard. Didn't know anyone, felt alone. In my social studies class i met this girl and her friend. I will call the first girl A and the second B.
My first couple of months at school, good. I meet a couple of friends, although i cried every night knowing that i will probably never see my old friends again.
Today, ok... i just have a problem. My friend who sits by me in Social Studys and Science is one of my BFFS. My 'used to be friend', A, told me (jokingly then) "I know who you like". I just laughed and responded. "Who?" A just shook her head and walked away. My BFF noticed this and asked B who it was. My BFF told me what she said, this is exactly what:

"So B told me something that you would probably like to know... she says that you like me and (my other BFF)" I just nodded, not understanding. "Of course, you are my frien-" She interrupted me, quieter now "No, i mean she meant it that you like us the lesbian way" I was shocked. I would have cried if no one else was around. I dont know if i should tell the school consular who i have known for years or i shouldnt. Im not gay or plan to be.

I am worthless....

You are Far from worthless, love, and don't let anything convince you otherwise. If they're teasing you, I definitely recommend talking to someone about it. As far as an actual question wise, maybe they didn't mean anything by it? Maybe they thought it wouldn't hurt you like it did. I recommend Talking to them, or someone about it, especially if it comes to them making fun of you or such. Stay strong <3

[Princess Taozi]

I guess it's just the fact now that I can't say my final Goodbyes and pay my last respects that's making me feel this way. Ever since I went to college i've been haunted by the idea that someday my mom would have to make that call or send that text that someone I care about has died. Twice already this year it has happened. This calander year not school year. But once in the 2015 spring semester I find out through facebook that our old friend Jim passed away.. This June (I was at home, technically on vacation to another state, but with mom) we found out that my grandma died.. Now this.. THe sharp knife of a short life as the Band Perry said it.. I'll never be able to listen to that song without a tear again. She was barely even halfway through her second decade of life. Her whole family has been through the ringer and now both her and her mother passed away in a car wreck. I can't go to the visitation tomorrow or the funeral Wednesday because I'm gonna be at school.. yeah.. This has been a pretty crummy year. Gonna be our first year without grandma at Thanksgiving. And what is this now? Funeral number 4? I hope 2016 brings better things, if we can even make it to the end of this year without one more thing going wrong... It's actually starting to weigh on me.

*Hugs* I can't do much, but I'm terribly sorry for you and your families losses, I hope that everything does get better <3

[miss believer]

I really don't want my grandparents to go down to Florida this year.
They always go, but they're getting old now and my grandma has been really sick and my grandpa just had surgery, and there's other stuff going on, and I'm just afraid that if they go, I'll never see them again. I'm not ready to start losing my grandparents, I still have them all with me and I know it's going to hurt so much.
I'm probably overreacting, but I don't want them to go :c
I'd really like a hug right now...

[Princess Taozi]

I'm switching classes because I'm bored and since all my friends switched out so I'm stuck with the girl and her followers. My new class is a foreign language and may give out a ton of homework. Am I making the right choice?

If switching classes is what you want or what makes you happy go for it! Homework is something you're going to have to deal with anyways and is part of doing well in school, so I would recommend switching out if you think it will benefit you in the long run, also jobs generally look for people who speak more than 1 language

[Lyren]

I used to live on the other side of town my whole life. I moved. I didnt know a single soul at my new school, i moved up in school and i was nervous. The only person i did now was the guidance consular, and i will explain later why that's important.
So my first week of school, hard. Didn't know anyone, felt alone. In my social studies class i met this girl and her friend. I will call the first girl A and the second B.
My first couple of months at school, good. I meet a couple of friends, although i cried every night knowing that i will probably never see my old friends again.
Today, ok... i just have a problem. My friend who sits by me in Social Studys and Science is one of my BFFS. My 'used to be friend', A, told me (jokingly then) "I know who you like". I just laughed and responded. "Who?" A just shook her head and walked away. My BFF noticed this and asked B who it was. My BFF told me what she said, this is exactly what:

"So B told me something that you would probably like to know... she says that you like me and (my other BFF)" I just nodded, not understanding. "Of course, you are my frien-" She interrupted me, quieter now "No, i mean she meant it that you like us the lesbian way" I was shocked. I would have cried if no one else was around. I dont know if i should tell the school consular who i have known for years or i shouldnt. Im not gay or plan to be.

I am worthless....

I've had the same problem. Explain to them that you aren't and don't plan to be. Chances are they'll understand. If they start laughing at you or giving you a rough time or not letting you forget bring on the guidance counselor. If you're confused about what to do about their reaction, feel free to PM me and I'll help.

You aren't worthless. Don't tell yourself that. You're existence matters to someone and if they don't tell you that it doesn't mean that they don't think that. And if they don't I guarantee that someone will soon. If you haven't found your talent yet, you will. Maybe you already have your talent, you just haven't realized it. I've met amazing artists who think they have no telent. There's this theory called the butterfly effect. Basically a man goes back in time and kills a butterfly and when he gets back to the time he came from the world is completely different. In other words, everything has the potential to change the world. You matter. You may be the butterfly in which the fate of the world tests on.

[dolan duk]

this vacation isn't making me feel much better.

my FAVORITE sno-cone place has closed into this smoothie shack. i know that's not a big deal, but it kinda is for me. my grandma is probably going to die super early, she's 63 and pretty young for dimensia. [ is that how you spell 'dimensia'? ] she did used to smoke, but she grew out of it in a YEAR. then she went to the army, which she became a general. i din't know why she has it, nobody does. my grandma doesn't even REMEMBER me!

and also, i've been getting sick a lot and i'm afraid i'll die from throwing up too much! i know i'm probably overreacting but still.. it makes me feel like everything is getting good for ONE day, then it's horrible again.

I'm a really horibble person, and why would anyone want to be friends with... 'Vomit Girl?'

[sweet tooth]

Need to pm someone, very serious topic concerning alcohol

[apollo.]

I feel awful
School was cancelled last Friday, so the place I've been working at for a whole 2 weeks now called me in and asked if I wanted to work, I thought it would just be a few hours but nope, I worked 8 hours that day without a lunch because I figured I wouldn't need one. Then 12 hours both Saturday and Sunday. It was the second worst weekend of my life.
Now I have two huge tests tomorow, I guess I get the math but our teacher assigned so many questions, it feels impossible to finish them by tomorow, and she'll be checking them, she has such unrealistic expectations, because honestly if I did everything she assigned us for homework it would take me about 4 hours every day, and for this specific set of questions, probably even more. I honestly could not fit that in, all I did on the weekend was work and sleep.
And this history test is suposed to be really hard, and judging by the questions he gave us, most of it isn't even what we learned about in class. He actually told us that our class average was too high, and this test was going to bring it down a lot. The only reason everyone did so well on our last test was because he made it really easy and structured to study for, and this test is like, nope lol just study whatever. If it's going to be harder, I know I'm going to do really poorly.

I actually told my mom the truth about my schoolwork for once, and now she won't stop hovering, and giving out "helpful" suggestions, and occasionally yelling at me when I'm off task, like that's going to help a lot. All it's doing is irritating me to the point where I just don't want to study anymore.

It just feels like all I ever do is work. I never do anything fun. I don't even know what id do for fun, lately everything just seems really bland and uninteresting and boring. I feel like I'm left out of everything at school, I hear everyone talking, but I'm not apart of any of the conversations. My best friend and I have grown apart so much it's like we're not even friends anymore. I feel like I have no friends all the time, even though I know that's not true. It just feels weird telling my friends anything because none of us are close anymore. I just want someone to talk to and hang out with all the time, someone who I can call when I'm stressed out and who will offer to help me out, or to do something fun with me to get my mind off things.
Anyway that's it I guess. I should probably get back to studying.

[gone,]

I used to live on the other side of town my whole life. I moved. I didnt know a single soul at my new school, i moved up in school and i was nervous. The only person i did now was the guidance consular, and i will explain later why that's important.
So my first week of school, hard. Didn't know anyone, felt alone. In my social studies class i met this girl and her friend. I will call the first girl A and the second B.
My first couple of months at school, good. I meet a couple of friends, although i cried every night knowing that i will probably never see my old friends again.
Today, ok... i just have a problem. My friend who sits by me in Social Studys and Science is one of my BFFS. My 'used to be friend', A, told me (jokingly then) "I know who you like". I just laughed and responded. "Who?" A just shook her head and walked away. My BFF noticed this and asked B who it was. My BFF told me what she said, this is exactly what:

"So B told me something that you would probably like to know... she says that you like me and (my other BFF)" I just nodded, not understanding. "Of course, you are my frien-" She interrupted me, quieter now "No, i mean she meant it that you like us the lesbian way" I was shocked. I would have cried if no one else was around. I dont know if i should tell the school consular who i have known for years or i shouldnt. Im not gay or plan to be.

I am worthless....

You are Far from worthless, love, and don't let anything convince you otherwise. If they're teasing you, I definitely recommend talking to someone about it. As far as an actual question wise, maybe they didn't mean anything by it? Maybe they thought it wouldn't hurt you like it did. I recommend Talking to them, or someone about it, especially if it comes to them making fun of you or such. Stay strong <3

Thank you both, and i don't want to approach them because i am scared that they will laugh and announce it to the class, so i think i am going to go to the concealer.

[hoofbeat]

I'm scared

Not something physical
Something mental

My grandmother has been ill the past few years, though lately it has been getting worse

She might die

That's not my problem that's really bothering me

My problem is, I might not cry
It's not that I don't love her, It's just that;
Over the years, I have created a method;

I block out everything that bothers me and think of something happier
I also get in these bubbly moods where I provoke my poor friends to no end
and laugh when they get mad

Though these strategies are instinctive now
I can't stop them
And I'm afraid I won't feel sad when my Grandma dies
help

(I know this sounds extremely selfish that I want to be sad, while many of you might have depression, though it has been bothering me

thank you

I can't give you much comfort but a hug really *hugs*
But if your Grandmother does pass away, know that you loved her and do care for her (as it seems you do care about her) and will most likely be sad...even if you don't show it, I have no idea how it would feel like to lose a family member but to me that seems like one of the greatest sadness many people experience, and I probably sound cryptic but you probably will mourn. Now if you don't cry realize that that's okay people put in these situations react differently and how you handle loss can be very different, I wish I could find a way to properly word this, so I'm sorry that I'm not that helpful :c

my grandma has dimensia, and this is the same thing that is happening to me. <|3

You cant change yourself, for the benefit of others, no matter how bad it sounds. You, your actions, your personality, your emotions, are what makes you, you. So long as you know on the inside that you love her, and that she will be missed, that's all that should be expected of you in the slightest. Habits are habits, no matter how good they can be at times, and again with how bad they can be at times. Stay strong <3

Thank you all

My main problem is my mom literally tells me I need to be more empathetic
She happens to be soooo emotional

Though I think I have this now

Thank you again <3