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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby skunkiii » Thu Nov 19, 2015 10:39 am

:c I'm sad, I need a shoulder to cry on, someone to hug..
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby Annebird » Thu Nov 19, 2015 10:54 am

I'm really not comfortable with relationships or any thing of the sexual kind (asexual) and someone of the SAME GENDER has been trying to get all.. touchy- feely with me on a sexual level and it makes me SO SO uncomfortable beyond belief

Today she tried to share a seat with me and was stroking my neck and I was hating every minute of it until I couldn't take any more and yelled at her. And later I was telling my friends and she over heard and started sobbing and now I feel like a pile of dog crap?? I know what I did is terrible and I'm really scared now she's gonna have my head and I feel at verge of a panic attack.
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby arabella !! » Thu Nov 19, 2015 10:56 am

ParadoxRemix wrote::c I'm sad, I need a shoulder to cry on, someone to hug..

aw, -huggles-. hope you're doing okay <33
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby Lyren » Thu Nov 19, 2015 11:39 am

BioWolf wrote:The girl I told you about. The one who hates me for not being a prefect rebel. All during lunch and one of our classes she spent being mad at me. She hates my humor too. Don't know how liking gore is something to be hated for. I tried to confront her, she acted like I was the bad guy. She treats me like 3rd class. Please help, I'm on the bus trying not to cry

I'm off the bus but I'm still kinda upset
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby β™₯kittyfaith2210β™₯ » Thu Nov 19, 2015 12:12 pm

I'm shattering
so much for being social and making friends
thanks "friends" now I'm crying
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby leverage » Thu Nov 19, 2015 12:18 pm

I don't know what to do, and I really could use someone to talk to, or at least someone to help me get through this.
I'm not going to explain the specifics of the problem. Lets just say my dad is really sort of disconnected, and he decided to disprove of one of the schools I'm applying to that I really like because it's not prestigious enough or something. But its one of the schools I like the most...it's still a really amazing school, even if I could do a lot better. I'm in the very top of my class, sure, but there's nothing wrong with a state school.
Well, instead of ignoring his comments like I usually do, I tried to defend myself, and he just railed on my harder. Now I feel bad about liking the school because he's the one paying for it and he disapproves, but that's not even the worst of the problem...
My mom defended me. I left, because I just couldn't stand the screaming of the fight...and it's still going, half an hour later. my parents haven't fought like this in years, and the thing is I know that everything my mom is saying about how my dad is so distant to true. I've always known, but it's almost hard to accept...
I hate listening to them scream and knowing it's because of me. I should have just kept my mouth shut. I don't know what's going to happen, I really don't know that they've ever fought so much. I'm really worried and upset...
I would normally talk to my close friend who shares similar...father problems. But she's away right now, and I'm assuming on her flight home as she's not answering. I just wish I had someone to talk to right now...at least someone who might understand, or anything.
I feel so alone, and it's my fault...
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby connoisseur » Thu Nov 19, 2015 12:22 pm

AnneBird wrote:I'm really not comfortable with relationships or any thing of the sexual kind (asexual) and someone of the SAME GENDER has been trying to get all.. touchy- feely with me on a sexual level and it makes me SO SO uncomfortable beyond belief

Today she tried to share a seat with me and was stroking my neck and I was hating every minute of it until I couldn't take any more and yelled at her. And later I was telling my friends and she over heard and started sobbing and now I feel like a pile of dog crap?? I know what I did is terrible and I'm really scared now she's gonna have my head and I feel at verge of a panic attack.


        you shouldn't feel bad about it. she shouldn't have invaded your personal space. if you were clearly unconformable, she should've stopped. either way she was in the wrong, you weren't. if people say you're wrong for doing so, tell them it was wrong for her to invade your space and touching you when you were clearly uncomfortable. if this continues, don't hesitate to tell an adult or guidance counselor.


β™₯kittyfaith2210β™₯ wrote:I'm shattering
so much for being social and making friends
thanks "friends" now I'm crying


        hey there i hope you feel better real soon.

        i've went through this plenty of times, and it is heartbreaking to realize who your real friends and fake friends are. don't let people that aren't worth your time drag you down. try making new friends, but remember friendship is a very complicated and doesn't happen over night. don't give up hope. pm me if you need anything else. β™‘
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Postby ghost queen. » Thu Nov 19, 2015 12:38 pm


      aaand i am falling down again.
      i don't know how much longer
      i can keep picking myself up...
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby ausgdghsag » Thu Nov 19, 2015 12:48 pm

bandages. wrote:
i can't express how much anger and
betrayal i feel right now. you know
i really am at the end of my rope here.
i don't even know if i have a right to be
upset because i guess it's not even my place.
but guess what? i'm mentally ill so i
feel this hatred towards both of them but
i'm guilty because of it. then i remember that
they're both liars and cheaters and i should
be proud that i haven't said some choice words
to them both yet.

first of all, how do you think i feel to be
USED by someone to date a friend? this """""Friend""""""
is supposedly on MY side in life, they said that
i could TRUST them and they KNOW i have
paranoid intrusive thoughts yet they stab me
brutally in the back like this.

ok let me explain,,,
my crush (m) {let's call him Tom}
and my other crush/close friend(f) {let's call her Amy}
are dating. my close friend knew i liked him for over
3 years and i always tell her how much i like
him, how i wish we could be together. now i heard
a rumor from a friend i made this year who's been
real with me from day 1, and she told me Tom and Amy
are dating. what really p'd me off is that they DIDN'T TELL
ME! i'm so angry and i had to go through 7 hours crying
halfway, and forcing myself not to sob in the back of the
history classroom when someone else told me proof.

my friend knows i've had... some issues with betrayal in
the past. she knows i'm impulsive and yet she goes and
dates Tom. honestly i feel so sick because i've had to
switch lunch tables, avoid Amy after class, avoid Tom after
class, and they act normal. except they've been sitting next to
each other. i swear that i just want to leave. i don't know
where to go, but i feel like telling my mom that i want
to pack my bags and move. i can't take it anymore. i'm
honestly so upset and i feel so betrayed. i don't wanna go
to school tomorrow. the only comfort i have is one girl
who's been nice to me, always asks my pronouns, talks me
out of being impulsive and aggressive, etc. what's sad is that Amy
and I have been friends since 7th grade.

this year has been one heck of a year. 3 family members died,
my dog died 4 days and a month ago, my hamster died of
cancer (i had to watch her suffer), and i've lost two friends.
honestly i'm ready to give up and cut contact with everyone
from my old life (EXCEPT MY BEST FRIEND, because she actually
is real with me and cares about me) and move on...

i have really bad self-esteem anyhow and i'm just really...
i hate myself for being a doormat and so oblivious.
i'm really something. hahh


        i was right.
        they are dating.
        i don't want this.
        they were holding
        hands and stuff.
        i'm dying. my BPD
        is choking me.
        i can't do it.
        someone please PM
        me...
        i don't know if i can make it
        through school tomorrow.
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby spooktunes » Thu Nov 19, 2015 1:06 pm

just

respect

my

PRONOUNS



IT ISN'T THAT HARD
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