-gadreel- wrote:I guess I'm just a bit upset that I spend time doing things for others and they take a long time to acknowledge it, and they never do anything for me. I know you should do things for others even if it's not recognized, but I mean, after 5+ things that take my time and effort and they don't even care really, I just, it upsets me.
No, that's perfectly understandable. It's human! There is no being of our species that does not get fed up sooner or later at doing helpful things and receiving the most minimal of gratitude.
You deserve the gratitude. They are just too self-centered to care to give it. However, that just shows how much of a better person you are, to keep on giving despite the fact, they don't seem to care.
My advice may be controversial, but in some situations, the best choice is to stop giving, especially if it only hurts you.
Hey, I'm here to say thank you for your troubles and time. Thank you for what you have done.
Thank you.