apologies. wrote:anybody that could help me out with this situation ? <3
so I have this one guy friend I’ve gotten close to within like,, 2 months. He and I call for hours on end on the weekends and text quite a bit. We also talk quite a bit at school.
while on calls he and I talk about him coming over to my place to binge movies and shows,, as well as watching shows and movies through face times. he asks me if it’d just be him or if I’d be inviting another one of my guy friends. He says he’d be fine with either options. And I don’t want to make it sound bad or anything,, because we’re way too immature for that type of stuff. But I don’t know what this means? 2 months of knowing each other and he’s comfortable coming over to my place by himself ? I don’t mind inviting him over, and I seriously love how we got so close but I honestly don’t know how the two of us got so close so quickly, and it confuses me too. When on calls he constantly says ‘love you too’ after I insult him or make fun of him,, I say it back as well :’> but, he calls me ‘bro’ and ‘man’, which I seriously don’t mind but when he does it throws me off? Like one second I think he likes me then when he says that I’m like ‘oh,, NEVERMIND. He just likes me like one of his guy friends.’ Which is actually pretty common for me,, I get a long better with guys at my school then I do girls.
okay but while we’re on calls he’s shirtless for more than half of those calls. I don’t really care for it, since I tend to get along with guys well, I’ve gotten use to stuff like that so I don’t freak out or look at it as a sign other than a dude being confident. He brings it up a lot though. When he put a shirt back on and said it was too hot 5 minutes later, I told him to just take it off then and he said ‘aw you would want me to do that,’ while grinning. I just laughed at him and told him to piss off haha
he also gives me his clothes too ? like his shirts and jumpers,, I find it super sweet, actually. We were on a call yesterday and out of nowhere he asks me if I wanted his rugby shirt,, and I said yes. He said he’d give it to me at the end of school as like a Christmas gift djdnsjjddnd aNd then he asks if I wanted a jumper he’s growing out of,, and you know I said yes. It’s super cute but I don’t know if it’s just him being nice or ?
aLSO. he and I are going on this excursion for school which involves a bus,, and while we were on a call he suggested that I sit next to him and use him as a pillow if I wanted. And uh, I said yes, obviously. He also suggested that while we’re on the bus we listen to murder mystery podcasts and stuff,, when I asked him if he cared if other people would find it weird, he just shrugged it off and said he didn’t care. He said if he got on the bus first he’d save me a seat,, and if I did first I better save him a seat. This is in 2 weeks so I guess I’ll update then ?
He also “threatened” to “squeeze” me to death,, he texted me saying that and sent a video of two people in a relationship hugging each other and texted;;
“that’s how I’m gonna snap you in half,, it may look like they’re hugging but that man was just about to break her with his strength. He’s an inspiration to me.”
Our conversations are pretty weird, I love them. But I didn’t really know how to take that haha,, because he sent a video of twO pEoPLE HuGGinG and said he was gonna do that to me?? whenever we’re on calls he constantly says he’s gonna squeeze me to death and like what simdjsmdmfjfn
I constantly bring up using him as a pillow if he ever came over to my place to binge movies,, and he’s perfectly fine with it. He says as long as my parents don’t find it weird he’s okay with it. aLSO. he brings up the fact that he wants to make a good first impression on my parents ? like he doesn’t want to screw up when he meets them,, I don’t know why but I find it cute ;w; ndndfhfhrjdk he also makes fun of me for being single.
I honestly don’t know what’s going on here,, like I think I like him, as in like like, but I’m not sure if he’s sending signals back or not ? he’s super confusing,, he gives mixed signals that’s for sure ;w; he said that he wanted us to stay close friends throughout our lives and I’m down to stay close friends with him. Even if he doesn’t like me back I love having a guy friend that cares about me,, but these signals he’s been giving me has mumbled up my thoughts,, I’m just so confused right now.
If anyone has advice on what signs he’s giving me that’d be great ! <3 I literally can’t tell if he’s just being friendly and being you know,, what a guy friend should be or if there’s more to this
i have many close guy friends but i don’t personally have a relationship like this with any of them. i would say he definitely likes you from 1) wanting you to wear his clothes, guys love that and find it cute when girls wear their things, and 2) wanting to make a good impression on your parents. i think this means that he wants them to trust him with you, possibly if you guys ever become a thing? because i’m pretty sure this guy likes you. and also with all the using each other as a pillow stuff, guy friends aren’t usually up to much pda with their girl friends unless it’s like teasing or play fighting, so this kinda cuddle-related thing might be a tell tale sign he likes you. that’s at least what i think :)
