♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

[BananaSocks]

so ive recently had this dream about a week or two ago
i was queuing up in my school canteen talking to my friends and accidentally revealed that i liked this girl whom
i used to be classmates with but am still friends with. she happened to be standing behind me and confronted me
about it and i remember being very upset

maybe its a just a dream and didnt have anything to do with,,, anything and im not sure if i have a crush on her irl.
i know i like her ?? not sure as a friend or as something else and im really bad at differentiating between a crush and
me just admiring the person or just liking them in a friend way and i know i can suppress my feelings very easily so i
guess what im trying to say is, how can i tell if im crushing on someone or not?

sorry this is probably very dumb

[vash ♡]

i have known this girl FOUR weeks and i can usually get rid of a small crush w ease bc theyre... yknow, crushes. NOPE ITS GETTING WORSE AND I WANNA PUNCH MYSELF

[Messifan]

all im gonna say is that my crush's name is Joel

[beeqlass]

hm,,, im not sure if anyone is gonna bother reading but !!

sorta a small question for you guys? what does it feel like when you go from just liking/crushing on someone to lovers? what does that feel like for you?
its been,,,, smth ive been wondering for a while i guess? bc everyone is different so everything we do is gonna be different --

for me, from going from crushes to loves,, the crush fades away immediately. but i know theres something more -- that we arent just friends or close friends anymore, but theres another thing on top of us being friends -- a better understanding and a much larger interest in em? i dont know . i know that we arent just friends anymore, that we are lovers, because i can just feel theres something more between us. a stronger bond or something, a better connection, i dont know. its been like this for all my relationships -- and i guess it rlly came to my attention more after my,, crush asked me out aha

just something ive wanted to share&& know from others for a while.

so if you want to share or comment feel free to, i guess? jgasdgfdagyf shRUGS i jus rlly wanna hear everyones experiences w this bc is such an interesting thing ;0 or,,, imo i guess

[Panther202]

hm,,, im not sure if anyone is gonna bother reading but !!

sorta a small question for you guys? what does it feel like when you go from just liking/crushing on someone to lovers? what does that feel like for you?
its been,,,, smth ive been wondering for a while i guess? bc everyone is different so everything we do is gonna be different --

for me, from going from crushes to loves,, the crush fades away immediately. but i know theres something more -- that we arent just friends or close friends anymore, but theres another thing on top of us being friends -- a better understanding and a much larger interest in em? i dont know . i know that we arent just friends anymore, that we are lovers, because i can just feel theres something more between us. a stronger bond or something, a better connection, i dont know. its been like this for all my relationships -- and i guess it rlly came to my attention more after my,, crush asked me out aha

just something ive wanted to share&& know from others for a while.

so if you want to share or comment feel free to, i guess? jgasdgfdagyf shRUGS i jus rlly wanna hear everyones experiences w this bc is such an interesting thing ;0 or,,, imo i guess

I didn't feel this with previous crushes, but I felt this with my current boyfriend (2+ years together now). I didn't understand why I didn't feel this with other people until I realized that it was because we're deeply in love with each other. It's something I haven't ever felt before and never truly understood until he told me he gets the same feeling. It's inexplainable and it's just so strong that you can't ignore it.

[Panther202]

𝕌𝕤𝕦𝕒𝕝𝕝𝕪 𝕀'𝕞 𝕙𝕖𝕣𝕖 𝕥𝕠 𝕘𝕚𝕧𝕖 𝕒𝕕𝕧𝕚𝕔𝕖 𝕓𝕦𝕥 𝕀 𝕨𝕒𝕟𝕥 𝕥𝕠 𝕤𝕙𝕠𝕨 𝕒𝕡𝕡𝕣𝕖𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕠𝕟 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕞𝕪 𝕓𝕠𝕪𝕗𝕣𝕚𝕖𝕟𝕕 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕒 𝕞𝕚𝕟𝕦𝕥𝕖.. 𝕕𝕠𝕟'𝕥 𝕞𝕚𝕟𝕕 𝕞𝕖!

ℕ𝕖𝕩𝕥 𝕞𝕠𝕟𝕥𝕙, 𝕠𝕟 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝟝𝕥𝕙, 𝕞𝕪 𝕓𝕠𝕪𝕗𝕣𝕚𝕖𝕟𝕕 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕀 𝕨𝕚𝕝𝕝 𝕠𝕗𝕗𝕚𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝𝕝𝕪 𝕙𝕚𝕥 𝟚 𝟙/𝟚 𝕪𝕖𝕒𝕣𝕤! 𝕎𝕖'𝕧𝕖 𝕜𝕟𝕠𝕨𝕟 𝕖𝕒𝕔𝕙 𝕠𝕥𝕙𝕖𝕣 𝕤𝕚𝕟𝕔𝕖 𝕨𝕖 𝕨𝕖𝕣𝕖 𝕒𝕓𝕠𝕦𝕥 𝟚 𝕪𝕖𝕒𝕣𝕤 𝕠𝕝𝕕 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕠𝕦𝕣 𝕗𝕒𝕞𝕚𝕝𝕚𝕖𝕤 𝕜𝕟𝕖𝕨 𝕖𝕒𝕔𝕙 𝕠𝕥𝕙𝕖𝕣 𝕓𝕖𝕗𝕠𝕣𝕖 𝕨𝕖 𝕨𝕖𝕣𝕖 𝕓𝕠𝕣𝕟. 𝕃𝕠𝕟𝕘 𝕤𝕥𝕠𝕣𝕪 𝕤𝕙𝕠𝕣𝕥, 𝕙𝕖 𝕙𝕒𝕕 𝕒 𝕔𝕣𝕦𝕤𝕙 𝕠𝕟 𝕞𝕖 𝕗𝕠𝕣𝕖𝕧𝕖𝕣 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕀 𝕕𝕚𝕕𝕟'𝕥 𝕦𝕟𝕥𝕚𝕝 𝕀 𝕨𝕒𝕤 𝟙𝟛.

𝕎𝕖 𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕖𝕕 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝟡 𝕞𝕠𝕟𝕥𝕙𝕤 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕙𝕚𝕤 𝕞𝕠𝕥𝕙𝕖𝕣 𝕞𝕒𝕕𝕖 𝕦𝕤 𝕤𝕖𝕡𝕒𝕣𝕒𝕥𝕖 𝕓𝕖𝕔𝕒𝕦𝕤𝕖 𝕤𝕙𝕖 𝕕𝕚𝕕𝕟'𝕥 𝕝𝕚𝕜𝕖 𝕞𝕖. 𝕊𝕙𝕖 𝕕𝕚𝕕𝕟'𝕥 𝕦𝕟𝕕𝕖𝕣𝕤𝕥𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕞𝕪 𝕕𝕖𝕡𝕣𝕖𝕤𝕤𝕚𝕠𝕟 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕒𝕟𝕩𝕚𝕖𝕥𝕪 𝕤𝕠 𝕤𝕙𝕖 𝕦𝕤𝕖𝕕 𝕥𝕙𝕒𝕥 𝕥𝕠 𝕛𝕦𝕤𝕥𝕚𝕗𝕪 𝕙𝕖𝕣 𝕕𝕖𝕔𝕚𝕤𝕚𝕠𝕟. 𝔹𝕖𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕠𝕟𝕝𝕪 𝟙𝟜, 𝕨𝕖 𝕨𝕖𝕣𝕖 𝕦𝕟𝕒𝕓𝕝𝕖 𝕥𝕠 𝕕𝕠 𝕒𝕟𝕪𝕥𝕙𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕒𝕓𝕠𝕦𝕥 𝕚𝕥.

𝕎𝕖 𝕨𝕖𝕣𝕖 𝕒𝕡𝕒𝕣𝕥 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝟚 𝕪𝕖𝕒𝕣𝕤 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕨𝕚𝕥𝕙𝕚𝕟 𝕥𝕙𝕒𝕥 𝕥𝕚𝕞𝕖 𝕗𝕣𝕒𝕞𝕖 𝕀 𝕙𝕒𝕕 𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕖𝕕 𝕢𝕦𝕚𝕥𝕖 𝕒 𝕗𝕖𝕨 𝕠𝕥𝕙𝕖𝕣 𝕡𝕖𝕠𝕡𝕝𝕖, 𝕖𝕩𝕡𝕖𝕣𝕚𝕖𝕟𝕔𝕖𝕕 𝕞𝕠𝕣𝕖 𝕙𝕖𝕒𝕣𝕥𝕓𝕣𝕖𝕒𝕜, 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕝𝕖𝕒𝕣𝕟𝕖𝕕 𝕥𝕠 𝕞𝕒𝕟𝕒𝕘𝕖 𝕞𝕪 𝕕𝕖𝕡𝕣𝕖𝕤𝕤𝕚𝕠𝕟 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕒𝕟𝕩𝕚𝕖𝕥𝕪. 𝔸𝕝𝕝 𝕠𝕗 𝕥𝕙𝕚𝕤 𝕙𝕒𝕕 𝕔𝕙𝕒𝕟𝕘𝕖𝕕 𝕞𝕖 𝕤𝕠 𝕞𝕦𝕔𝕙 𝕥𝕙𝕒𝕥 𝕀'𝕞 𝕟𝕠𝕨 𝕒𝕓𝕝𝕖 𝕥𝕠 𝕙𝕠𝕡 𝕠𝕟 𝕥𝕙𝕚𝕤 𝕥𝕙𝕣𝕖𝕒𝕕 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕘𝕚𝕧𝕖 𝕒𝕕𝕧𝕚𝕔𝕖 𝕥𝕠 𝕒𝕝𝕝 𝕠𝕗 𝕪𝕠𝕦 𝕘𝕠𝕣𝕘𝕖𝕠𝕦𝕤 𝕡𝕖𝕠𝕡𝕝𝕖!

𝕊𝕜𝕚𝕡 𝕗𝕠𝕣𝕨𝕒𝕣𝕕 𝕥𝕙𝕣𝕠𝕦𝕘𝕙 𝕥𝕙𝕠𝕤𝕖 𝟚 𝕪𝕖𝕒𝕣𝕤 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕤𝕦𝕕𝕕𝕖𝕟𝕝𝕪 𝕀 𝕘𝕖𝕥 𝕒 𝕟𝕖𝕨 𝕗𝕠𝕝𝕝𝕠𝕨𝕖𝕣. 𝕀𝕥 𝕙𝕒𝕡𝕡𝕖𝕟𝕤 𝕥𝕠 𝕓𝕖 𝕙𝕚𝕞. 𝕋𝕙𝕖 𝕘𝕦𝕪 𝕥𝕙𝕒𝕥 𝕀 𝕨𝕒𝕤 𝕔𝕦𝕥 𝕗𝕣𝕠𝕞 𝟚 𝕪𝕖𝕒𝕣𝕤 𝕒𝕘𝕠. ℍ𝕖 𝕙𝕒𝕕 𝕟𝕖𝕧𝕖𝕣 𝕓𝕖𝕖𝕟 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕜𝕚𝕟𝕕 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕤𝕠𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕞𝕖𝕕𝕚𝕒 𝕤𝕠 𝕀 𝕒𝕝𝕞𝕠𝕤𝕥 𝕕𝕚𝕕𝕟'𝕥 𝕓𝕖𝕝𝕚𝕖𝕧𝕖 𝕚𝕥. 𝔸𝕗𝕥𝕖𝕣 𝕗𝕦𝕣𝕥𝕙𝕖𝕣 "𝕚𝕟𝕧𝕖𝕤𝕥𝕚𝕘𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕠𝕟", 𝕀 𝕕𝕚𝕕 𝕕𝕚𝕤𝕔𝕠𝕧𝕖𝕣 𝕥𝕙𝕒𝕥 𝕚𝕥 𝕨𝕒𝕤 𝕙𝕚𝕞!

𝔼𝕧𝕖𝕟𝕥𝕦𝕒𝕝𝕝𝕪 𝕨𝕖 𝕘𝕠𝕥 𝕚𝕟 𝕥𝕠𝕦𝕔𝕙 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕨𝕖 𝕔𝕝𝕚𝕔𝕜𝕖𝕕 𝕣𝕚𝕘𝕙𝕥 𝕒𝕨𝕒𝕪. 𝕀𝕥 𝕨𝕒𝕤 𝕝𝕚𝕜𝕖 𝕟𝕠 𝕥𝕚𝕞𝕖 𝕙𝕒𝕕 𝕡𝕒𝕤𝕤𝕖𝕕. ℍ𝕖 𝕙𝕒𝕕 𝕛𝕦𝕤𝕥 𝕘𝕠𝕥𝕥𝕖𝕟 𝕠𝕦𝕥 𝕠𝕗 𝕒 𝕣𝕖𝕝𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕠𝕟𝕤𝕙𝕚𝕡 (𝕞𝕒𝕪𝕓𝕖 𝕒 𝕨𝕖𝕖𝕜 𝕒𝕥 𝕞𝕠𝕤𝕥) 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕓𝕖𝕗𝕠𝕣𝕖 𝕨𝕖 𝕨𝕖𝕟𝕥 𝕗𝕠𝕣𝕨𝕒𝕣𝕕 𝕨𝕚𝕥𝕙 𝕒𝕟𝕪𝕥𝕙𝕚𝕟𝕘, 𝕀 𝕞𝕒𝕕𝕖 𝕤𝕦𝕣𝕖 𝕥𝕙𝕒𝕥 𝕙𝕖 𝕜𝕟𝕖𝕨 𝕙𝕠𝕨 𝕞𝕦𝕔𝕙 𝕀 𝕙𝕒𝕕 𝕔𝕙𝕒𝕟𝕘𝕖𝕕 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕙𝕖 𝕒𝕤𝕤𝕦𝕣𝕖𝕕 𝕞𝕖 𝕥𝕙𝕒𝕥 𝕙𝕖 𝕙𝕒𝕕 𝕥𝕠𝕠. 𝕀 𝕨𝕒𝕤 𝕨𝕒𝕣𝕪, 𝕓𝕦𝕥 𝕤𝕠𝕠𝕟 𝕗𝕠𝕦𝕟𝕕 𝕥𝕙𝕒𝕥 𝕠𝕦𝕣 𝕗𝕖𝕖𝕝𝕚𝕟𝕘𝕤 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕖𝕒𝕔𝕙 𝕠𝕥𝕙𝕖𝕣 𝕙𝕒𝕕 𝕟𝕖𝕧𝕖𝕣 𝕔𝕙𝕒𝕟𝕘𝕖𝕕.

ℕ𝕠𝕨, 𝕨𝕖'𝕣𝕖 𝟚 𝟙/𝟚 𝕪𝕖𝕒𝕣𝕤 𝕚𝕟, 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕀'𝕧𝕖 𝕟𝕖𝕧𝕖𝕣 𝕓𝕖𝕖𝕟 𝕙𝕒𝕡𝕡𝕚𝕖𝕣. ℍ𝕖 𝕣𝕖𝕒𝕝𝕝𝕪 𝕥𝕣𝕦𝕝𝕪 𝕞𝕖𝕒𝕟𝕤 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕨𝕠𝕣𝕝𝕕 𝕥𝕠 𝕞𝕖 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕀 𝕜𝕟𝕠𝕨 𝕙𝕖'𝕕 𝕕𝕠 𝕒𝕟𝕪𝕥𝕙𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕞𝕖. 𝕎𝕖 𝕙𝕒𝕧𝕖 𝕠𝕦𝕣 𝕞𝕠𝕞𝕖𝕟𝕥𝕤, 𝕒𝕤 𝕒𝕟𝕪 𝕣𝕖𝕝𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕠𝕟𝕤𝕙𝕚𝕡 𝕕𝕠𝕖𝕤, 𝕓𝕦𝕥 𝕨𝕖 𝕢𝕦𝕚𝕔𝕜𝕝𝕪 𝕘𝕖𝕥 𝕥𝕙𝕣𝕠𝕦𝕘𝕙 𝕥𝕙𝕖𝕞 𝕥𝕠𝕘𝕖𝕥𝕙𝕖𝕣. 𝕎𝕖'𝕧𝕖 𝕔𝕠𝕞𝕖 𝕦𝕡 𝕨𝕚𝕥𝕙 𝕤𝕪𝕤𝕥𝕖𝕞𝕤 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕤𝕠𝕝𝕦𝕥𝕚𝕠𝕟𝕤 𝕥𝕠 𝕖𝕧𝕖𝕣𝕪𝕥𝕙𝕚𝕟𝕘. 𝕎𝕖 𝕕𝕠 𝕠𝕦𝕣 𝕓𝕖𝕤𝕥 𝕥𝕠 𝕜𝕖𝕖𝕡 𝕗𝕣𝕠𝕞 𝕓𝕖𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕒𝕟𝕘𝕣𝕪 𝕨𝕚𝕥𝕙 𝕖𝕒𝕔𝕙 𝕠𝕥𝕙𝕖𝕣 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕣𝕖𝕞𝕚𝕟𝕕𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕠𝕦𝕣𝕤𝕖𝕝𝕧𝕖𝕤 𝕥𝕙𝕒𝕥 𝕚𝕥'𝕤 "𝕥𝕠𝕘𝕖𝕥𝕙𝕖𝕣, 𝕟𝕠𝕥 𝕒𝕘𝕒𝕚𝕟𝕤𝕥". 𝕀'𝕧𝕖 𝕟𝕖𝕧𝕖𝕣 𝕗𝕖𝕝𝕥 𝕒 𝕤𝕥𝕣𝕠𝕟𝕘𝕖𝕣 𝕓𝕠𝕟𝕕 𝕨𝕚𝕥𝕙 𝕒𝕟𝕪𝕠𝕟𝕖 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕀'𝕞 𝕞𝕠𝕣𝕖 𝕥𝕙𝕒𝕟 𝕥𝕙𝕒𝕟𝕜𝕗𝕦𝕝 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕣𝕖𝕝𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕠𝕟𝕤𝕙𝕚𝕡 𝕨𝕖 𝕙𝕒𝕧𝕖. 𝕀 𝕝𝕠𝕧𝕖 𝕙𝕚𝕞 𝕤𝕠 𝕞𝕦𝕔𝕙.

𝔸𝕟𝕪𝕨𝕒𝕪𝕤.. 𝕛𝕦𝕤𝕥 𝕣𝕖𝕞𝕖𝕞𝕓𝕖𝕣 𝕥𝕠 𝕒𝕡𝕡𝕣𝕖𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕥𝕖 𝕨𝕙𝕒𝕥 𝕪𝕠𝕦 𝕙𝕒𝕧𝕖. 𝕀'𝕞 𝕚𝕟𝕔𝕣𝕖𝕕𝕚𝕓𝕝𝕪 𝕝𝕦𝕔𝕜𝕪 𝕥𝕠 𝕙𝕒𝕧𝕖 𝕙𝕚𝕞 𝕓𝕒𝕔𝕜 𝕚𝕟 𝕞𝕪 𝕝𝕚𝕗𝕖 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕀 𝕡𝕣𝕠𝕞𝕚𝕤𝕖 𝕞𝕪𝕤𝕖𝕝𝕗 𝕖𝕧𝕖𝕣𝕪 𝕕𝕒𝕪 𝕥𝕠 𝕟𝕖𝕧𝕖𝕣 𝕥𝕒𝕜𝕖 𝕙𝕚𝕞 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕘𝕣𝕒𝕟𝕥𝕖𝕕.

ℍ𝕒𝕡𝕡𝕪 𝟚 𝟙/𝟚 𝕪𝕖𝕒𝕣𝕤 𝕓𝕒𝕓𝕪 ❧

[Dawnstorm111]

I have this crush on this guy, but we're already friends and I don't want to ruin our friendship.

Some facts about him:
He's really sweet and nice, but very blunt at times.
We usually walk to classes together
He's never been in a relationship before (neither have I)
He has another "friend" (that's a girl) who's practically obsessed with him and makes it impossible for me to interact with him often
He sometimes hugs me and stuff and I think maybe it means he likes me (he doesn't hug other girls)
Whenever he feels awful, I'm usually the one by his side to make him feel better
We talk a lot, but we've never shared anything personal about ourselves
He has a twin brother who despises me

I'm wondering if I should tell him I have a crush on him or not. And if I do, I don't really know when. I'm kind of socially awkward in these situations. Valentine's Day is coming up. And before that, we have a formal school dance that's semiromantic (I'm a part of the dance committee, so I know these things). Should I tell him on a special occasion or a normal school day? Please help, I'm a mess when it comes to anything romantic.

[Pinesong]

I just wanted to ask someone's advice on here about how I'm feeling about something..

So I'm dating this guy and he's great- a real sweetheart, is always asking how my day has been and treats me with respect and kindness. I had a few doubts about him at first but we've cleared that up as I've spoken to him about it all. It's a rather new relationship but we seem to have clicked really easily. We used to be close around 3 years ago but drifted a little then really reconnected. He's a very physically affectionate person and is always hugging me and kissing me but he has told me multiple times that if I ever feel like he's being too affectionate that I should tell him right away- which I respect.
However, he's the first guy that I've dated as in the past I've generally seen myself as too busy with my own life to date anyone.

Recently he's mentioned that his parents wanted to meet me and hearing this at first kind of.. scared me? Although when we reconnected we seem to have clicked really easily, I'm not sure if I'm really ready to meet his parents in a 'meet his parents' kind of way. he didn't suggest when or anything, he just sort of brought it up. I'm not sure if it's that I feel like we're moving too quickly or something but I'm not sure if I'm ready to? Should I feel like this?

[Pyjaks]

I just wanted to ask someone's advice on here about how I'm feeling about something..

So I'm dating this guy and he's great- a real sweetheart, is always asking how my day has been and treats me with respect and kindness. I had a few doubts about him at first but we've cleared that up as I've spoken to him about it all. It's a rather new relationship but we seem to have clicked really easily. We used to be close around 3 years ago but drifted a little then really reconnected. He's a very physically affectionate person and is always hugging me and kissing me but he has told me multiple times that if I ever feel like he's being too affectionate that I should tell him right away- which I respect.
However, he's the first guy that I've dated as in the past I've generally seen myself as too busy with my own life to date anyone.

Recently he's mentioned that his parents wanted to meet me and hearing this at first kind of.. scared me? Although when we reconnected we seem to have clicked really easily, I'm not sure if I'm really ready to meet his parents in a 'meet his parents' kind of way. he didn't suggest when or anything, he just sort of brought it up. I'm not sure if it's that I feel like we're moving too quickly or something but I'm not sure if I'm ready to? Should I feel like this?

There's no right or wrong way to feel in a relationship, everyone has their own situation and goes at their own pace. If you aren't ready, that's okay!! He sounds really understanding and respectful of your boundaries so I'd bring it up to him, just let him know that you maybe aren't ready to meet his parents yet.

[parakeetperson]

I accidentally got a boyfriend yesterday

His name is Xavier

I don't like like him but he asked if I could be his girlfriend and I said yes bc I'm too nice to say no :')