Ah, romantic problems. Problems, that I’m apparently incapable of solving.
To start off, there’s a boy. We’ll call him J. J is both the most talkative and taciturn person I know. He’s great, to be honest. He’s funny (Well, not that funny, but him laughing at his jokes is funny.) I recently started texting him. It’s easy to text him and he’s usually generous with his responses and we are capable of holding conversations for hours. With that being said, I noticed that I typically almost always have to initiate the conversations. Lets say I message him at 11pm and sustain a conversation with him for a couple hours. The next day, he might message me something that’s relevant to our previous conversation - however, that’s far and few between. I noticed he won’t establish a conversation if our last one was more than 24 hours ago. So, I usually have to text first. It’d be easier to discern if I was bothering him if his responses were more vague and short, but they aren’t. He behaves in a way that appears as though he enjoys my company, but he never initiates conversations!
Any & all help is greatly appreciated