leopardess 20 wrote:Something about my crush Chen Lately, I've been flirting with my crush I really think that she is sweet. She works in a clothing store in the mall of the city where I live. When I go to this particular mall, I go into this store and I see her I talk to it a bit and it's fun and everything. She's very pretty-blue eyes and blond hair, I think she's sweet. Of course I really want to be with her.. How do I do that I can talk to her more while she works in the store but not that she is busy with customers ..
I'm aromantic, so I find it difficult to like other people. I don't feel attraction, or have I ever felt a sexual reaction from my past partners, or even friends. I've been asked out before, but unfortunately, I had to turn them down, as I don't even think 'love', is a thing. I could say, 'I love you', to someone, and I wouldn't feel anything right after, and I'd feel like I had just lied right to their face. But, I do have some useful advice for you. Sense I am female as well, I know a lot of things about my own race. For one, try to make sure she's comfortable around you. Don't say anything too awkward, but don't be afraid to try and get a few laughs or giggles out of her. Don't be too straightforward, give her some time to warm up to you more. Try your best to impress her, but don't embarrass yourself. Stay out of fights and arguments with other people, girls don't like guys that startup problems. Relationships with troublesome juveniles usually end up in an abusive relationship or a very bad connection between the two sides. Always be kind, and willing to do what she wants. Girls like partners who love to have fun.