WalkingContradiction wrote:-snip-
but I don't know how to find someone
I'm a socially anxious lesbian girl in a small town in Georgia
WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO
Find that one place that's queer-friendly, so has a bunch of queer staff? x3
wolfie~ wrote:-snip-
i guess im just scared ill be rejected when i admit. i said that when i admit my feelings to my crush that ill quit that app. highly unlikely i might just move accounts. so far im gonna quit, im not convinced to stay if im rejected.
basically can i just have some comfort or something please...?
*huggles*
DJ Spoopy Jim wrote:-snip-
I think maybe those things could just be because he wants to be my friend, but then I also can't help but think about the possibility that he likes me as well. Thoughts on this?
Well, why are you asking? Is it because you don't like him as anything other than a friend and are afraid of him making a move or because you have a crush on him and hope he returns it? If it's the first, you could just subtly make sure to keep referring to him as a friend. If it's the second, then you should talk to him and at least try and get a better feel of where he sits.
ReneBean wrote:There is this boy one grade above me (he skipped a grade, so he's my age) whose locker is under mine. We chat every day while we're at our lockers and we text sometimes. However, I have to start the text conversation. He's awfully cute and seems pretty cheerful when he talks to me, but I'm not sure how he feels about me. Help??
Best way to know how someone feels is to ask them. ;3
Billie Joe Armstrong wrote:There's this boy ive known since primary school. We went out once but nothing really happened during the year we were together. I was the one who broke up with him. We talked sometimes and were really friendly to eachother, a lot of people liked us together but i just didnt know. Now we are in academy and many people from primary still make jokes about it and still think we go out. The way he acts when someone does it is really weird he normally goes bright red or blushes. He keeps acting way to friendly towards me, adressing me with my nickname, whispering stuff in my ear, getting super happy around me etc. He doesn't normally act like this but i dont know what's going on, help?
If you really want to know, he's the one you should be talking to!
Elite_Reindeer_Squad wrote:Guys I really need some advice again! I want to tell that guy I mentioned a few weeks ago that I like him, but I'm not sure how. I don't want to just walk up and say I like you, but I'm not sure what else to do. Today I caught him and his friend looking at me and talking, and I swear I could see him blushing! (Also I know he wasn't making fun of me because when we did talk last year, he was SUPER nice to me) HELP WHAT DO I DO IF I CAN'T TALK TO THIS GUY WITHOUT TRIPPING OVER MY WORDS?!
If you're that worried about verbally tripping yourself up, you could go a more cliche way and slip him a note or text him.
vibranium. wrote:Well, I've been pm'ing people advice now. But I guess it's the time you guys could maybe do
the favor back in return. That'll be greatly appreciated.
-snip- Do I need reassurance or advice?
Only you can answer that question, tbh. I will give you some unsolicited, though. You're not going to move on from this guy until you actually want to and you actually let yourself let go.
Seasonal wrote:I'm not sure why I still miss my ex because in the end he was a completely different person from the one I had initially started dating, and he ended up being very hypocritical, but my brain likes to ignore all of those horrible qualities and focus on the happy times. -snip-
There's no big secret here and nothing wrong with you. You're just human. That's what we tend to do when people leave us: romanticize and even idealize them. I guess it helps us not be so angry or hurt about it to just remember the good things.
Elite_Reindeer_Squad wrote:OK here's the letter if anyone wants to proofread it
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These doesn't seem like an occasion where grammar needs nitpicked, so I'll just say I read this and it all makes sense, and I don't believe you've got any typos!
Pasito wrote:i (think) i have a crush on one of my closest friends.. i'm so glad she doesn't have chicken smoothie. I don't know what to say though bc she's super pretty and i told her she was pretty, and idk what to do
also, my guy friend (the one from earlier) and i got together awhile ago. though we are bf and gf, i kinda don't love him like that anymore, but i don't want to just say that because once he had a crush on another girl, but she didn't like him and he never talked to her again but i just want to be friends with him..? Help! he is a lovely person but i just don't feel it... and i don't have the guts to leave him..?
what do i do?
With the top bit, give yourself some time to think on it and decide what you want to do. :3
For the bottom bit, that's a sucky situation, but I think there is only one thing you can do. You both deserve better than to be dating someone who (you) have romantic and exciting feelings for or (him) feel the same way about him - or at least have been upfront about their feelings and talked about what each person wants and it ends up being compatible. You can't just keep dating him to try and keep him as a friend - the hurt will be 10x worse if you hide it and pretend otherwise. The rest is up to him. Hopefully, even if he needs some space first, he will cherish a friendship with you and want to return to that as well. If not? Then there are other friends out there who will be willing to work on the relationship - and that will be so much better for you! Sometimes we lose people in our lives before we're ready, but it does happen. </3
. Another tip, try to have a friend be there when he/she/they reads it. They don't have to be obviously watching them read it, but the reason for this is if he/she/they are like 'eww. I can't believe *name* likes me!' Pretty muchtje friend should be their to see their reaction and tell if you should hide in a hole for the rest of your life (Okay, don't actually do this, but you get the point ^^), or if their reaction is good enough that they are approach able. Hope this helps and good luck with the note!
