.sea wrote:Ok, I need some advice.
I really want another dog but my parents don't.
Last year we had to put my other dog down, and my mom is still upset about it.
We have a dachshund and is around 12 years old, I love her so much but I want a dog to call my own.
So I just asked my parents how they would feel and my dad said we aren't getting one because he doesn't want to commit to one for 15 years. Though I'll be moving out in a few years so I would take the dog with me.
How could I convince my dad to get me the dog?
(Ah sorry if this isn't allowed here...if it's not please let me know and I'll delete it xc)
I guess all the advice I have for you is before considering having a dog of your own, look at what you need. For example you say your leaving in a few years, I a guessing college. Of course your going to think " well, don't worry I will take the dog with me." Most colleges do not allow animals, they don't even allow small caged animals such as birds, reptiles and rodents. So they will not allow dogs or cats for sure. A dog is a 15 year commitment give or take a few years and it's not always wise to get one before you leave to college. It's not only hard on you, but the dog as well. If your parents want another dog that's fine, but I say don't commit with a dog unless you know you are stable.
Plus I don't know what your parents consider " owning your own dog" but my mom makes me buy everything buy myself that has to do with my dog, including vet bills. So also consider that as well. If you are not going to be paying for it and caring for it 100% it's technically not your dog and will still be a burden on your parents.
As for the whole collar thing, I appreciate all of your advice and I finally decided on no longer using the collar on Izzy. I mean it does have it's benefits but I also see where you all are coming from. I just recently started clicker training Izzy, so if any of you have youtube video's or ways that I can get her off of depending on treats I would LOVE the help. I'm kind of upset with myself for messing up like that with her

Like I guess I just never saw the small signs of her being scared of things like that. It didn't scare her too much, but when it did I should've noticed. So please, if any of you have videos on clicker training and getting her off of treats please send them my way.
thanks!
