Haven't been here in a while, but ah well.
Things had been moving pretty slowly for me last week in the horse department, but happy to say things are really picking up!
Transferred to a new stable (same one I went to when I was younger) and I'm working there all spring break!! After that back to regular lessons, until summer, when I'll be working again.
I'm really happy at my new barn because my previous kept me on trot poles & the occasional canter only from September until last week (even though I informed them I'd been riding for ten years before my assessment

) Now after one day I'm back jumping regularly as I was before I moved back to this city!!
Finally!!
@spirit - About the respect: the bond between you and your horse is very important, not even so much as just riding but out of the saddle, too. Groundwork builds trust & respect most of all. My barn just got two new miniature horses and I'm often asked to lead them on trails to get them used to listening to people. Since your horse is most likely not a mini, doing trail rides is great. Before you go, plan out where you're going. No matter what happens, stick to that same plan - don't let your horse go for grass or decide to turn down a different path if that's not what you've intended. To keep them on track, begin by gently opening whatever rein is necessary (if they're turning left, open right, if right, open left). If they're going for grass, pull up sharply (adjust how hard you pull to how difficult they're being and how hard they went for the grass). Redirect them more if they refuse, but never start by immediately going full pull and crop (if you are even using a crop, which may be a good idea depending on the horse).
Fun exercises: Trail riding, once again, has many benefits and may be a good bonding activity if your horse is not easily spooked and you have access to trails. Lunging is helpful, and you can ask your coach how if you don't know how to do it properly.
@chry - I am so sorry to hear that. I wish her recovery, any chance of it, and hope everything does get better for you.
@namikaze - You could skim through the monster paragraph I wrote above - trail riding & such?
@silver brumby - Ooh, vaulting sounds hard. I've never attempted it myself but heard good things about it - it's supposed to be the safest horse sport? Well wishes to you and Midnight!
@scarlet - Bindi sounds lovely! That jumping photo is magazine-worthy. That's too bad that things didn't go well for you at your show - new horses are always difficult, though.