so...im back after my Reha...more or less..^^, my back is bether and a bit stronger... but not fully healthy...
but in the Moment im sick again...nice...something from there...^^...you know its like when they say that after a holliday you Need a new one to get bether from the former holliday...
we also had the second snow this year...only a bit...but it was nice to look at from my bed...
horse had fun they really like the cold weather this Little fur-balls

they are still outside and luckily do not Need hay as there is enough old grass...
...but sadly snow was gone after two days or so(some Little snow is here and there to find...)...but it Looks like there will be more, hopefull this year it will stay white till xmas.^^
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~SilkyMoth~ wrote:Hey, I just found this chat. My mum has been asking lately about whether i'd like to go to horse riding classes but I have Aspergers Syndrome, (a form of autism) which means im quite anxious and unpredictable at times. I really do want to go to horse riding classes and I do love horses, I have since I was young, it's just im not to sure I should ride a full sized horse due to me being quite anxious about large horses.
Does anyone have any suggestions that could help me?
Do it
i know how you feel^^ when you like more advice you can pm me.
to be with horses is a great way to get together with People and still not being to close to them.
tell the owner and the Trainer you Problem together with you parents, they will find a way for you. maybe start with single lessons to times where there are not so many People there, so you can clean and tack your horse in peace with bether instruction of the Trainer and without being pushed to much to fast.
i have to say....an large horse may be easyer than a Pony....Pony can be mean Little spitfires...and i find its way easyer to handle the large ones...and its often more so with a well trained Schoolhorse.
sure they look big, but most are easy and nice and often gentle, and they will not give you a green horse or one you cant handle as bloody beginner -....they want to Keep there rider and get new ones like you to stay...so they will not be mean , but you and your parents could ask to try out a gentle Pony....or maybe they are nice and let you look at the horses and Ponys they have for lessons and see with what horse you are the best that "click" with you^^
Dont fear the first lesson, they will go easy with you...cleaning and tacking the horse, how to get on and sit, how to hold reins, how to stop where to put the legs...and then some easy round on the lung or lead around the Arena...
it will be fun, and when you feel the horse is not the right for you tell it the Trainer or your parents tell it to them, then you will try out the next time an other.
you will see, you will forget most things on the back of a horse or Pony, you will feel more free and happy. and you will learn with time some confidence
good luck and write how it did go, if you did go to your first lesson, and when you Need advice^^
@ Hime: --> i envy you... 30cm snow....is it still there?
did horses have fun in the snow?
how is Heta and Ty? and the Baby...does it grow and do you already see some more belly?
How is the riding going, does she work bether ? and how are you...you where also sick ...are you bether now or do you still need to stay in bed?
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