@Granix being a turd
I did give him a firm bop on the nose when he was trying to mess with baby (which is why he didn't get to the point of throwing stuff at her. She used to rear all the time on crossties and I was not about to let that start again, haha) and when he poked his nose out to try it again yesterday while I was getting her prepped, I threatened to bop him again, but he seems to have gotten the point as he backed off pretty quick and decided to just sit in the corner of his stall and glare at me. There's no barrier or anything to keep him from poking his head out, so I'll just have to keep an eye on him when I've got another horse there. He's fine when other people have horses on those ties so while I could install a stall guard, I don't think it's worth the effort.
@Enchanted
(I read your question about Hope's previous trainer, but forgot to answer it in my last post) Yes, the previous girl who tried and failed to train Hope had a short temper and favored a violent approach to discipline. She had 'success' training a few stupid, submissive horses with that technique, but Hope is not stupid and does not tolerate bad handling. If she doesn't like something, she tells you and if you turn it into a fight, she will lash out. She always warns you when you're pushing her though so as long as you recognize it and re-direct, she's fine, but this girl makes everything a fight. :/ We can't use a crop or whip with her either (though she doesn't really need one anyway) and I'm fairly certain it's because this chick lost her temper when lunging and hit her a few times so now she's terrified of them. Fortunately, she no longer works at my barn. Thank god for that. >>
That's frustrating to hear about the stall. :/ My parents and I have similar fights about my animals all the time. Every time I ask if they want to come see a show or something, their first reaction is "why do you spend so much money on this hobby?" and then it becomes "we don't like your dog/cats either, animals are useless, I'm taking 'x' animal to the shelter next time it sheds on my laundry/barks/etc" even though I pay for, and care for, everything myself. It sucks living with people who don't share your interests. :/
Do you have any handy friends who might be willing to spend a day helping you get things put together once you've got the stuff? If dad isn't being helpful and fighting you about it, just show him you can get things done without him.
Good luck on the results of your MRI!
Oh god, I was picturing a horror story when you started that knife story! Glad to hear no one cut themselves up! I'm sure you'll remember how close you came to a disaster every time you open shavings now though, so you'll be less likely to forget in the future.
@Mocha
Ah yes, the 'ol 'If we lie, we'll sell it quicker and then it wont be our problem anymore!' xP Most of the horses we get are mysteries since they come from auction, but the ones we did manage to get info on, usually ended up being nothing like what they were sold as. This one girl's thoroughbred was sold to her as a 'finished' schoolmaster with no vices. In reality, he's a huge ass. He kicks the walls of his stall constantly (hard enough that he kicks holes through the walls at least once a week, sometimes sending wooden boards flying into neighboring stalls), bites/kicks at people with no warning, and she has to ride him in a gag just so he doesn't take off galloping and bucking when she's riding him. He's thrown her more than any other horse has thrown a rider at my barn this year. He even managed to toss one of our best riders (his bucks are amazingly acrobatic). Poor girl is afraid of her own horse now. :/
@Nocte Luna
I'm sorry you're having issues with you BO. :C I know that feel and it's not fun.
@Shorty
Wow! If the saddle was bad enough to move that much, it must have been really really off. Pearl deserves lots of goodies for being such a good girl about that! Unfortunately, english saddles are designed very differently than western saddles. Western saddles are designed to fit most horses and the type of pad used with them ensures that weight is distributed nice and even no matter the horses shape. English saddles, however, must be fitted to the horse by a trained professional. It's fine to try a saddle before buying and fitting it, but it should at least be the correct width for the horse (or in your case, mule) so that it neither pinches for being too narrow nor sits on the spine for being too wide. A badly fitting english saddle can cause a lot of trouble, short and long term trouble. ^^;
Have you had it fitted to any of your equines or is it something you just decided to pick up and try out? I definitely suggest having it professionally fitted to whatever horse it is meant for and if you want to use it for any others, consult the fitter and ask if it's possible to do so with or without correctional equipment. My saddle is fitted to my horse (so he can wear it comfortably with no correctional additions), but I also had it evaluated for Hope and had the fit Okay'd with the use of a half-pad as it sits differently on her and could cause discomfort if ridden in without a little extra something.
Sorry if you know/have heard all this before, I'm super squidgy about saddle fit as my barn was not always good about it and I've seen good horses ruined under ill-fitting saddles. ^^;@Alyson
I agree with Enchanted, the invisible chair is an excellent workout for riding muscles. I'm also a fan of standing on the edge of the bottom step of stairs (with the balls of your feet being what you're standing on) and squatting. It's a great way to work on pushing your heels down and exercising your two-point and heel.
We were all beginners once. Your position will improve more and more as you get stronger. :]
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Wanted to give Granix a bath today after he came in from turnout, but just after bringing everyone in, the skies opened up and we had a massive downpour. :C So I guess he's staying dirty for another day. Camp is starting tomorrow at the barn and I'm beginning my new, full time schedule, but I hope I'm not too tired after work to do it then, he really needs a scrub down, not to mention, the attention since I'm not going to have much time to spend with him now.
He is otherwise good. And luckily, he was outside all day so he wasn't there to be all jealouspants while I was getting ready for my lesson.
Hope was amazing for the show <3 The manager was very surprised (and I think a little concerned, lol) when she heard I was going to ride her in it, but that doesn't surprise me as the two assistant managers don't like her and have had a hard time handling her (she still reacts badly to negative vibes like fear and anger so she's caused a bit of trouble for them). I'm sure She has only heard bad things about her.
BUT! We showed her! >]
I took her out to look at the tent before starting prep and she wasn't phased at all. Since that was all I was worried about, I knew we were going to at least get through the thing in one piece.
She was a little antsy about washing her socks, but she calmed down after a minute or two and had no more fuss. We're really lucky that she's exactly the color of the dirt she prefers for rolling in and has a naturally glossy coat as she shines up quickly and beautifully even without a bath. She also stood patiently for braiding, another first for her. We had no idea if she'd let us do it, but since this was an informal schooling show it wasn't necessary. If she didn't like it, we would have just left it and worked on it before next time.
I got on, warmed up, and when I took her into the ring, I went straight for the tent. J suggested I say hello to the judge (who was a really nice woman from our sister barn) and let her know that this was a baby in her first year of training and our intent for the show was experience, so I did. We made our attempt and it went just about as well as I expected, a little wiggly here and there, circles a little uneven, but we managed a good, fairly consistent pace and she was really trying so I was very happy with her. Our second test was a little better, better bending, better stretch at the free walk, but she was getting a little frazzled (I was on her for almost 2 hours including warmup time since my tests were weirdly spaced) so she was a little stronger and our transitions weren't as clean. Luckily, in B, you do most of your transitions between two letters so I didn't miss any, barely.
The judge was really impressed by her. She loved her gaits and how hard she's trying despite being so green. We need to work on bending and correcting her habit of popping her left shoulder, but most of the other stuff (funny steering and like) was just her being a baby and will correct itself as she gets used to carrying and responding to a rider.
We got a 60% (2nd place) in Intro A and a 65% (3rd place) in Intro B!
I'm so so proud of her <3
This was her today after a fun lesson. It was hot and humid so we just played a couple of bending games (which she really got into, haha)

And my favorite feature on her, her specklebutt <3 The roan-y lightning mark on her hock is a close second, but I forgot to take a picture of it.

Not sure if anyone got any photos of us at the show. Most people were hiding in the shade. :C
wow, that was long, sorry. xD