@Halter quarter horses; Umm yes, something has gone horrendously wrong when it comes to halter bred quarter horses; I can't even see how they would be able to perform the job they were bred to do in the first place, which is a shame- Hind leg conformation gone out the window, massive bodies tiny hooves, over muscled, short through the neck and just generally out of proportion. Luckily you still get your working bred QH's that actually look and function like horses and in saying that, I've seen some halter QH who actually look to have decent conformation. Just gotta hope the judges stop rewarding this kind of horse in the ring and the breed society amends the guidelines I guess? We don't have many halter bred quarter horses over here in Aus, so it doesn't seem to be as big of an issue here, but they certainly seem common in America.
@Hime; Glad to hear your arm's feeling better! Heta sounds like she's going pretty well and cantering bareback is awesome! It can take them a little while to get used to just the halter, but once they click on, they don't tend to have trouble after that.
@Purplerocks- Riding bareback usually doesn't cause the horse any harm, unless they have something really strange going on with their conformation, so don't worry about hurting her, but if you're still worried, just put a saddleblanket on and use a surcingle as a 'girth', so you still get the bareback experience and you give her a little extra padding

Also, if you're worried, don't rush yourself, you'll just end up more nervous and not enjoying yourself at all. If you only want to walk, that's fine, trotting and cantering can come later, as long as your having fun with riding Lace =D
@xxLeft4Deadxx; Similar thing as Purplerocks, don't go up the next step until your completely comfortable with it. Tell your instructor your not feeling overly confident about jumping and they'll be able to help you through it, either by slowly increasing the difficulty, putting you on a jumping schoolmaster to help increase your confidence. Just tell your instructor and they'll be able to help

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Not much is new really. Haven't been able to ride cause Donny started having this strange super subtle soreness/lameness which would go away with rest, then come back when in work. It got more and more noticeable and he lost all his topline in less than two weeks, lame behind, super heavy in the bridle and he just couldn't engage his hind. Let him rest while I went away on study camp, came back, hind end lameness still there but not as evident, so called the vet. I had a feeling he'd done something to his sacroiliac joint/tendons/ligaments and it turns out I was right lol Its impossible to say when he did it or how, but I'm wondering if he might have had a tiny injury there and that's when he started stopping at jumps, so when I gave him time off from that, it healed some and he felt better so would jump better again and so on, then normal dressage work and playing in the paddock pushed it over the edge, or he could have done it as soon as I noticed the soreness, its impossible to tell but would certainly explain his sudden revolt against jumping the last month or so. Either way, he just needs to go on rest for a bit and then be brought back to work with a bit of a rehab program and see if he goes sore again. If he comes back still sore or there is no improvement, then we look at shockwave therapy but hopefully it wont get to that lol It does give me a bit more time to focus on getting Reggie ready for a show and stuff like that. He's lots of fun to play with and seems to be very even mentally; you really only need to do thing one side and he pretty much gets it on the other side straight away. Its difficult to explain but I'm hoping I can prevent him from developing any onesidedness, physically or mentally. I also taught him to bow in literally one session, bit awkward still, but coming along. Next goal is to work on lying down lol