Marin wrote:Silent Raven wrote:Hi everyone. I need a bit of honest truth about this. So I'm beginning to hop in the saddle after years off. Eventually I'd like to own my own horse. I've been riding again about a month.
Me, browsing online for horses on sale, i found a horse that I really like. Its my favorite breed, temperament good, and sounds like a good fit for me. I haven't gone to see him. I can financially afford the horse.
My family isn't big into horses. My logical side says I should ride for a bit then lease before buying a horse. But this horse is tugging on my heart strings! Please tell me your opinions. Thank you.
I would definitely ride for a bit longer and then lease - I know it seems like this horse is a perfect fit, but I tend to feel that way about most horses I see. Chances are you'll find someone even better suited to you in the future when you're better equipped to jump into ownership, or if it's meant to be, this horse will still be on the market. Do you have a trainer? If you don't, I definitely recommend guidance from a professional. Regardless of if you're a previous rider or not, buying a horse is a huge financial decision and a huge load of work to ensure the horse is properly conditioned and in a good program. Because you're not in your peak riding form right now (I would assume since you have had years off) it is probably not the wisest to expect a new horse to 1) help you continue to grow as a born-again rider and 2) fall in to routine with a new owner that hasn't been riding for a little bit. So I would say ride longer, and then go for a lease with the help of a/your trainer, good luck!
^ This. I ran into a horse that I was dead sure was my heart horse. Was set to half-lease her about a year after starting to ride. Things fell through and I just kept riding. Eventually, just by spending more time in the saddle, I was able to find what I was actually after.
I highly recommend you get back in the saddle. See what you like and don't. Your tastes may have changed since you did it last. Do you want to jump? Run barrels? Ride for pleasure/trails? All of that is going to affect the type of decisions you're going to make. Ride more than one horse and ride horses with different temperaments. Some people prefer fast and forward and others prefer slow and reliable; all at different points in their careers.
Congrats on getting back into riding! You'll get there and, before you know it, the right horse will come your way!