Oh god in high school I was just plain awful Dx
I wanted a male black oversized GSD and an all black male oversized doberman. I wanted to breed the biggest and darkest doberman I could possibly breed and then win all the AKC shows and really "show" those "snobby show breeders" that dobes even in non-standard colors and sizes were still awesome. It was all how you raise them, I would keep repeating to myself. My doberman would be "good dogs" and have not one aggressive bone in their body. I had a breeder lined up and everything- said breeder appeared great on the surface but when you looked further you would see the bad. Like you guys, on a game that I played I found a dog owner thread and I started making these posts on it. And, like you guys, the good people there called me out on it and smacked some good sense into me.
I was pretty mad at the time. How dare they tell me my ideals were not only poorly researched, but very damaging to how the public perceived dogs as a whole. I stopped going there for a little while.
A couple years later and what they said still bothered me, so I did my own research, trusting professionals instead of biased websites for or against the breed. And you know? They were right. Everything they said was right. And then I graduated and became an adult. I still wanted a dobe though, so I joined my doberman forum, where they are all about education and not about covering up the bad in the breed (like a few other not so great dobe forums). And I learned and learned and learned and learned... and now I have mentors, people dedicated to teaching me everything they know, going out of their way for it. I have a couple lunch dates this summer hopefully with breeders that KNOW I'm not interested in their dogs, just so that they can teach me more about the breed. There are dates marked on my calendar to go to shows and trials to be taught how to handle their dogs. I even have that job offer in TN, solely because of all of this research and hands-on experience that I've gained.
As I grew and learned, my views on things changed. I have that forum to thank for getting the ball rolling. If I can do that for someone here, then I consider everything worth it.




















