Minuette wrote:Saracirce wrote:Minuette wrote:Thank you, Juke. I would like to keep this topic to only about Bowden, not about the U.S federal laws. We got him for free, anyways.
We're a family of seven, so he'll definitely get lots of socialization.
Um... not trying to start a fight or anything but you do realize socializing with strangers and socializing with immediate family are two totally different things, right? He needs to be socialized in a ton of different places, not just in your home or while out on walks. Also, it's not just with people but with dogs too. And cats and other animals, if you want him to leave peacably with them.
(RAWR I can't spell or grammar today xp)
I thought I said not to make it an argument/flame war. Please, don't keep it going as it's just going to be spam.
Giving you advice because people are genuinely concerned about the well-being of your dog is not "starting an argument." Getting offended and yelling at people to not say anything except how cute your dog is IS starting an argument, and is very immature.
People are trying to politely inform you that the puppy will need a lot of exposure to other people and animals, especially outside your immediate family and circle of friends (i.e. strangers to the puppy) so that it will have a better chance of not growing up to be insecure or fearful.
My backyard bred Boston terrier wasn't properly socialized with other dogs because we thought since she got along fine with OUR dog, that meant she was okay with dogs. We were wrong. People are trying to HELP you so that you don't make the same kind of mistake I did. They're not insulting you or saying you're a bad owner (although whoever gave you an underage puppy certainly is), they're trying to give you advice.
That's what people on an animal forum do when you get a new puppy and make a topic about it. They try to offer helpful tips and advice. If you choose to get angry at people for posting something besides how cute your puppy is, you're the one in the wrong. This is animal chatter, not compliment-the-OP chatter.