PickleTheBird wrote:It annoys me when my friends come over and they just take my parrot out of her cage without asking or like I’ll be in a separate room and they will take her out and she’ll bite them because she is scared and they will like throw her across the room and just UGHHH and if they let her out without asking their excuse will be “oh she escaped” but she’s never escaped her cage before
Omg, I know what you're talking about! I adopted a green-cheeked conure from an animal shelter; when he came to the shelter his entire tail was missing, and his wings were clipped in a really wrong way (all jaggedy, the wrong feathers cut in the wrong places, in some places right up to his freaking skin! [Like what the heck?? You're just supposed to cut the primary flight feathers, and his primary coverts were clipped, too!!! UGH!!] - but anyway, this means he was probably abused in his previous home, or at least owned by complete idiots who did NO research before getting such a demanding animal as a pet.
So, he has some issues. Like most rescued animals do.
He is rather clingy to me, which makes sense since green-cheeked conures often only bond to one person, but friends/guests/visitors DON'T understand this. No, he doesn't want some complete stranger to pick him up! Yes, of course he's going to bite!! I always warn people ahead of time - "DON'T pick up Kiwi, he doesn't like strangers" - I come back after leaving the room for 2 seconds and Kiwi is on the other side of the room, with the person angry and rubbing their bitten finger/hand. Then, they get mad at ME because Kiwi is scared of them and bit them?? Even though THEY just THREW MY PARROT ACROSS THE ROOM?! Like, seriously?!
But now, Kiwi is flighted, so if he gets thrown he will fly out of the room and come find me. One time this happened, and then the friend who had picked him up even though I told them not to, got bitten (rightly so!!), and flung him off, came to find me, saw Kiwi flying toward me, and THEN they CALLED ME A SHOW-OFF!! Like, WHAT???!!! My parrot is literally flying in terror towards me because I am the only one he trusts after you just flung him across the room!! How is that showing off???
But basically I totally understand what you're saying.