by Prinz » Thu Jul 08, 2010 3:14 pm
I don't believe in settledom of form, only settledom of personality. Sense, that makes lots.
Two years ago I was a capercaillie, and now I'm a horned screamer. But I still feel like I'm pretty much the same guy I was two years ago. Certain little things have shifted and changed or else disappeared or evolved into something different, but my "core" is the same. Perhaps to traditional settling-believers, this indicates stability rather than settledom, but to me it doesn't. I'm never going to be a hyena soul, a gharial soul or a bald eagle soul, true enough.
I'm always going to be some kind of bird or another that, though in appearance it may seem completely different, in behaviour will be extremely similar. I feel like it all comes down to choice, to a certain extent. I could be a crested screamer, I suppose, but I feel that horned screamer suits me better. In the future I could become more goose-like, or else more duck-like, or even more pheasant-like, none of which are far cries from my current form. But whether I do or don't will be a matter of perspective.
Two years ago I looked into screamers, but only now do I see things in them that I didn't see back then, and things that I now think I lacked while I was a capercaillie. Perhaps I will remain a horned screamer, or perhaps by the time I'm 30 I think that I may in fact be a musk duck. It's hard to say. Either way, I'll still think I'm settled as far as personality goes, but because between these bird forms of mine the differences are subtle, it is quite likely that I may jump from one to the other every few years or so. It doesn't mean I'm unstable or unsettled, it means that I change little enough to fit those subtle differences that didn't fit before, or else to not fit those of the previous form that were once fitting.
I mean, consider a capercaillie, a kakapo and a musk duck. To non-experts, these look ridiculously different. One is a grouse, the other a parrot, and the third one a duck. Yet if one were to compare their behaviour, habitat, etc. the results would be ridiculously similar. To switch between these three is hardly an indicator of an unsettled personality, but rather an indicator of shifts in said personality subtle enough to change form but not major enough to change into something totally different.
So yes, personality-wise? I'm all for settledom. But form-wise? No. It's all a matter of perspective. Lots of forms have wiggle-room which will allow people to stay in the same form even if they have changed enough for a similar one, and that's fine; nothing wrong with sticking to the form that you've had for ages, so long as it fits. I believe a personality can become settled and does become so over time in most cases, but a form can only be stable; should the person with said personality start looking at another (similar) form and decide they're better off with it, that's that.
After all, no rule says that because I'm settled personality-wise, I must identify with a horned screamer all my life. If at some point I decide that I've changed enough for Muscovy duck or crested screamer, then I'll switch forms accordingly while still thinking of myself as settled. Since unlike in HDM my daemon isn't visible, his form isn't fixed.
tl;dr - In my opinion, it is a person's personality that which settles, not their form. Their daemon's form stabilizes, but doesn't settle. You can be settled and still change form (to something that is ridiculously similar to your previous form). Your form is "settled" for as long as you think/feel that you are: some will feel/think that their form is the one pretty much all their lives even if they change slightly along the way, while others will switch forms [but stick with forms "close to home"] while still being settled in personality.
Prinz ~ ~ Hielichkzell