sweet_belle wrote:*Wolf* wrote:midnight1515 wrote:That's it I'm never gifting anyone anything valuable ever again..that's the second time I've gifted a shima longtail to someone out of the blue and the person just traded it away like it was nothing...I know the whole "it's their pet they can do whatever they want with it" thing but they said it was a dream pet and then they just trade it away, I fell for the whole "I promise to take such good care of it" thing, gosh I'm way to nice sometimes >.< Fantastic thing to wake up to, I'll just stack onto the horrible day I had yesterday -.-" They traded it off to a hoarder which I'm not mad about I mean good for the hoarder that they added to their hoard but my feeling's are hurt none the less.♥*hugs* Oh my, I'm so sorry. If I was that person, I'd be ashamed. That's terrible DX♥
thats . . . awful. i dont think ive been gifted anything THAT valuable, but i feel bad even trading things that i get in generous trades. thats just . . . why?
- Well, it's natural to feel a little sad when a special gift you gave is traded/given away, but you must understand that the person who traded it away must've gotten something else that made them really happy. Or that they traded it away to make someone else really happy, which is even better. The greatest part of giving gifts is solely to bring joy to one another, so think about that next time someone trades away a gift you'd consider valuable or special.
I got a Devil PPS from the Dec. box last year, and I gifted him to someone I knew would love him to death. I did like the pet, but I knew I could make someone else even more happy with it. When I found out it was traded away shortly after, I was definitely a little sad. But then to get past it I realized that they must've traded it away for something in their eyes was even better. Then I realized why I gave them the gift in the first place, and I was fine with the fact they traded it. So you should be too. C:
