I have a trade to gripe about now. I've noticed in the two actual trades I've posted here, my issues are mostly with lack of clear communication. Hm.
Their side: GPPS. (Coraline mask faced, so I hear them called.)
My side: Nothing, but a message:
Hello what do you want for this I have some of yr wishlist pets around in my groups I think?
This was after I uploaded my little button set in my signature. Obviously they're talking about the regular wishlist, which happens to have many early 09's and a few later 08's in it. I assume they've seen my wishlist. I look around their trades and find nothing I really want or don't have already, but I find pets on my wishlist in groups not offered for trade. I send back an empty suggestion with this message: "I do see a few, but they're outside of your trades group. Will you be willing to trade some of those?" They reply:
Yup!
Cool. I look through and found two pets on that were on my list. One Jan 09 and one butterfly wolf (July 09, and rare.) I find it better to offer on the January dog, as I've had successful trades like that, but in my suggestion back (Which asked if the trade was alright in the first place) I asked about the butterfly wolf, and if I had anything they would want to trade for it. I wait about two days and it's cancelled with this message:
I only got 1 of them
...Okay. So first they tell me I
can offer on pets outside of the trading group, as they believe they have pets from my wishlist. Which many only have one. I be careful, sending back only suggestions, annnd they cancel it like I was offering on off-limits pets. A bit of a head scratcher.
I could understand if they thought the trade was unfair, but I would've liked to know that. They could've told me to pick something else, but decided not to. They could've even answered my question about the wolf (Which may have been included in "I only got 1 of them"), but that's rather unclear. It's more unclear to me when they gave me permission to look at untradable groups, that they believed would have been on my wishlist. (I have a slight inkling they saw the word "Wishlist" and didn't look at it, then hoping they had some on it. I'm not pleased at that idea.)