by nickjr » Sat May 19, 2018 10:57 am
From someone who voted "I don't know but want to participate" and who often takes that option when voting anywhere if applicable and possible (yes I am embarrassed that the poll on one of my popular suggestion threads lacks an "abstain" option -crawls into hole-):
"I did not vote" in any situation often connotes either a logistical barrier to voting (e.g. physically unable to access polling place) or a lack of any kind of caring about the topic at hand, sometimes even just deliberate ignorance.
"Abstain" in any situation often connotes "I am aware of the situation and I am aware, to some degree, of both sides and I do not have a particularly strong opinion for either side"
so of course it's pretty awkward when one or both of those options is unavailable because then you have to follow up your answer to the question "Who/What did you vote for?" with the qualifier "because __________"
Reminds me of what happened one time in my choral group when we were voting on which songs to include in one of our concerts and it was a really close vote for the last song... I was one of literally 3 people who were present but did not vote (in our group of like 35+ members) and I was the most vocal non-voter saying "If we include song X, great! If we include song Y instead, great! I do not have a strong opinion either way! If I vote, I am misrepresenting my opinion!"
"But surely you must like one song more than the other!"
"Actually no I like them for different reasons but at the same magnitude overall"
It's nice to see an "abstain" option because it shows us how many people are, in fact, aware of the situation but simply do not feel strongly enough towards any option to vote for them. (It also opens up the possibility of that option getting a majority of votes, at which point we say "oh... well... dang...... I guess the CS community actually doesn't know and we're just hearing the vocal people")
And then, of course, there's the fact that some people may feel obligated to vote anyway (e.g. what if I wasn't so indignant and I gave in to my choral group's pressures and the director still didn't add an "abstain" option to the voting?
edit: they're really a great group lol this is literally my single gripe with them)
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