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Why is being gay so hard ffs

I don't think I'm bi but I don't think I'm a lesbian either. I think I'm bisexually homoromantic but that doesn't feel right either! I wish it could just be easy lol I also don't want to think I just needed to "pick a side" or that I used being bi as a bridge to becoming a lesbian because I know so many bisexual people get that all the time and I don't want to feed into that being true

Like i feel like I could date a guy but I don't know?? I never had a boyfriend but for some reason I feel like I'd be more inclined to date a girl. I DONT KNOW I JUST WANT TO SLEEP NOT WORRY ABOUT ME ;-;

[Lex.]

i feel you, my sexuality is so specific, and it's pretty fluid depending on what I'm feeling like (TvT)

[~Vincent-Valentine~]

Bro
I can't even decide if I'm genderfluid or not! Or even demigirl, for that matter!

[pupper.exe]

homoflexible sis

[spiders]

don't feel pressured to put a label on yourself <3 you are who you are and that is good enough !!
(but i really do feel this in my soul, you got this though!)

[SmokyOni]

homoflexible sis

💪 C’mon gang

I feel you bro u__u
Don’t pressure yourself into assigning any labels and stressing yourself, being yourself matters first, and if the labels are easier to apply when you’re more comfortable, then so be it. Take care of yourself dude mwah

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Thank you guys! I didn't expect to get so many comments but I guess this is pretty relatable after all lol. I'm glad some of you guys got it figured out, even if it's super specific and it took a while to get there.

Homoflexible is probably what makes the most sense for me, so I'll try my hand is using that more

And thank you guys for reassuring me as well! I know labels aren't important since my sexuality is mine alone but I find them helpful. It makes it easy to not think about it if I just have a word for it?? Idk if that makes sense but yeah

Long story short, thanks for the comments! You guys are really helpful and you cheered me up for sure ;;

[Alphias]

*hugs*

I wasn't sure for a few years myself... and even now I question it sometimes.

[cinnamon bunny]

I went through this when I was bisexual a few years ago. It took me 2 years to figure out I was gay, so you don't need to feel like you have to be rushed into "a side". Truth is, there aren't such things as "sides". Who you are is who you are, not a "side". Don't stress about this <3 Don't feel pressured to put a label on yourself! You don't need labels. Take your time to figure out who you are, there's no rush at all. ^w^

[Wings.mov]

*hugs*

I wasn't sure for a few years myself... and even now I question it sometimes.

Thank you for the hug ;; It's easy for me to forget that it takes forever to put your finger on a label and I'm happy you found something that fits you(most of the time lol)

I went through this when I was bisexual a few years ago. It took me 2 years to figure out I was gay, so you don't need to feel like you have to be rushed into "a side". Truth is, there aren't such things as "sides". Who you are is who you are, not a "side". Don't stress about this <3 Don't feel pressured to put a label on yourself! You don't need labels. Take your time to figure out who you are, there's no rush at all. ^w^

That's really reassuring!! Thank you for telling me your experience and you're super sweet ;;