- You don’t help a plant grow by berating it for not being big enough yet or comparing it to other plants that have grown faster - you help it grow by giving it the water and soil and fertilizer and space and sunlight it needs to give it the best chance of flourishing.
And if it needs it, you give it something to lean against to help it grow tall if it’s struggling to stand up by itself. So be patient with yourself, okay? I promise, you will blossom in your own time.